My brothers girlfriend is having sex with best friend???

[Celestgirl00]

Ive been knowing for about a year months now that my brother s girlfriend has been having sex with his best friend through their whole 2 year relationship.

[PinkFloyd]

Oof holy shit, that's some bad stuff, but you have a few options that I'm sure you've already considered, but here you could do any of these:

A. Tell him that you saw her doing something with another girl. I'd recommend getting photos/videos because if he's been dating her for this long, it's not a joke. He will go right into denial and probably get upset with you. That or he just actually won't believe you.

B. Do nothing at all. Ignore the whole thing because it's not your life.


I personally would lean more towards option A.

[Celestgirl00]

Oof holy shit, that's some bad stuff, but you have a few options that I'm sure you've already considered, but here you could do any of these:

A. Tell him that you saw her doing something with another girl. I'd recommend getting photos/videos because if he's been dating her for this long, it's not a joke. He will go right into denial and probably get upset with you. That or he just actually won't believe you.

B. Do nothing at all. Ignore the whole thing because it's not your life.


I personally would lean more towards option A.
I found out from school because Im in the same social group as her. They screw every other day including right now.

[ska8er]

If it has been going on for awhile now ur
brother must have some idea of whats
been happening. Unless he asks u for
any advice I would not say anything
for now.

[BlackParadePixie]

It's your brother...I think you need to tell him.

I would do the same if I had a brother.

[Uniquemind]

I’d tell him, but only once I had more proof in case there’s a denial by him. What was your opinion of her before you came across the evidence that she wronged your brother?


You also have to think about how telling, will affect the flow of information and social dynamics of your social circle, they might suspect you as the information source and it’s up to you to sense how that might affect your social circle if that’s valuable to you.

[Jordan99]

It's your brother...I think you need to tell him.

I would do the same if I had a brother.

I agree. If this girl has been cheating on your brother and he finds out you knew all along, this may be bad for your relationship with him later if he finds out. Family first!