Masturbation and Nudity

[Eton Sharma]

I am new to this, I am spending the night at a friend's/neighboors house. I am a only child from my parents and at home I usually shower alone and sleep in my shorts with no shirt or underwear.

Well at my friends he had us shower together to save the hot water and time. It was my first besides school changing in front of another boy and first time seeing him naked. His butt is so big. I also never got naked in front of another boy or showered with another boy. When we finished showering he walked out naked to his room drying his head while I was drying my whole body in the bathroom. I walked to his room with my towel covering my penis. When I shut his door he got on the top of his bunk bed naked. He told me he wanted to sleep naked so I followed behind him and slept in his bottom bed naked where I am now. But I can't stop thinking about his big butt so i tried to quietly masturbate for the first time and I made a big mess. My friend heard me and asked me was I done and then he started to masturbate. He is back to sleep but I am still woke. So I figured this would be the best time to ask my question.

So is nudity and masturbation a part of puberty. My friend wants to sleep in the nude so this is his first time sleeping naked and my first time sleeping naked and already we are masturbating to each other's nude body's. It feels strange.

[Thedukeoftrumpet]

Masturbation is definitely a part of puberty. Nudity can be a part of it but that is more of a personal choice. Now this situation you described strikes me as being kind of odd. I don't think anyone should be forced to be naked or shower with someone when they don't want to. It doesn't sound like you were in the best situation, but it doesn't seem like you were uncomfortable, just confused.

[Gabriel The French]

Curiosity towards nudity and masturbation is very common in puberty ^^

[Giant Size Boy]

I am new to this, I am spending the night at a friend's/neighboors house. I am a only child from my parents and at home I usually shower alone and sleep in my shorts with no shirt or underwear.

Well at my friends he had us shower together to save the hot water and time. It was my first besides school changing in front of another boy and first time seeing him naked. His butt is so big. I also never got naked in front of another boy or showered with another boy. When we finished showering he walked out naked to his room drying his head while I was drying my whole body in the bathroom. I walked to his room with my towel covering my penis. When I shut his door he got on the top of his bunk bed naked. He told me he wanted to sleep naked so I followed behind him and slept in his bottom bed naked where I am now. But I can't stop thinking about his big butt so i tried to quietly masturbate for the first time and I made a big mess. My friend heard me and asked me was I done and then he started to masturbate. He is back to sleep but I am still woke. So I figured this would be the best time to ask my question.

So is nudity and masturbation a part of puberty. My friend wants to sleep in the nude so this is his first time sleeping naked and my first time sleeping naked and already we are masturbating to each other's nude body's. It feels strange.

Its ok little guy. Masturbation is natural and so is nudity. I have masturbated to friends while sleep. Its because you curious and this is your first time being exposed to nudity with others.

[Second Chance]

I am new to this, I am spending the night at a friend's/neighboors house. I am a only child from my parents and at home I usually shower alone and sleep in my shorts with no shirt or underwear.

Well at my friends he had us shower together to save the hot water and time. It was my first besides school changing in front of another boy and first time seeing him naked. His butt is so big. I also never got naked in front of another boy or showered with another boy. When we finished showering he walked out naked to his room drying his head while I was drying my whole body in the bathroom. I walked to his room with my towel covering my penis. When I shut his door he got on the top of his bunk bed naked. He told me he wanted to sleep naked so I followed behind him and slept in his bottom bed naked where I am now. But I can't stop thinking about his big butt so i tried to quietly masturbate for the first time and I made a big mess. My friend heard me and asked me was I done and then he started to masturbate. He is back to sleep but I am still woke. So I figured this would be the best time to ask my question.

So is nudity and masturbation a part of puberty. My friend wants to sleep in the nude so this is his first time sleeping naked and my first time sleeping naked and already we are masturbating to each other's nude body's. It feels strange.

If you question is if it is normal to be naked around friends/others, then I would say it depends on the situation. Generally speaking, unless you and the other person are really close, then I would try not to be naked around them. However, if you and that person are close and will not judge each other or do anything inappropriate being naked together, then it should not be a problem. However, if either of you are not comfortable being naked, then both people should stay clothed.

