Guys why ask girls these things

[Allover Kelly]

Well time to vent a little. I have been out a bunch and even when I go to parties and talk with guys. Most are older but even ones my age ask these things. OK, OK most times the guys have had a drink or more and or might be stoned.

Don't ask these PLEASE
Do you like anal
Are you shaved
Have you been with girls
How big are your Boobs
Can you spend the night with me.
If we make out what can we do
Are you a virgin
What kind of underwear do you have on or do you wear thongs.
Would you go out with a Black or Latin guy
How old do you like your guys to be
Do you want a drink or drugs
Do you feet hurt in those heels you have on

Thank You for letting me vent, as my Dad calls it.

[Natacha]

I agree. Those are stupid questions to ask in the open like that. Some guys have no filter.
I doesn't happen a lot in Denmark, but some guys don't have that connect feeling of the situation

[ska8er]

Theyre looking for a prospectus.

[Taylorrrb]

Agreed..these questions make a conversation pretty awkward

[AshleighB]

A lot of guys also ask these questions here too, None are asking out of curiosity most are perverted and trying to get off on them, that’s the way I feel anyway

[Caycedilla]

Most of these questions look like complete conversation enders :lol: I don’t consider many of that normal conversation (except maybe the last one or two)

[Pultost]

Most of these questions look like complete conversation enders :lol: I don’t consider many of that normal conversation (except maybe the last one or two)

Yeah the last two are alright, they're not that personal or creepy, unlike the rest of the list.

[jasondrums]

I could see asking someone if they wanted a drink if we're at a party with booze and I'm going to get something but I am definitely not opening up with "OMG SO DO YOU LIKE BUTT STUFF OR NAH!?" or anything else on that list.

[Gazebo]

I mean I don’t know what kinda guys you’re around but I have never encountered anyone who has been creepy enough to ask any of this

[Allover Kelly]

Seems the drunker or how stoned they are the stranger the things they ask. Like no filters

[Jordan99]

I've been to a few Frat parties and have had some drunk guys (and even some completely sober guys) ask questions like these. I IMMEDIATELY walk away and go join up with my friends. If I'm with my friends and a guy approaches and becomes inappropriate, my guy friends and even my BFF will step in for me and run these guys off. Be careful at the parties, Kelly. You're a pretty girl and very young. If these predators can get you drunk or slip something in your drink they'll take advantage of you.

[Oscar-V3.0]

Well time to vent a little. I have been out a bunch and even when I go to parties and talk with guys. Most are older but even ones my age ask these things. OK, OK most times the guys have had a drink or more and or might be stoned.

Don't ask these PLEASE
Do you like anal
Are you shaved
Have you been with girls
How big are your Boobs
Can you spend the night with me.
If we make out what can we do
Are you a virgin
What kind of underwear do you have on or do you wear thongs.
Would you go out with a Black or Latin guy
How old do you like your guys to be
Do you want a drink or drugs
Do you feet hurt in those heels you have on

Thank You for letting me vent, as my Dad calls it.

Is it your bf asking this? Or just other guy?

[EvaNL]

I always get real sassy when guys ask me those things...

"None of your business" is one of my standard answers.
To a question like "Can you spend the night with me" I would answer something like "I could.. if I wanted to. But I don't.". And to "How old do you like your guys to be" I would say "Younger/older than you".
And those are the nice answers.

[Katie2003]

A lot of guys also ask these questions here too, None are asking out of curiosity most are perverted and trying to get off on them, that’s the way I feel anyway

My thinking exactly. There's only one reason a boy would ask such questions, and it's because they want the excitement of hearing the answers. Many of them are also trying to get into the girl's pants and think that if a girl is open about answering such questions, she's easy and they will be in her pants right away.

One of my girl friends slapped the shit out of a boy who talked to her like that in the hallway at school. I've told any number of boys how dangerous it would be for them to pursue such a line of questioning with me as soon as they started. Just standing frozen, staring hard at them and saying "Really????" followed by "you seriously want to know (and I repeat their question)" quite loudly usually shuts them up in a hurry.

When a boy here on VT messages me with such questions, and that happens pretty often even though I've made it clear that I'm queer and like other girls, I call them out on it and tell them to grow up and learn to respect girls.

[Oscar-V3.0]

I always get real sassy when guys ask me those things...

"None of your business" is one of my standard answers.
To a question like "Can you spend the night with me" I would answer something like "I could.. if I wanted to. But I don't.". And to "How old do you like your guys to be" I would say "Younger/older than you".
And those are the nice answers.

I love the answers :D

[jamie_n5]

I agree those things are basically inappropriate.

[breaux]

yeah idk, i wouldnt take it personal at all if it came from a drunk person.. they've more than likely just had a lil too much to drink and forgotten to filter.. in my culture at least, it's just seen as innocent fun and i've definitely experienced girls asking questions like that when drunk too

[Ashley2004]

I'd be happy if guys here would stop all discussions about penis size.

[Jordan99]

i'd be happy if guys here would stop all discussions about penis size.
agreed!!!!!

[wrecked]

They can’t help it, they’re very insecure about their baby carrots

That might be true for some guys but for me i only post an answer to a "size" question because i like talking about my penis with girls ........lol:wub::wub::wub:

[RileyX]

Guys are curious and weird, that just about sums up why

[Katie2003]

I'd be happy if guys here would stop all discussions about penis size.

