I got busted again

[Curious.kid]

I wanted to talk on here but the forum was gone! I'm much happier it's back now.

I got busted again, and it was bad but I think my parents ( or at least my dad) is nicer about things for masturbating. I have to explain everything so sorry if it's long, just read it and tell me if you think it's better.

A couple days ago, on Friday night I was home by my self after school because my mom took my little brother to the doctor and grocery store and my dad was still at work. I really felt like masturbating so I took my mom's lotion bottle and went on the computer and started. Then I remembered the condom I got from my friend's brother, and chose the perfect time to try it. So I used it ( by the way it felt really weird putting it on like unwinding it down and it was already slippery). I finished it, that was cool to not use any tissues! So I took it off and put it in the sink because I had to pee. I heard the garage door and finished peeing fast and ran to exit out the computer. I did that fine but my mom asked me to help her bring the groceries inside and I forgot to move the lotion and condom because like ten minutes later my brother asked my mom what was in the bathroom sink and I just could feel goosebumps and my pulse super fast. My mom always asks me a million questions when I get in trouble and she asked where I got it, if I used it with any body else, what was in it ( did she really have to ask it was my sperm?), and then about why I was using her lotion for doing that naughty thing. I was even more embarrassed, I couldn't even look at her. I said I was sorry but she just said to wait for my dad to get home, so I waited on the couch until my dad got home. And then they asked me if I looked at porn, and I said "no", but they said if they checked the computer would they find it?, so I told the truth and said "yes". I said i was sorry , but my dad spanked me really hard with 13 licks with his belt on his knee for lying about the porn ( I had to pull down my pants and underwear and it hurt!). But after that he talked to my mom and later we had a boys only talk with just me. He said that he was sorry to spank me and that it wasn't for the masturbating but mainly for the porn and using a condom in the house and also that I shouldn't take my moms lotion. I said I was sorry, and he said that my mom was really upset about it, like the first time they caught me, but that it's obviously something boys do so they're sorry if they went overboard strict. So my dad said that he talked with my mom about it and said that they overreacted and my dad said that its ok to masturbate, but I can't look at porn and my mom doesn't want me to have another condom because I'm too young. But my dad said he'd make me a deal and that he would get me some real lube if I promise not to take my moms lotion ever again, and I can't tell my brother about it. So he got me a bottle on Saturday ( it's called astroglide) and it's the best thing ever! I already used it twice and hid it from my brother. So even though I got busted again I think my parents are more understanding now about everything, even if it was a bad experiance. But I'm still mad at my brother for telling my mom even if it was all my fault. My mom just tells my brother now that I need private time in my room and to not go in if I close the door. But it's super embarrassing because now my mom knows when I masturbate if she sees the door closed, and I feel guilty looking at her afterwards.

[deregisterme]

Oh dear. I think you've just been caught in a number of things against you. I think your brother (how old is he?) might have genuinely quite innocently asked about the condom without the intent or realisation that it would get you in trouble. Similarly for your dad who is caught between your rather annoyed mum and the fact he is male and would have experienced what you are doing now. You've now been through what most boys try to avoid thinking about - the fact that your parents (particularly your mum) knows that you masturbate and you know they know! It is a natural and pleasurable experience, just be a little more careful in future :-)

[JamesSuperBoy]

all good with some bad there - so now your Mum offers you privacy and has told your bro to respect that - seems a good outcome.

[Curious.kid]

Oh dear. I think you've just been caught in a number of things against you. I think your brother (how old is he?) might have genuinely quite innocently asked about the condom without the intent or realisation that it would get you in trouble. Similarly for your dad who is caught between your rather annoyed mum and the fact he is male and would have experienced what you are doing now. You've now been through what most boys try to avoid thinking about - the fact that your parents (particularly your mum) knows that you masturbate and you know they know! It is a natural and pleasurable experience, just be a little more careful in future :-)

My little brother is 5

[deregisterme]

My little brother is 5

That a bot of an age gap. It might be a few years before he understands what he saw. That's the strange thing on this side as siblings that are only a year or 2 apart seem to be closer at asking questions about puberty

[TheLivingLie]

ik how you feel with the whole embarrasing getting caught thing, and the getting caught with porn thing (kills you like hell) but things actually seem quite good for you (now at least)

[Body odah Man]

I wanted to talk on here but the forum was gone! I'm much happier it's back now.

