Her mum

[benlodge123]

Everything went to shit with Yna, Her mum read our "sexts" and saw our pictures. Yna's mum wants to meet me with Yna. She wants to take us both to lunch but stay with us at the table. I dont know if this hassle is worth it. Yna is angry because her mum, messaged me this morning saying that if im not a "good lad" she will hunt me down. I told her "i respect you and your families decisions to let me meet Yna with you.

But tbh, idk if the hassle is really worth it as Yna's mum spoke about meeting me without even asking yna if she wants to. :(

Any suggestions on how i should handle this?

[Jordan99]

Show that you are mature. Go to the lunch and face the music. Show that you are mature by not getting all emotional and not lashing out. Answer her questions honestly and hear what she has to say. You may be surprised.

[Oscar-V3.0]

Show that you are mature. Go to the lunch and face the music. Show that you are mature by not getting all emotional and not lashing out. Answer her questions honestly and hear what she has to say. You may be surprised.

I would do the exact opposite... Date your gf without her mother knowing

[BlackParadePixie]

I would do the exact opposite... Date your gf without her mother knowing

solid advice from a 13 year old :rolleyes:

You should consider yourself lucky that she's even letting you meet with her at all. Most parents would most likely put the kibosh on any sort of relationship with a guy who has been sending sexts back and forth to their daughter.

[Oscar-V3.0]

solid advice from a 13 year old :rolleyes:

You should consider yourself lucky that she's even letting you meet with her at all. Most parents would most likely put the kibosh on any sort of relationship with a guy who has been sending sexts back and forth to their daughter.
That's precisely why I dont think mum should know lol :rolleyes:

[Katie2003]

That's precisely why I dont think mum should know lol :rolleyes:

I think that hiding it is the worst possible choice because her mom is sure to find out and it won't end well. Parents don't appreciate dishonesty or hiding things because that def doesn't build trust. Trying to meet the mom and talk through everything could put you on solid ground where you don't need to hide or lie about what you are doing.

[benlodge123]

UPDATE

I met her and her parents. They are really nice people. i just have to respect their filipino culture and not do anything weird. Her mum says no touching. Which means we aren’t even allowed to hug each other which i think is a bit extreme.

[Pultost]

Not being allowed to even hug is really extreme, glad it went well otherwise, though! :)