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Jeff8
October 7th, 2018, 08:16 AM
Sometimes right before I cum, I feel that I am about to; but sometimes it happens with no warning. Does this happen to you? Is this normal? Does it make a difference?

breaux
October 7th, 2018, 08:21 AM
Orgasm and ejaculation are two seperate things, you can ejaculate without having an orgasm

kyrocks03
October 7th, 2018, 08:27 AM
Ya that happens to me sometimes, but happened a lot more when I first started jizzing. I think it may be a control thing that you develop as you become a more experienced jizzer. It also probably depends on how horny you are. As an example, if I'm exceptionally horny, I'll barely touch my dick and I can fire one off.

Max the Disenchanter
October 7th, 2018, 12:21 PM
Once in a while I’m surprised

citycanuck
October 7th, 2018, 01:19 PM
yeah sometimes that happens so it's definitely normal

scott2002
October 7th, 2018, 02:11 PM
Orgasm and ejaculation are two separate things, you can ejaculate without having an orgasm
Yes, they're two separate things, but I have never ejaculated without having an orgasm.

jamie_n5
October 7th, 2018, 04:42 PM
Orgasm is the great tingly feeling and great euphoria you get and ejaculation is when you cum. They usually occur nearly at the same time but can be totally separate.

wheredidyousleeplast
October 7th, 2018, 11:07 PM
orgasm and cumming usually happen at the same time for me, but there have been times where I've had the orgasm, but didn't start cumming until the orgasm had finished. It's happened the other way around too, sometimes I'll shoot cum, and then get the orgasm. They mostly happen at the same time though

Hermes
October 8th, 2018, 09:35 AM
orgasm and cumming usually happen at the same time for me, but there have been times where I've had the orgasm, but didn't start cumming until the orgasm had finished. It's happened the other way around too, sometimes I'll shoot cum, and then get the orgasm. They mostly happen at the same time though

I think the timing being a bit out-of-sync like that is more likely if you have been doing stop & go (edging) than for a quickie. Not that it matters, just enjoy the sensations in whatever order they come.

As for being pre-warned there is a definite feeling of something moving inside before anything actually spurts out. That's called the "emission stage" and is the various glands contracting and adding their contribution so it all mixes together in your urethra, ready to be pushed out. That means this sensation is after the point of no return - you can't decide to not to cum at that point but if does give you a second or two of advanced warning.

Before that point things are a bit more subtle. You can feel a bit of a tingle, a feeling like you need to pee, a bit of extra hardness or just the urge to go faster. To avoid surprises you just need to recognise the signs for you. I have not had any surprises for a few years.

NoLimitGuy
October 8th, 2018, 09:46 AM
You should be feeling the ejaculation - orgasm or some contractions in cock. If you cum without warning or feeling then there is something odd. If it happens sometimes, you shouldn't worry, but if it's happening regulalry you should visit sexolog or urolog for consult...

Matthew04
October 8th, 2018, 09:51 AM
I always know when I am about to cum never cum without warning

user-999
October 10th, 2018, 09:18 AM
Most of the time I feel that I'm going to cum, but once in a while, it takes me by surprise.

KyleM76
October 10th, 2018, 09:25 AM
I can always tell it’s about to happen

Pisces2004
October 10th, 2018, 09:34 AM
Always know when I am about to cum gives me time to catch it in some tissue hate if I didn’t expect it ended up cumming all over

Jeff8
October 10th, 2018, 10:11 AM
I can always tell it’s about to happen

Really, how?

KyleM76
October 10th, 2018, 10:13 AM
Really, how?

I can just feel it building up.

Cassius16
October 10th, 2018, 02:08 PM
I always know when I'm going to cum. Sometimes I get caught out if I'm trying to masturbate for longer, but then it just happens suddenly

LITHIUM101
October 11th, 2018, 08:05 AM
When im about to come it feels rly good and i edge to keep it from cumming. But when i cum i feel pressure in my shaft and let go and then it shoots out on its own

rioo
October 11th, 2018, 08:19 AM
I can feel it. Also when I sleep I can feel it just few second before to pull my sheet.

Birds18
October 12th, 2018, 02:46 PM
I still don't produce sperm yet but I can usually tell when my orgasm is going to happen about 10 seconds before.

NickOc
October 12th, 2018, 03:27 PM
Sometimes right before I cum, I feel that I am about to; but sometimes it happens with no warning. Does this happen to you? Is this normal? Does it make a difference?

I feel ya bro. Sometimes I accidentally finish too. We have to pm when im at 100

Tsall
October 12th, 2018, 06:10 PM
For the most part I know when I am about to cum. That is the time when I put my sock over my penis. Every now and then I will cum unexpectedly, so it gets everywhere.

Jeff8
October 12th, 2018, 09:24 PM
For the most part I know when I am about to cum. That is the time when I put my sock over my penis. Every now and then I will cum unexpectedly, so it gets everywhere.