I got busted again, and it was bad but I think my parents ( or at least my dad) is nicer about things for masturbating. I have to explain everything so sorry if it's long, just read it and tell me if you think it's better.

A couple days ago, on Friday night I was home by my self after school because my mom took my little brother to the doctor and grocery store and my dad was still at work. I really felt like masturbating so I took my mom's lotion bottle and went on the computer and started. Then I remembered the condom I got from my friend's brother, and chose the perfect time to try it. So I used it ( by the way it felt really weird putting it on like unwinding it down and it was already slippery). I finished it, that was cool to not use any tissues! So I took it off and put it in the sink because I had to pee. I heard the garage door and finished peeing fast and ran to exit out the computer. I did that fine but my mom asked me to help her bring the groceries inside and I forgot to move the lotion and condom because like ten minutes later my brother asked my mom what was in the bathroom sink and I just could feel goosebumps and my pulse super fast. My mom always asks me a million questions when I get in trouble and she asked where I got it, if I used it with any body else, what was in it ( did she really have to ask it was my sperm?), and then about why I was using her lotion for doing that naughty thing. I was even more embarrassed, I couldn't even look at her. I said I was sorry but she just said to wait for my dad to get home, so I waited on the couch until my dad got home. And then they asked me if I looked at porn, and I said "no", but they said if they checked the computer would they find it?, so I told the truth and said "yes". I said i was sorry , but my dad spanked me really hard with 13 licks with his belt on his knee for lying about the porn ( I had to pull down my pants and underwear and it hurt!). But after that he talked to my mom and later we had a boys only talk with just me. He said that he was sorry to spank me and that it wasn't for the masturbating but mainly for the porn and using a condom in the house and also that I shouldn't take my moms lotion. I said I was sorry, and he said that my mom was really upset about it, like the first time they caught me, but that it's obviously something boys do so they're sorry if they went overboard strict. So my dad said that he talked with my mom about it and said that they overreacted and my dad said that its ok to masturbate, but I can't look at porn and my mom doesn't want me to have another condom because I'm too young. But my dad said he'd make me a deal and that he would get me some real lube if I promise not to take my moms lotion ever again, and I can't tell my brother about it. So he got me a bottle on Saturday ( it's called astroglide) and it's the best thing ever! I already used it twice and hid it from my brother. So even though I got busted again I think my parents are more understanding now about everything, even if it was a bad experiance. But I'm still mad at my brother for telling my mom even if it was all my fault. My mom just tells my brother now that I need private time in my room and to not go in if I close the door. But it's super embarrassing because now my mom knows when I masturbate if she sees the door closed, and I feel guilty looking at her afterwards.

Agreed. So glad to have these forums while playing Runescape-missed you guys a lot.
Anwyay on topic, you got busted AGAIN? Ouch dude, that really sucks :(
I wish I could help ya.
Edit1: on second reading, I skimmed through ti at first, it seems like this time isn't as bad as the first time you got busted was. Your dad at least seems ok with it which is a plus :)

[backjruton]

It's great that things are getting better but they still shouldn't have hit you for it in the first place. In my experience I've actually started to act worse after being punished as it puts me in a very grumpy mood and I can't think or do things properly because of it. Luckily my parents know how it makes me feel and I've got into a lot less trouble recently, as well as being allowed more independence XD

Sounds like you're further than me with part of this anyway though, because I asked my parents for something and they bought a massive tub of vaseline which doesn't feel too good and I need to use something else instead :P Surely just trying to reason with you would be a better thing to do than smacking you with a belt, I think I last had that with just the hand at 6 or 7 :eek: my parents wouldn't dare to do anything now because they know what I'm capable of when I'm angry ... especially after I randomly flipped last night and threw a big wooden board at my brother which made a hole in the wall ... and it really does just make things worse for THEM when they try to discipline me so we're all glad they stopped :D but I guess that's the advantage to being autistic because they know I can't seem to control a lot of the stupid things I do :yawn::eek:

[MechaSniper]

O my god. that... just wow. Alls good in the end but that is a mix of shock/sorrow/awesomeness. awesome story bro

[Aajj333]

It sounds like your dad, at first, just didnt want to get in trouble himself with your mom and was forced to play along with it. Your parents must live in mid evil times if they spanked you. You seem like you have a cool dad, lucky you.

