View Full Version : Why is this guy ignoring me and being rude to me?
jane45
November 8th, 2018, 04:24 PM
There's this guy who's my friend and he likes talking to me and hanging out with me and so do I. Lately, I haven't been in the best mood, but I haven't told him about it because I didn't want to worry him. I'd usually make eye contact whenever I'd speak to him. But because of my mood, I haven't been giving many people any eye contact whenever I'd talk to them, including him. The last time we've been together, which was a few days ago, he'd hardly look at me. As he was passing out papers to a group of us, he knew that I was there because he was sitting right next to me and he didn't give me a paper on purpose and then said sorry when he "realized" that I didn't have one. Then, he did the same thing to me again when he was passing out another set of papers. In the group, whenever I'd talk to him, he'd reply in a monotone and wouldn't say too much to me. But, if some other person talked to him, he would talk normally and he'd talk to them more instead.
ska8er
November 8th, 2018, 05:45 PM
I would tell him that right now u r having
personal problems and that u r not feeling
in the right mood to discuss stuff so can he
forgive u for being distant. U have to tell him
cause he will think he did something wrong.
U r good friends and good friends understand.
tomhero
November 10th, 2018, 11:49 AM
Hey,
I think you should talk to him honestly, about what you think and feel. That you can’t explain his behavior. But its hard to say how he would react if you tell him how you feel. Sometimes you have to risk something to win, but if he’s a good guy, you can discuss it openly and look where you stand.
abcdeqwe
November 12th, 2018, 07:05 PM
Why don’t u ask him, i think that’s the best option. Someone once told me that people like to tell themselves stories, so better not believe ur assumptions/preconceptions.
Zika
January 10th, 2019, 10:30 PM
It sounds to me like he's responding to your change in behavior and is probably wondering why you've changed how you interact with him.
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