Girl who I think might like me

[Henry333]

I've worked as a waiter at a restaurant with this girl for a few months now. We also go to the same school. When we first met she was going out with another guy, but since then they have broken up. I have liked her for a while and we seem to get on really well over text and in person. We went to the cinema together just us 2 and it was nice but I didn't try anything. We often talk about previous relationships, feelings and sometimes just the idea of love in general. She is very open, whereas I am not as much. She was telling me how she broke up with her boyfriend because she liked someone else. I have a feeling it might have been me but I really don't know. Without being too upfront about it, how can I find out if it's me she likes? She hasn't spoken to me about liking anyone before and I know most of her friends as I often walk to and from school with her. I can see us being together in a couple but I want to try and be sure she likes me before trying anything since shes only been out of a relationship for 2 weeks now. Please give any advice you can and ask as many questions as you think could help. She's bisexual and I'm straight is that makes any difference. Thanks for any help

[Connordude]

I could be wrong but I’d check your GPS, it sounds like you’re in the friend zone

[Oscar-V3.0]

I've worked as a waiter at a restaurant with this girl for a few months now. We also go to the same school. When we first met she was going out with another guy, but since then they have broken up. I have liked her for a while and we seem to get on really well over text and in person. We went to the cinema together just us 2 and it was nice but I didn't try anything. We often talk about previous relationships, feelings and sometimes just the idea of love in general. She is very open, whereas I am not as much. She was telling me how she broke up with her boyfriend because she liked someone else. I have a feeling it might have been me but I really don't know. Without being too upfront about it, how can I find out if it's me she likes? She hasn't spoken to me about liking anyone before and I know most of her friends as I often walk to and from school with her. I can see us being together in a couple but I want to try and be sure she likes me before trying anything since shes only been out of a relationship for 2 weeks now. Please give any advice you can and ask as many questions as you think could help. She's bisexual and I'm straight is that makes any difference. Thanks for any help

Why not ask her directly? Like "btw, last time you told me about that guy you like. Who is it? How did you know him? What does he do?"

[Cassius16]

I really think you should ask her. We spend so much time worrying and not being sure how people feel. Maybe sometimes it’s better to be direct.

Maybe wait just a bit longer (as you say it’s only been a few weeks), but don’t hold on waiting forever

Good luck

[Ashley2004]

Be direct about it. Girls like guys that are confident. Take a chance and either it works or doesn't and you can move on. Don't make it more complicated than it needs to be.

[Henry333]

If it is just a friendship thing though, I don't want to ruin it by trying to get more out of it

[Second Chance]

I've worked as a waiter at a restaurant with this girl for a few months now. We also go to the same school. When we first met she was going out with another guy, but since then they have broken up. I have liked her for a while and we seem to get on really well over text and in person. We went to the cinema together just us 2 and it was nice but I didn't try anything. We often talk about previous relationships, feelings and sometimes just the idea of love in general. She is very open, whereas I am not as much. She was telling me how she broke up with her boyfriend because she liked someone else. I have a feeling it might have been me but I really don't know. Without being too upfront about it, how can I find out if it's me she likes? She hasn't spoken to me about liking anyone before and I know most of her friends as I often walk to and from school with her. I can see us being together in a couple but I want to try and be sure she likes me before trying anything since shes only been out of a relationship for 2 weeks now. Please give any advice you can and ask as many questions as you think could help. She's bisexual and I'm straight is that makes any difference. Thanks for any help

I agree with the others that it is worth a chance to ask the girl directly to see if she likes you or not. You have nothing to lose to ask her especially since you both more or less went out on a date to the cinema not too long ago.

My only concern about the girl are the following:

1) She seems to be focused on her previous relationships. I think emotions for her are still raw, and you might want to wait a little bit for her to work through her feelings over the previous person before taking things to the next level with her. You do not want to be the rebound relationship.

2) You both work at the same place which can be a problem because if you two break up, then you both still have to work together.

3) Your personalities seem pretty different with her being open and your being not so much. That may not necessarily be a deal breaker, but just make sure you both can handle being different.


If you really like her, then it would not hurt to ask her if she wants to be more than friends and see what happens. If she is not positive about it, then do not worry because at least you will have the peace of mind because you have at least asked.

[Henry333]

She's told me before it doesn't take long for her to move in because she'd rather not dwell on things. Also were both stopping working after Christmas so we won't have that issue. I just have a lot of fun with her and i think it would be a good thing to be more than friends...

[Henry333]

I asked her out on a date and she said yes! So I think she does like me. Any idea what to do as a date? She says she just wants to do something fun

[Oscar-V3.0]

I asked her out on a date and she said yes! So I think she does like me. Any idea what to do as a date? She says she just wants to do something fun
Eating together at a snack bar, or something like that. Or going to the fun fair. Or to the cinema

[Dav1d]

before you ask her, make sure you can deal with her saying no. like could you keep working at the same restaurant?

[Jordan99]

Be direct about it. Girls like guys that are confident. Take a chance and either it works or doesn't and you can move on. Don't make it more complicated than it needs to be.

Ashley's absolutely right. Don't make this tougher than it has to be...just ask her and quit worrying about it. If she says, "Yes" congratulations. If she says, "No" then you know where you stand and you can move on.

[Henry333]

went out with her tonight to go bowling and to eat. after we had food we just talked for about 2 hours and it was really nice. shes said she wants to go on another

[tessa-]

Lucky you
As friends or?

[Henry333]

No we went as a date. And we went out again today to ice skate and we held hands and stuff, was nice

[Cassius16]

Glad you had a good time bowling and ice skating.

Are you going to go out again with her anywhere?

[Henry333]

Yeah we went out again today to walk around quarries and stuff. Was nice