[RavleIncarnate]

Ouch. Last time I was caught was 2011. That means grade five. I'm eighth grade now.

[BronxTheBoss]

Its good that your parents support you to do it and allows you to have your privacy, because some parents would try everything to try to get you not to masturbate. Being caught really is just part of doing it.

[sparkles]

When my mom first caught me we had a talk about it. She basically said it was normal but that I should only do it in private. That was about the end of that. I am glad things are working out for you. I also think KY is better than astrolglide, lol.

[ksdnfkfr]

The stuff you go through dude LOL. I'm just laughing because it had a good outcome. So now you can just enjoy yourself hopefully without anymore drama.

[FameMonster]

Oh man! That sucks! you don't have good luck, do ya? I would be embarrassed as hell and probably couldnt look at my parents for a month. I've been lucky and have never been caught; a few close calls, but never actually caught red handed. \

I guess the lesson here is never forget where you leave your used condoms and lotion. It sounds like your dad probably remembers when he was 13 and everything worked out.

[Curious.kid]

It sounds like your dad, at first, just didnt want to get in trouble himself with your mom and was forced to play along with it. Your parents must live in mid evil times if they spanked you. You seem like you have a cool dad, lucky you.

I think so too. My mom is more strict when it comes to things like religion and being good on the sex topic. But I guess the porn was really too much for them since it's illegal afterall, so I understand. They've spanked me since I was 2, but only for really bad or dangerous things, so it makes sense because porn is illegal and I learned my lesson. My dad was better because I think he explained to my mom if I get my own lube I won't use her lotion and that's it's just something a boy has to do every so often.

Its good that your parents support you to do it and allows you to have your privacy, because some parents would try everything to try to get you not to masturbate. Being caught really is just part of doing it.

They tried to make me not masturbate the first time I got caught but I think my dad finally told my mom it's too hard to quit. So now thank god they let me just close the door and let me have some fun.

The stuff you go through dude LOL. I'm just laughing because it had a good outcome. So now you can just enjoy yourself hopefully without anymore drama.

I hope! I just have to keep my brother from distracting me or wanting to come in to get his toys.

[Hermes96]

next time you do use the internet for porn use privet browsing so they can't see it. and i can't believe he spanked you i thought every civilised country had made that illegal

[jackdude2000]

I never got busted yet although I've had a few close calls!!!! I love with my grandparents so it would be even more awkward:mad::mad::mad:

[xandyx]

Well at least its out of the way now and you don't have to hide and sneak around as much. I know how you feel, it's super embarrassing to get caught. My grandpa caught me. Awkward.

[ugaboy]

well that was embarassing, but it seems like it all worked out in the end.

[Bmble_B]

Yay seems like a happy ending! :D

[hockeyfan]

Isn't beating someone with a belt illegal? I know it sounds hard, but I would be out of that house ASAP. If that means waiting till ur 18 don't leave a day later. Ur dad seems to be easily influenced by ur mom. Too bad he wouldn't grow the parts to tell ur mother wat he thought.

Did ur parents ever jerk off when they were younger? Have sex before marriage? If so what Hippocrettes they r.

[Curious.kid]

next time you do use the internet for porn use privet browsing so they can't see it. and i can't believe he spanked you i thought every civilised country had made that illegal

I don't think I'm going to risk looking at porn again, for a long time! Spanking in America is common and isn't illegal, most of my friends get them and so did my parents.

Well at least its out of the way now and you don't have to hide and sneak around as much. I know how you feel, it's super embarrassing to get caught. My grandpa caught me. Awkward.

It would still be embarrassing to get caught by my grandma and grandpa, but I think they would be nicer about it. Did your grandpa tell your parents?

Isn't beating someone with a belt illegal? I know it sounds hard, but I would be out of that house ASAP. If that means waiting till ur 18 don't leave a day later. Ur dad seems to be easily influenced by ur mom. Too bad he wouldn't grow the parts to tell ur mother wat he thought.

Did ur parents ever jerk off when they were younger? Have sex before marriage? If so what Hippocrettes they r.

No, it's not illegal for some reason people think it is. And spanking is different from beating. I don't want to leave home, I love my parents their just really strict about certaint things and I try not to get in trouble. And my dad is fine, my mom is the stricter one yeah but he's got plenty of power too. I don't know if they masturbated but they didn't have computers with porn. And I don't want to even think about sex with them, so I don't know. They just don't want me looking at porn for a 13 year old cuz I'm too young and because of the lust.

[Catholic Guy]

If you feel guilty looking your mum in the eye then wait until you are home alone or everybody else is asleep and then do it

[MrIan]

Ohh. Good thing ur parents accepted the fact of masturbating. My paremts so far never told me about masturbating being normal. But anyways I'll do it private. Oh well. :)

[male_greece]

yh, pretty messed up, ur parents too strick, for real? beat u up cause u watch porn, crazy. But ur dad is kinda nice since he bought u lube

[Curious.kid]

If you feel guilty looking your mum in the eye then wait until you are home alone or everybody else is asleep and then do it

That's what I try to do. But there is usually someone home with me.

yh, pretty messed up, ur parents too strick, for real? beat u up cause u watch porn, crazy. But ur dad is kinda nice since he bought u lube

I think it was also because I lied about it and because I was scared from being caught. But at least now I got some lube and my dad said if I need some more just to bring him the empty bottle.

[Catholic Guy]

That's what I try to do. But there is usually someone home with me.

Well if there is always someone home then definately wait until they are all asleep and then go for it

[Boar]

Your parents seemed to be in shock which is probably why they punished you. I can understand the hits about the porn. Most parents do not appreciate it. However out of all your dad seems like a really understanding person! Most good news with little bad!

[jackdude2000]

Lucky!!!!! Your dad bought you lube;)

[Max64]

that sucks but atleast you got a bottle of lube out of it

[BreakFall]

Wow you got caught bad

[toplels]

This is actually an unusually good outcome! It's cool that your parents are super understanding and actually bought you lubrication. Although the whole spanking thing was kind of... eh. The other thing I don't get is why they got mad at the condom because it is just another tool for masturbation. Getting angry at the porn was understandable though.

Edit: Did you clear you history or use private browsing when you looked at the porn?

[lightbringer]

Oh, happy end here, cool. But it's so sad to read about such methods of "punishment", i think that is unnaceptable to beat (spank, whatever) kids, especially when you're already 13yo (not 5, or 7 or 9 etc). Especially when there is so many tools to hide porn on your pc :D

so it makes sense because porn is illegal and I learned my lesson.
Porn isn't illegal in US, until you dont film/distribute it (and i'm sure you dont :D).

it's super embarrassing because now my mom knows when I masturbate if she sees the door closed, and I feel guilty looking at her afterwards.
It reminds me when my mother allowed me to smoke when i was 16. It's was so unusual and strange to stop hiding, and whenever i smoked i felt myself kinda guilty and couldnt look at her eyes too. But we got used to it after few months.
Oh, by the way, in my room door is closed always, or i just can't feel myself comfortable enough. Thats why no one can know if i masturbate :rolleyes:

Anyway, if you feel so ashamed, you can just try not to wank if someone in your house, or do it at bedtime, when everybody going to sleep and nobody is going to come in your room (listen to the footsteps carefully! :D).

[Remora]

Oh damn! Getting caught with benefits, not sure wether i should be happy i never were caught or if i shouldn't...

Good thing to know you're doing better again, dude, stay safe :)

[Ben101]

ik how you feel with the whole embarrasing getting caught thing, and the getting caught with porn thing (kills you like hell) but things actually seem quite good for you (now at least)

I agree with this. Your parents obviously understand, which is a great thing!

[JVTeen]

Its a good thing though id find it awkward if this happens to me

[Curious.kid]

This is actually an unusually good outcome! It's cool that your parents are super understanding and actually bought you lubrication. Although the whole spanking thing was kind of... eh. The other thing I don't get is why they got mad at the condom because it is just another tool for masturbation. Getting angry at the porn was understandable though.