I've seen plenty of naked boys and men at the naturist resorts my family attends since I was a little girl. My observation is that those who are the most vocal and curious about others are usually among the smallest themselves. :)

[xSashax]

Personally I actually don’t mind those questions although it’s quite silly. I know it’s silly but I wanna know similar things from boys. If a guy is cute, I wanna check out his body and see how big he is and whether he’s shaved or not etc....

[Jamie48169]

Well time to vent a little. I have been out a bunch and even when I go to parties and talk with guys. Most are older but even ones my age ask these things. OK, OK most times the guys have had a drink or more and or might be stoned.

Don't ask these PLEASE
Do you like anal
Are you shaved
Have you been with girls
How big are your Boobs
Can you spend the night with me.
If we make out what can we do
Are you a virgin
What kind of underwear do you have on or do you wear thongs.
Would you go out with a Black or Latin guy
How old do you like your guys to be
Do you want a drink or drugs
Do you feet hurt in those heels you have on

Thank You for letting me vent, as my Dad calls it.

There are a couple of these I don't mind under the right circumstances. "Do you want a drink?" This isn't a bad question under the correct circumstances. Most of these however are not questions that would come up in a normal conversation, so they would be coming up in an intimate conversation I am having with someone. Some of them are just outright stupid.

"Are you shaved?" You will find out if your lucky. Same with "Do you like anal?" For the record, yes and sometimes.

[Jamie48169]

They can’t help it, they’re very insecure about their baby carrots

This reminds me of a picture I saw once. Guy is flashing a women in a grocery store and her response was. "Thanks for reminding me I need baby carrots and cherry tomatoes."

[Common.Name]

Agreed..these questions make a conversation pretty awkward

Yep~!

[Lila123]

They can’t help it, they’re very insecure about their baby carrots

I had this kid who talked about how big and hairy his penis was, so my friends and I waited until he was shirtless. One friend filmed it and two of us pulled his underwear down. She held the pants down for 5 minutes. He was quite small and hairless.

[Turbofan explosion]

I don't ever ask these things, though I think other guys should stop asking people, whether asking a boy or girl, those inappropriate questions. Unless it is their best friend.

[Maxbreak]

Boys thinking with their hormones rather than their brains!

[HardCandyGirl]

I'd expect those questions from a boyfriend or something, but "Hi, do you like anal?" :eek3:

[Caitigrrl]

I had this kid who talked about how big and hairy his penis was, so my friends and I waited until he was shirtless. One friend filmed it and two of us pulled his underwear down. She held the pants down for 5 minutes. He was quite small and hairless.

You do realise what you did was sexual assault and production of child pornography right?

[Oscar-V3.0]

I don't ever ask these things, though I think other guys should stop asking people, whether asking a boy or girl, those inappropriate questions. Unless it is their best friend.
I agree 100%

Boys thinking with their hormones rather than their brains!
Which brain? :P

[Turbofan explosion]

I agree 100%


Which brain? :P

The brain that is inside the skull

[Zika]

You do realise what you did was sexual assault and production of child pornography right?


That was my thought exactly. Can you imagine what the response on here would be if a girl said a guy did that to her?

[Zika]

I don't understand why asking if your feet hurt in those shoes is bad.

Most of the others however, I wouldn't ask unless I was intimate with the girl, in which case I'd know. And I have to wonder about the guys who ask those kind of questions. Do they really think they'll get anywhere with the girl?

No need to ask. That's what fantasy is for.

[pauly]

Almost all the questions - apart from possibly the last two - will only be asked by people with one thing on their mind.
In my opinion there's more to life than sexual thoughts and I certainly wouldn't ask such questions.

[Zika]

I don't know how old 'older' is, but it's concerning an 'older' guy is asking a 15 year old these questions.

[Jordan99]

You do realise what you did was sexual assault and production of child pornography right?

ABSOLUTELY CORRECT! If a guy or group of guys did this to a girl he'd end up in jail or juvie and likely have to register as a sex offender. What you did was WRONG!

[Judge8]

Dont see any problem with asking someone if they would like a drink unless you already have a drink?

[will2005x]

Cheers for the advice! :D

nah genuinely those are some perverted comments and I would not say them to my friends :)

[tessa-]

That’s creepy and rude
So presumptuous

[mixel19]

wow, some guys are just terrible, and being drunk or high is no excuse, I've been drunk and/or high and never acted like this, especially some girl I just met

of course now I'm just imagining some guy coming up to meet you, getting your name, and then immediately going to "do you do anal? "

[Lionsden04]

Who would ask them questions, it’s creepy and inappropriate

[Oscar-V3.0]

wow, some guys are just terrible, and being drunk or high is no excuse
The issue is that many ask that in their normal state...

[vandilization]

Those questions even just sound like they’d be weird chat room kinda questions where you have that “15 year old” who’s just curious. I always assumed girls had it way worse with perverted questions.

[Allstar49]

Yeah those are probably just douch bags looking to get in your pants. I wouldn’t ask any of those questions until I’m in a serious relationship. However online like on this website I understand why guys ask those because a lot of times the time they genuinely are curious.

[Lexi_02]

If a guy starts off with these questions he’s probably a creep

[Falcons_11]

A guy would have to be a total imbecile to ask any girl those questions. They are so disrespectful and inappropriate. By the same, any girl who would ask a guy similar kinds of those questions would fall into the same category, IMHO.

[melissa16]

Yes questions Girls just don't want to hear..

[OwlBlue]

Something is wrong with this kind of guy, sure. What boy in his right mind would ask girl? A creep that have a warped mind.

[damien]

other than asking if she wants a drink those are weird things to ask