Initial Discomfort

[Nicole4All]

Is it common to get sore during first-time anal, or is that mostly something you feel after? Is that what the painful part is about? And for those who have done both, how different is the feeling of first time vag versus first time anal?

[Maddie2000]

I was sore after my first time doing anal. That seems to be normal, just use a ton of lube and go slow. I wasn’t sore after my first time doing vaginal, same thing tho just go slow. If you rush it or do too much to fast that’s when things will start to hurt

[Allover Kelly]

I was so drunk my first time I have no idea if it really hurt. Now if I do it, I use a good lube. I have had my first time doing anal about 5 or 6 times. Guys think its hot if they think they are the first one.

[Katie2003]

Is it common to get sore during first-time anal, or is that mostly something you feel after? Is that what the painful part is about? And for those who have done both, how different is the feeling of first time vag versus first time anal?

Yes, everyone I've spoken with says the first time is quite painful, it def was for me. And it doesn't get all that much less painful during other times that you do it either, it's just that you learn how it's going to feel, you are able to relax a bit more, and you learn to use lots of lube and physical positions that make it easier.

It hurts both during and afterwards, but you learn that it's a good sort of hurt that you want and accept because it intensifies your pleasure.

[Ashley2004]

I was sore after my first time I did both vag and anal. You get used to it fast though

[ImJulia]

Ya I was sore

[ChloeF]

I was so drunk my first time I have no idea if it really hurt. Now if I do it, I use a good lube. I have had my first time doing anal about 5 or 6 times. Guys think its hot if they think they are the first one.
Lol, l've never tried anal but l've had more than one ''first time'' too.

[yeehaw]

this isn’t appropriate :locked: