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[nskshadow]

Today i was talking with my best friend and we were talking about girls and sex and stuff like that. (Btw, i am bi but he doesn't know that.) So neither of us have girlfriends or anything and we've been jacking off a lot and stuff like that. So we were talking about like friends with benefits but neither of us knew who we would do that with. So we continued talking and he asked what if we did a kinda friends with benefits thing. Like where we jacked each other off, gave bjs and some other things. I said idk because i didn't know what to say. We have done stuff together before but it has only been like experimental. Should i take the offer?? Have any of you had this or have this?

[Virginiakid]

The both of you seem like pretty good close friends. If you trust him and he trusts you I say take the offer. If I was given the option I would.

[Tobi Pops]

Yea I agree. If you feel comfortable with him, you should go for it. He wouldnt ask if he didnt want to.

[Curious.kid]

I would do it because it will feel good to do all that stuff with a good friend. I would want to do that with my friend because it's low stress.

[ksdnfkfr]

The only thing that keeps me from saying "go for it" is you being here asking us what you should do. That always makes me question if the friendship is the right kind for it. If you know what I mean.

[Jackman1800]

If you want to

[phuckphace]

Should i take the offer??

yes


lucky bastard :(

[JamesSuperBoy]

I think the big difference is maybe your best friend is not ever gonna be FWB.

[AvMan]

The both of you seem like pretty good close friends. If you trust him and he trusts you I say take the offer. If I was given the option I would.

I agree. If your close enough to each other and trust each other enough then go for it!

[deregisterme]

Today i was talking with my best friend and we were talking about girls and sex and stuff like that. (Btw, i am bi but he doesn't know that.) So neither of us have girlfriends or anything and we've been jacking off a lot and stuff like that. So we were talking about like friends with benefits but neither of us knew who we would do that with. So we continued talking and he asked what if we did a kinda friends with benefits thing. Like where we jacked each other off, gave bjs and some other things. I said idk because i didn't know what to say. We have done stuff together before but it has only been like experimental. Should i take the offer?? Have any of you had this or have this?

If you feel ready, go for it. Just know your boundaries

[Catholic Guy]

Male sure you are both comfortable and then if you are make sure your boundaries are set and then just go for it, I've been there and I didn't set the boundaries, I only wanted to compare and then he took it too far, he jacked me off, gave me head, made me do the same to him and then he gave me anal, all against my will

[male_greece]

yh don't be a fool, take it before he changes his mind

[Cloud_Strife]

Today i was talking with my best friend and we were talking about girls and sex and stuff like that. (Btw, i am bi but he doesn't know that.) So neither of us have girlfriends or anything and we've been jacking off a lot and stuff like that. So we were talking about like friends with benefits but neither of us knew who we would do that with. So we continued talking and he asked what if we did a kinda friends with benefits thing. Like where we jacked each other off, gave bjs and some other things. I said idk because i didn't know what to say. We have done stuff together before but it has only been like experimental. Should i take the offer?? Have any of you had this or have this?

I agree. If your close enough to each other and trust each other enough then go for it!

The only thing that keeps me from saying "go for it" is you being here asking us what you should do. That always makes me question if the friendship is the right kind for it. If you know what I mean.

It's certainly a matter of choice and will depend highly on your principles and values. As Avman mentioned, if you two have a high degree of mutual trust and you are both comfortable with it, then it is something that could be considered. As Ezra very validly pointed out though, you asking suggests some doubt. You should think again closely, if you need to be 'persuaded' or 'reassured into' doing this at all. From what you mentioned though, it sounds like your friend was doing a lead up into the topic. If anything, they probably are fine going ahead with it - the ball is probably in your court.

Male sure you are both comfortable and then if you are make sure your boundaries are set and then just go for it, I've been there and I didn't set the boundaries, I only wanted to compare and then he took it too far, he jacked me off, gave me head, made me do the same to him and then he gave me anal, all against my will

That sounds awful Noah! Thankfully nothing like this has ever happened to me, but I know I'd have difficulty talking about something like that if it did indeed happen. It seems like it was very much without consent, and would be a case of indecent assault? Hope everything is okay within yourself about this occurrence and that everything has ended up fine?

[RavleIncarnate]

You seem pretty close, right? So if you feel confortable, go for it!

[Catholic Guy]

That sounds awful Noah! Thankfully nothing like this has ever happened to me, but I know I'd have difficulty talking about something like that if it did indeed happen. It seems like it was very much without consent, and would be a case of indecent assault? Hope everything is okay within yourself about this occurrence and that everything has ended up fine?

Yeah I'm alright about it now because it was a while ago but it's still something that I regret massively because I didn't stop before it went too far

[mmppfc]

If you are close and you trust him, I would take the offer!

[DeletedAccount123]

Definitely, just go really slow, even if your penis is yelling to go faster, let your brain guide you and go slow. :)

[Chase_57]

If you are comfortable go for it, if not say no. (But in a nice way)

[Fireangel]

Yes, go for it, How old are you and your friend?

[riverboy]

The both of you seem like pretty good close friends. If you trust him and he trusts you I say take the offer. If I was given the option I would.

I agree and I would do it.

[DylanAwesome]

If you wanna do it then go ahead

[nskshadow]

Yes, go for it, How old are you and your friend?

we are both 15

[Fireangel]

we are both 15

Cool!... Go for it if you want, tell us after please.

[itsthat0n3kid]

its all up to you, if you feel comfortable with it and he does too, and you both trust eachother to keep it between you two then i really dont see a problem, sounds like youre getting a good deal there. haha

[Baseball1999]

Don't do it if you aren't comfortable. Make sure he is trustworthy so he won't go around and tell everyone :) if you wanna do it, then go ahead. There is nothing wrong about it!

[britishboy69]

YES! YES YES! Do it, omg jealous.

[Jack russell dad]

If it was me, I'd jump on the offer

[esparza.warren]

If you are ready and not worried it will hurt your friendship, then go for it.

[Steve365]

Im straight so i have never had this happen to me but Do what makes you comfortable.

[Just Sayin]

Me and my best friend had the same thing it was alot of fun we both have girlfriends now so we dont do it much anymore but once in awhile when the girls are gone

[JustAnotherTeen]

Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes and yes. If you're bi and you thought he was straight then congratulations you win!

[Forsakenbymyself]

Carpe diem.

[kaydencorey]

If you both want to go for it :yes:
I've a few FWB, good to know they are always there to lend a hand :P

[Boar]

Today i was talking with my best friend and we were talking about girls and sex and stuff like that. (Btw, i am bi but he doesn't know that.) So neither of us have girlfriends or anything and we've been jacking off a lot and stuff like that. So we were talking about like friends with benefits but neither of us knew who we would do that with. So we continued talking and he asked what if we did a kinda friends with benefits thing. Like where we jacked each other off, gave bjs and some other things. I said idk because i didn't know what to say. We have done stuff together before but it has only been like experimental. Should i take the offer?? Have any of you had this or have this?

Sure! If you guys feel comfortable with it?

[Chrisscotland]

go for it and have fun :yeah: