How to know if the sex is good.

[Aero Solas]

So iv fairly recently got together with this girl who I truly adore and we have been friends for over a year before hand. Iv lost my v card with her, making her my first sexual partener and iv began to have these thoughts that the sex I'm getting could be a whole lot better from other girls. That may be my mind just running wild and I truly want to believe that my gf gives amazing sex so what are the telling signs of good sex is what I'm basically asking?

[ska8er]

When ur eyes roll back into ur head.
Ur never gonna b sexually satisfied
with ur girlfriend if during sex ur
thinking other girls may be more
fulfilling.

[Aero Solas]

When ur eyes roll back into ur head.
Ur never gonna b sexually satisfied
with ur girlfriend if during sex ur
thinking other girls may be more
fulfilling.

You're right and I hate the fact that I'm having these ideas. I guess curiosity could also be a factor.

When ur eyes roll back into ur head.
Ur never gonna b sexually satisfied
with ur girlfriend if during sex ur
thinking other girls may be more
fulfilling.

Also on top of that, I dont think about other girls WHILE we have sex. Just after the fact of that makes sense.

Posts merged. Please use the edit button next time. ~Mars

[Aero Solas]

Is this PTSD girl? If yes then yes the sex could be better. How is anyone having fun if she freaks out when getting fingered?

Yes it is that girl. She doesn't exactly freak out. she starts crying a little but she still knows it's me who's with her.

[Natacha]

If your partner is uncontrollable. If you have a great connection. Being sweaty and can't stop smiling extaticly. Orgasms not to forget

[Rachel_s03]

I’d say when both people have an orgasm and enjoyed themselves, it’s good lol

[Stronk Serb]

I guess it's good when both of you are lying exhausted, smiling at eachother and talking cute stuff.

[Shiny Moon]

So iv fairly recently got together with this girl who I truly adore and we have been friends for over a year before hand. Iv lost my v card with her, making her my first sexual partener and iv began to have these thoughts that the sex I'm getting could be a whole lot better from other girls. That may be my mind just running wild and I truly want to believe that my gf gives amazing sex so what are the telling signs of good sex is what I'm basically asking?

If you enjoy it and you are satisfied, then it's good.
Keep in mind that having good sex doesn't mean that it can't get better with another person. The only way to find out is to do it with more people.

[Connordude]

If she enjoys it and keeps wanting to and is happy then it is

[Ragle]

if both enjoyed the game

[Connordude]

Ppl are answering this blind you should put a link to the posts where you discuss her PTSD. The answer should be obvious if your partner is crying and traumatized by sex then the sex could be better. What you describe ib the other post is not normal good sex.

Yeah I think I missed the main part of the story here
If she’s crying before/during/after it sounds like maybe it shouldn’t be happening

[Allover Kelly]

So iv fairly recently got together with this girl who I truly adore and we have been friends for over a year before hand. Iv lost my v card with her, making her my first sexual partener and iv began to have these thoughts that the sex I'm getting could be a whole lot better from other girls. That may be my mind just running wild and I truly want to believe that my gf gives amazing sex so what are the telling signs of good sex is what I'm basically asking?

Most times the first time sucks, as you know each other more and more and know what make you both feel go it will get better. Trust me, you will know when it is good. Keep in mind most girls will not climax every time. Most its good.

[NickX01]

If everyone came lol

[tomhero]

Out of my experience I think you’ll know when it was good. An orgasm for both would be the best thing but if the frame fits, it’ll be all fine. Talk with her and ask her what she thinks what will make Sex better. Its ok to be nervous but when you talk about it both can improve the whole thing

[Ashley2004]

Experience and communication make it better regardless of who it's with

[xSashax]

I’m pretty sure you’d realize it’s good if it’s good. It’s just that you enjoy the feeling....

[Pultost]

^This. There's no final definition of good sex, it's all individual. If you and your partner get off and have a good time, then it's good.

[Taylorrrb]

Experience and communication make it better regardless of who it's with

Agreed communication is everything. If he doesn’t tell me what he likes or I don’t tell hi what I like... it doesn’t work out nearly as well

[EvaNL]

An orgasm is not necessary. Of course, it's great, but I can enjoy sex a lot as well without it. Being close and intimate with someone and feeling safe, wanted, important and sexy is the best thing about having sex. An orgasm is "just" the icing on the cake.
And communication is key in good sex. Both verbal and non-verbal.

[Taylorrrb]

An orgasm is not necessary. Of course, it's great, but I can enjoy sex a lot as well without it. Being close and intimate with someone and feeling safe, wanted, important and sexy is the best thing about having sex. An orgasm is "just" the icing on the cake.
And communication is key in good sex. Both verbal and non-verbal.

This is a very good point, being close to someone like that is really fun and intimate. I almost always enjoy sex even if I didn’t have an orgasm. Like you said that’s just icing on the cake.