If your question is if it is normal to masturbate, then the answer is yes. I am not sure what your religion or values are, and everything depends on those things if you live under restrictions. However, as a rule of thumb, nearly all guys masturbate, and you are going to cum one way or the other either through a wet dream or masturbation.

If your question is if it is all right to get aroused by another guy, then by your own words you had mentioned that this is the first time you had seen someone else naked. In puberty you can get turned on by anything, and I am guessing that this is the first time you had done something "sexual" by masturbating. Assuming this is the first time you had masturbated and ejaculated, then chances are you had a bunch of things happen at the first time which was overwhelming.

Finally, if you are asking whether or not you're gay because you liked looking at your friend's butt, then that is hard to say. Sexuality is something that develops over time.

My final word is that do not get too physical with your friend or get sexual with him if you are new to all of this. Just take things slowly and be careful with your body.

[Exiros]

It's normal to try new things, specially among friends.

[citycanuck]

Well, I wouldn't worry about the masturbating and curiosity. You're probably both that way, and it's normal when you're in puberty. Is this the first time you've stayed over at his house? It seems a bit unusual that he would tell you to shower with him like that, I think, but maybe that's just because I've never experienced that before in terms of being asked to do that on a sleepover. Were you okay with that? It sounds like your friend is pretty open so if you're good with that then that could be a good thing for you too, especially if you're an only child and not used to it.

[Jake445]

I shower together with close friends too and we have masturbated together but I've never done anything just out of the blue like that, we always talked about it first. But there's nothing wrong with it if you are comfortable. I sleep naked all the time anyway and most of my friends do it too when they sleepover. We are used to showering naked at school though.

[jamie_n5]

Nudity and masturbation is definitely a part of puberty. You are just experiencing part of it for the first time. It is normal to be curious and turned on by things that get you thinking of sexual things.

[imanopenbook]

We shower naked at school too so it's not like I havent seen my friends naked before. With my close friends we've seen each other naked more as well like at homes changing and showering and even showering together sometimes, dares, naked games stuff like that. We've even done things like you did and more so it's normal to experiment and explore feelings.

Dont get talked into anything though or pressured to do something you're not ready for or don't want to do. If you don't want to just say lets try something you're comfortable with doing or say maybe next time.

[Kakashi03]

Masturbation and nusity is all new to teens going through puberty as the body changes (penis gets bigger, gets boners, more sex driven etc) so that side of it is normal. Experimenting and thinking about your friends body is completely normal too, you're new to this and just experimenting. Also your friend did it too which meant that it won't be weird between you too

[Eton Sharma]

Masturbation and nusity is all new to teens going through puberty as the body changes (penis gets bigger, gets boners, more sex driven etc) so that side of it is normal. Experimenting and thinking about your friends body is completely normal too, you're new to this and just experimenting. Also your friend did it too which meant that it won't be weird between you too

Yes it was my first time masturbating and my first time being naked with another boy. The feelings just happen so fast and the next night we did the same thing again only I masturbated this time.

[INACTIVEchaosphere]

Yes it was my first time masturbating and my first time being naked with another boy. The feelings just happen so fast and the next night we did the same thing again only I masturbated this time.
That kind of situation is actually remarkably common, most guys have similar experiences at least at some point during their adolescence. I would just allow it to evolve as it will and try to learn about yourself from it. Teenage-hood can be an incredibly introspective time, and it using it as such can help in coming to grips with all kinds of identity concerns and even avoiding them altogether.

[Nnoki]

Look, you're young and should enjoy it while you can
You're basically just 2 kids playing around and maybe one day you'll both be sharing one bed ;)
Just be careful on what you do, on what does his parents think about this kinds of stuff etc.
But yeah, it is 100% normal

[Jake Milton]

It's normal so don't worry about it

[heyoh]

sounds pretty typical to me lol. i've had plenty of experiences like this

[bily.bob96]

Masturbation is definitely a part of puberty.

[allgrownup]

um... i mean if you two are into it then it's cool i guess.