Edit: Did you clear you history or use private browsing when you looked at the porn?

I was going to clear it later. My mom and little brother came home so I had to exit out of all the windows quickly and help them. But then my dumb brother found the condom in the sink and then they asked about the porn and I knew they would find it if they checked since I didn't clear the history. I usually do but I got rushed and didn't want to seem suspiscious.

[GoWA_Vet]

I consider spanking perfectly reasonable...but that's just me.

Glad things worked out

[toplels]

I was going to clear it later. My mom and little brother came home so I had to exit out of all the windows quickly and help them. But then my dumb brother found the condom in the sink and then they asked about the porn and I knew they would find it if they checked since I didn't clear the history. I usually do but I got rushed and didn't want to seem suspiscious.

Just a tip try using private browsing haha! It bascially makes it so history and other remenants of your browsing is erased when you exit the window. I can't recall what browsers actually have this feature but I'm sure Chrome and Firefox do.

[phuckphace]

agreed with the above, Firefox is the one that has the "never remember history" feature.

Tools -> Options -> Privacy -> Never remember history.

[Brown13]

Dude its the second time this happened. I saw the first post like this when it happened the first time and all i can say is to just keep all the bases covered. Especially when youre on watch. I remember when i got caught due to my carelessness but never again. Just be careful bro. At least everything worked out for ya. Good luck in the future :)

[IamVictorious]

Good for you! I had a happy ending with my dad too. He said "for the record, i did it too." But he disagreed to porn stuff and I didn't get any lube.. Bummer. But thats ok

[Landbuscus97]

Your dad's really cool to give you lube like that, your mom probably saw the condom and her maternal instincts flipped out haha

[Curious.kid]

Its a good thing though id find it awkward if this happens to me

Well it wasn't fun getting caught and getting a visit across my dads knee.

I consider spanking perfectly reasonable...but that's just me.

Glad things worked out

That's what I usually get so I know that the porn was BAD

Dude its the second time this happened. I saw the first post like this when it happened the first time and all i can say is to just keep all the bases covered. Especially when youre on watch. I remember when i got caught due to my carelessness but never again. Just be careful bro. At least everything worked out for ya. Good luck in the future :)

I thought I was going to be home alone longer but they came home too fast!

[Liven]

It seems that getting caught had benefits and downsides. It all seemed to work out besides the embarrassment part. I would be embarrassed too. But, it happened and there is nothing you can do but to forget about it. Also, not looking at your mom is kinda wrong. It shows how mature you are in handling things and you have to make eye contact with her or she may punish you if the behavior (the not looking at her) continues.

[reptilianpine87]

im glad everything worked out but seriously your mom needs to cut the bullshit. boys masturbate, end of story and just have fun with yourself dude.

[neffam3]

im glad everything worked out but seriously your mom needs to cut the bullshit. boys masturbate, end of story and just have fun with yourself dude.



I compleatly agree with this! Its just a fact of life and your mom should just get over the fact that people in this world masturbate!

[LunarScorpio]

Well it ended well-so just get on with it. Parents generally know far more than you think anyway, so they will know you do it even if you have never been caught

[imthomas]

That's a lot

[Brown13]

I thought I was going to be home alone longer but they came home too fast!

Hahaa well all i can say is staying calm is the best way to be. When you get excited you forget things easily since things move so fast. Slow down and think about what you need to do and 9 times out of 10 it works out :3

[rockshe100]

Need to clean the evidence up faster! :3
I have not got busted yet, suprisingly in this small house, with alot of people living in it, close calls through very close calls, I am just a good actor! lol

[Andrew2499]

my brother has busted me. but not my parents. I don't think they would really do anything about it considering i have two older brothers. And i know that they know i jerk. lol but im glad that it turned out the way it did (:

[HSJock206]

Ive been busted by my father and brothers, which sharing a room with them its difficult to have privacy so I just go with it. After Dad caught me the first few times and the embarrassment part subsided, it wasnt that big of deal anymore if he did. Its as normal as brushing your teeth or takiing a shower....