Can’t decide as bisexual

[tomhero]

Hey boys and girls,

First of all, I’m bi. I have a problem:
I‘m writing with a boy and I really like him and I think he is a potential partner for a relationship. On the other hand, there is a girl in my small town who is really pretty and cute and I‘m to shy to ask her out for a date.
I know it‘s really complicated. Should I wait and see what happens with the boy or should I be engaged and ask the girl? I’m tired of being single.
Thanks for your opinion!

[Natacha]

If you are interested in both of them, don't choose with the focus: Boy or Girl but which person you see your self enjoy the most.

[Allover Kelly]

Pick one

[Sailor Mars]

I would say try to pursue a relationship with someone you feel comfortable with and can see yourself in a relationship with. If you just like them but can’t see yourself dating them, then it’s not the right choice.

Also, Puberty for All :arrow: Relationships & Dating

[mick01]

Have you actually met the boy and does he live nearby? If the answer to those are a yes, I think you should choose the boy. And only because you see the potential for a relationship. You didn't really say that about the girl.

[tomhero]

Have you actually met the boy and does he live nearby? If the answer to those are a yes, I think you should choose the boy. And only because you see the potential for a relationship. You didn't really say that about the girl.

No, haven’t met one of them. The boy lives nearly too. So both in my town.
Yeah you’re right on the on hand but on the other hand I‘m attracted in both. I don’t know how to decide. I moved here this summer and I’m afraid of being excluded of my new friends I’ve found here when I choose him. There are several points that make it complicated...

[mick01]

No, haven’t met one of them. The boy lives nearly too. So both in my town.
Yeah you’re right on the on hand but on the other hand I‘m attracted in both. I don’t know how to decide. I moved here this summer and I’m afraid of being excluded of my new friends I’ve found here when I choose him. There are several points that make it complicated...

If you ever want to talk about it thru pm, I'd be happy to. I'm bi too so know what you're going thru.

[tomhero]

I‘m afraid I will never fall in love with someone because I can’t decide what I want and that I will regret my decisions.

[Shamal]

Try not to worry, you're deciding from what sounds like two great people. I think picking the guy would be easier but that's not the only thing to think about. Feel free to message as well, I'm bi so I think I understand.

[Ashley2004]

Man up and just go for one or the other, it doesn't matter which one.

[Zachary G]

being shy about asking either of them isnt going to get you anywhere; youre going to have to muster the courage to speak to one of them if not both of them about how you feel. If you are communicating with the boy, then it should be pretty easy, but you have to decide who it is you can see yourself having the most fun with.

[ArthurHannenburg]

Just talk with them both more and then think about how you feel after that

[ska8er]

I would continue making a friendship
with the boy but for now don't push
for a relationship til u try and get to
know the girl better. If u find u can
ask the girl to go out then c where
the relationship goes and if it does
not work out then u have the other
to rely on. Just don't play the two of
them at the same time in regards to
getting more serious with them. You
have the option then to pick which of
them u would b more interested in.