I don't know how to go about this relationship

[Devinsoccer]

So, here's how this goes. I like a girl at church and she is really nice cute and her personality is awesome. I really like her, and shes the nicest person I know. Well, I invited her to my birthday dinner through her mom, because I don't see her every weekend, and her mom is in charge of her families' calendar. So, her mom approved of her going to my birthday dinner. Her birthday is the day after mine. When I'm with her she's a different person. She seems more comfortable and outgoing. She laughs at my stupid jokes and enjoys spending time with me. Her and I are both altar servers and she really enjoys serving mass with me and her 2 brothers. I've always viewed her as a little sister I never had. I also think she views me as an older brother she never had. I just get a vibe when around her that she likes me a little bit more than a friend. Also, when I'm with her and her father is around, she acts a little bit different, though her dad and I have a really good relationship. She watched the Macy's Parade that I was in and didn't watch the dog show that followed, which made me feel a little bit special. Her and I have similar interests, though she's not in band, her and I have interests in the same type of music, religion, sports, and who we want to be in life. She seems really interested me, but hanging out, outside of church she's not really toyed with the idea, and I haven't asked her much. I just don't know if shes ready for a relationship or if that's even a good idea since I'll be off to college and i doubt her and I will be going to the same one. Also, everyone calls us a dynamic duo, including her parents, and things that hint that we're together when we're not. I just don't know if I should try to get the relationship to go farther than where we are now.

[ska8er]

I would say just keep the friendship as it
is right now and don't rush things with her.
Im sure after awhile the two of u will get even
more closer together but I think she does like u.
Still she is a bit shy to get into a relationship. Even
tho her Dad is friendly with u she is hesitant to let
him think that u r interested in her. Just go slow.
Don't think what If when u go off to college things
might change by then. U will know when it is the
right time to ask her to go for a relationship.

[Caitigrrl]

Sounds like you need to ask her dad if you may court her first

[Maxbreak]

Just take your time with her. Hold hands. There is no rush. You could tell ger you really like her, but dont scare her off

[Ashley2004]

Ask her out and see where it goes. Nobody said this has to last forever. Enjoy the time you have together. If things change in the future, so be it, but don't waste time debating what to do now. You're more likely to regret not doing something than trying and having it not work out.

[Devinsoccer]

So I'm still debating on if I want to ask her out soon cause there is a concert that the Florida Orchestra is going to be playing and its Gustav Holst's "The Planets." Wich is one of my favorite pieces of all time, only behind beethovans's 5th 9th and Moonlight Sonata, as well as Debussy's Claire De Lune, and Patchbells Cannon in D. The other thought is just asking her out to HOCO 2019.

[Uniquemind]

So, here's how this goes. I like a girl at church and she is really nice cute and her personality is awesome. I really like her, and shes the nicest person I know. Well, I invited her to my birthday dinner through her mom, because I don't see her every weekend, and her mom is in charge of her families' calendar. So, her mom approved of her going to my birthday dinner. Her birthday is the day after mine. When I'm with her she's a different person. She seems more comfortable and outgoing. She laughs at my stupid jokes and enjoys spending time with me. Her and I are both altar servers and she really enjoys serving mass with me and her 2 brothers. I've always viewed her as a little sister I never had. I also think she views me as an older brother she never had. I just get a vibe when around her that she likes me a little bit more than a friend. Also, when I'm with her and her father is around, she acts a little bit different, though her dad and I have a really good relationship. She watched the Macy's Parade that I was in and didn't watch the dog show that followed, which made me feel a little bit special. Her and I have similar interests, though she's not in band, her and I have interests in the same type of music, religion, sports, and who we want to be in life. She seems really interested me, but hanging out, outside of church she's not really toyed with the idea, and I haven't asked her much. I just don't know if shes ready for a relationship or if that's even a good idea since I'll be off to college and i doubt her and I will be going to the same one. Also, everyone calls us a dynamic duo, including her parents, and things that hint that we're together when we're not. I just don't know if I should try to get the relationship to go farther than where we are now.


If it walks like a duck, quacks like a duck, it’s a duck.


If you feel like your in a relationship, it functions like an emotionally supportive relationship and that means there’s energy implying mutual attraction, it’s a relationship.


It’s my rule of thumb that, recognizing this is the first step, and then sitting down and verbalizing to verify the relationship and make it official with the other person and the rules of the relationship about what is and isn’t cheating, is the next step.


Of course miscommunication can happen, and perhaps it’s a one-sided attraction thing, but it never hurts to sit down and talk.


People could still get emotionally hurt by the opportunities lost of what could have been, yet was, but never officially stated.


Just tell her how you feel this Christmas see what happens.