Need Help With GF

[Aero Solas]

So about 3 months ago I started dating this girl who iv known for a while. We both love having sex and doing sexual things but i can never fully enjoy the experience. I can never go too deep because she is worried i might trigger her PTSD from a rape experience she had around 5 years go.

She has had a trauma before because of me fingering her (i didnt do anything different. i had fingered her the exact same way before, a couple times) this surprised me so now we are both scared of me going in too deep and triggering a flashback or something.

Does anyone know a way I can help her overcome her PTSD? Im open to any questions that need to be asked. (im aware im on the puberty forum and this would be more suited for the help forum but more people are active here)

[Ashley2004]

She needs the help of a professional therapist. The only thing you can do is provide emotional support and not pressure her. Only a real therapist will help her cope with her stress and anxiety.

[Sailor Mars]

Puberty for All :arrow: Relationships & Dating

This is better suited here

[Aero Solas]

She needs the help of a professional therapist. The only thing you can do is provide emotional support and not pressure her. Only a real therapist will help her cope with her stress and anxiety.

Yes that is what i suggested to her but she says she doesn't want her parents stressing over the fact that she has PTSD about that part of her life. She says that they got enough on their minds already.