A sock over your penis ??? Why?

bonbon
October 12th, 2018, 09:39 PM
A sock over your penis ??? Why?

That's the way some people use to catch the cum.

baseballhockey5
October 15th, 2018, 08:52 PM
If I am masturbating and I am really horny, I won't really feel it when i cum.

Spooky_Eli
October 17th, 2018, 08:17 AM
most of the time i can feel it before it happens.

Jrunner
October 18th, 2018, 01:38 PM
Nope I always know

scott2002
October 18th, 2018, 07:07 PM
My first jerkoff buddy when I was barely 13 used to start saying or gasping, "I'm gonna piss!! I'm gonna piss!" when he was about to cum. Like me, he always knew when he was about to ejaculate.

mick01
October 19th, 2018, 10:18 AM
I always know when I'm gonna cum.

Skier2234
October 19th, 2018, 10:32 AM
Same here

Anomaly6
October 19th, 2018, 02:03 PM
Yup, it all depends how excited I am.. Sometimes it just happens and other times I feel as if I've got more control over it

The captain
October 20th, 2018, 02:09 AM
Ya that happens to me sometimes, but happened a lot more when I first started jizzing. I think it may be a control thing that you develop as you become a more experienced jizzer. It also probably depends on how horny you are. As an example, if I'm exceptionally horny, I'll barely touch my dick and I can fire one off.

same for me dude

baseballhockey5
November 11th, 2018, 05:20 PM
Try to practice edging for some time. It helped me control my ejaculation and made me cum a lot more.

Jeff8
November 16th, 2018, 11:06 AM
Try to practice edging for some time. It helped me control my ejaculation and made me cum a lot more.

What is edging?

scott2002
November 17th, 2018, 08:35 AM
Edging is stroking yourself until you start to feel yourself getting close to cumming, but then you stop before you cum until your dick calms down and you don't feel close anymore. Then, you stroke again until you get close again, and then stop before actually cumming. Also, if you feel like maybe you let it go too far, if you squeeze your penis head real tight and hold it for a few seconds, sometimes that can stop orgasm from starting, too.

Turbofan explosion
November 18th, 2018, 05:19 PM
I heard that it is possible to ejaculate without orgasm, but I'm not entirely sure. It happens to me sometimes though.

Jericho14
November 19th, 2018, 03:20 AM
Sometimes i can ejaculate without needing to do orgasm

tomhero
November 20th, 2018, 01:45 PM
I always feel when it comes. I can feel a tingle in it and I need to rub faster and then it happens all alone.

heyoh
November 21st, 2018, 12:53 AM
i relate to this a lot. Like sometimes if I'm horny enough i have no control over cumming.

baseballhockey5
November 25th, 2018, 06:05 PM
What is edging?
Edging is when you masturbate just before you cum and keep on doing it for a while so the orgasm is super strong :)

hot lazer
November 29th, 2018, 06:33 PM
I sometimes cum without an orgasm

ChrisA1998
November 29th, 2018, 06:56 PM
Sometimes i can ejaculate without needing to do orgasm
I sometimes cum without an orgasm

Can you explain me how it's possible to do that ?? :confused:

Jeff8
December 1st, 2018, 12:48 AM
I sometimes cum without an orgasm

Really? How does that happen?

shadylex
December 1st, 2018, 12:23 PM
Yes, they're two separate things, but I have never ejaculated without having an orgasm.
Same over here

Maxbreak
December 2nd, 2018, 12:37 PM
I get lost in the moment. It's nice to have the orgasm and cum together!

Shamal
December 2nd, 2018, 03:18 PM
Yeh sometimes I suppose.

Gay Paul
December 11th, 2018, 04:51 PM
Edging is stroking yourself until you start to feel yourself getting close to cumming, but then you stop before you cum until your dick calms down and you don't feel close anymore. Then, you stroke again until you get close again, and then stop before actually cumming. Also, if you feel like maybe you let it go too far, if you squeeze your penis head real tight and hold it for a few seconds, sometimes that can stop orgasm from starting, too.

And what you think on very moment you CUM?:D

Deleted00
December 11th, 2018, 05:13 PM
It never comes without warning for me

Diable rouge
December 11th, 2018, 06:41 PM
I feel it, I feel something inside.

syuna
December 12th, 2018, 01:08 AM
this happens to me sometimes, seems pretty normal and common to me. It doesn't really make a difference either.


Sometimes right before I cum, I feel that I am about to; but sometimes it happens with no warning. Does this happen to you? Is this normal? Does it make a difference?

jimbojones
December 12th, 2018, 06:51 AM
I don’t think I’ve ever cum without feeling it coming. I suppose it’s not abnormal, but maybe less common. I guess that just makes it a fun surprise, but personally I’d be annoyed if I couldn’t control it to draw out the fun for longer.

