Is it the end for us?

[Jason The Great]

So i've been dating this girl for almost 9 months. Everything was great and we got along just fine. But recently we had a fight. Although things settles and got over it, our relationship is not like before. We're more distant and she doesn't pay me much attention and she sends a few word texts only.

I told her if you're unhappy with this relationship we can end it, we're both grown-ups. She said no, she wants to be with me. But her actions show otherway around. I'm getting tired. Last night we didn't text at all.

What should i do?

P.S : Recently most of her friends broke up with their BFs, i dont know if this factor is somehow related.

[Uniquemind]

That depends on what the fight was about and specifically how the fight or fever pitch drama got dialed down. Did things get resolved or did things just come to a tipping point with no real compromise or communication?

[yeehaw]

Definitely as above. It really depends whether there was a resolve or if there was no agreement made. And how long ago was this argument?

Take into account that she may be mad still and might not want to text you as much or acting blunt on purpose.

[Jason The Great]

Yes, there was a resolve. It was my fault, i apologized and she forgave me.

[Jason The Great]

That depends on what the fight was about and specifically how the fight or fever pitch drama got dialed down. Did things get resolved or did things just come to a tipping point with no real compromise or communication?

Definitely as above. It really depends whether there was a resolve or if there was no agreement made. And how long ago was this argument?

Take into account that she may be mad still and might not want to text you as much or acting blunt on purpose.

Yes, there was a resolve. it was my fault and i apologized and she forgave me

[Pultost]

Maybe she just needs some space. Give her some time to cool off.

[Uniquemind]

Maybe she just needs some space. Give her some time to cool off.

That being said continue to listen and be attentive to the nuances of the relationship. Also keep in mind romantic relationships change as the “honeymoon-hormonal high” phase of meeting someone new begins to wear off.

It’s been well studied in the brain that after the initial rush of lovey dovey gotta cuddle and (maybe do sexual things frequently), it can eventually wear off after approximate 6 months to a year, then the cadence of the relationship tends to change, or its energy changes. When the energy shifts that’s the first real test of the relationship that breaks it or makes it stronger but different and the couple gets into a cycle of what’s normal ups and downs.

[coolmatt]

Talk to her. Maybe theres something else bothering her in her life