Dav1d
December 16th, 2018, 05:31 AM
That happens.to me

justa16yearoldaussie
December 18th, 2018, 03:56 AM
Sometimes right before I cum, I feel that I am about to; but sometimes it happens with no warning. Does this happen to you? Is this normal? Does it make a difference?

idk why but I found that hilarious at first, like it sneaks up and hits you by surprise; but ejaculation and orgasm are two serrate things although they usually happen simultaneously, some people can seperate them

scott2002
December 18th, 2018, 06:54 AM
Sometimes right before I cum, I feel that I am about to; but sometimes it happens with no warning.
If you're straight or bi, I wouldn't take a chance on using "pulling out" as your method of birth control.
"Don't worry, my love. I'll pull it out before I start to cum..." :whoops: :eek:

Falcons_11
December 19th, 2018, 12:22 PM
The few moments before I cum I feel rushing waves of pleasure all over my body, even in my toes too. At the moment of orgasm my penis is throbbing as I ejaculate. It's probably the most intense feelings besides actual intercourse.

paxtonwrestles
January 12th, 2019, 09:59 AM
The few moments before I cum I feel rushing waves of pleasure all over my body, even in my toes too. At the moment of orgasm my penis is throbbing as I ejaculate. It's probably the most intense feelings besides actual intercourse.

I've never has intercourse (yet) but I agree, it is SO intense and feels amazing. My penis throbs A LOT after I am done cumming, like it bounces and pulses.

scentlessapprentice
January 12th, 2019, 10:14 AM
Yeah, with the amount I jerk off, I've had my fair share of orgasms sneak up on me. Sometimes you think you're only halfway through and then BAM. You cum all over yourself.

PCwrestler
January 25th, 2019, 06:09 AM
i relate to this a lot. Like sometimes if I'm horny enough i have no control over cumming.

Yeah me either! I just feel my sac start to tighten up, and I know my balls are going to release something

PCwrestler
February 2nd, 2019, 08:42 AM
The few moments before I cum I feel rushing waves of pleasure all over my body, even in my toes too. At the moment of orgasm my penis is throbbing as I ejaculate. It's probably the most intense feelings besides actual intercourse.

I haven't had sex yet but yeah it is the most intense feeling i ever had!

sports_nut
February 4th, 2019, 08:41 PM
just feel like i cant hold off and it pops

joshyM
February 4th, 2019, 09:18 PM
Feels like a big build up then awesome release

Socal dude
February 4th, 2019, 10:01 PM
Beat feeling ever

stiller
February 5th, 2019, 12:58 AM
Yeah, that happens to me a lot. When I'm really horny, I cum without feeling anything before. But usually I feel a tingle before cumming

Hhfjjfhd6
February 19th, 2019, 05:30 PM
I can feel when I’m about to cum. I love that feeling. My favorite thing about jacking off.

Abcde1234
February 19th, 2019, 06:12 PM
Yeah, with the amount I jerk off, I've had my fair share of orgasms sneak up on me. Sometimes you think you're only halfway through and then BAM. You cum all over yourself.
Very relatable

ShineintheDark
February 19th, 2019, 07:52 PM
I pretty much always can feel that I'm about to cum, even if it's like a second before

Men85
February 22nd, 2019, 07:31 PM
Very nice.

Blake2003
February 22nd, 2019, 09:40 PM
Yeah. It feels so damn good as I feel it shooting up the inside of my erection.

PCwrestler
February 23rd, 2019, 09:19 AM
Yeah. It feels so damn good as I feel it shooting up the inside of my erection.

That's cool that you can feel it like that, i never thought about it that way!

Paxton
March 17th, 2019, 01:42 AM
Feels like a big build up then awesome release

yeah i agree!

thematt002
March 17th, 2019, 04:02 PM
I can always feel when i'm gonna cum (but usually it's too late to stop anyway)

JayA
March 17th, 2019, 04:59 PM
agree with thematt002 -- there is never a time that I don't feel and by that time I am past the point of caring ----

Paxton
March 19th, 2019, 09:21 AM
Feels like a big build up then awesome release

yeah that is how i'd describe it, too. Like the cum builds up in my balls and then just needs to release!

thewrongone
March 24th, 2019, 06:13 AM
Once in a while I’m surprised
Yeah same! Usually I can tell when I'm gonna shoot. Sometimes if I'm real turned on, I just come without warning. I love when I'm surprised don't you? It feels amazing :)

Jason2005
March 24th, 2019, 07:44 AM
I still don't produce sperm yet but I can usually tell when my orgasm is going to happen about 10 seconds before.

I am 13 and up till Christmas eve 2018 all I had was dry orgasms because I did not start puberty yet, I guess. The orgasms I could build up to 4 or 5 in a row but now that I can cum which is tot as lily awesome but having 4 or 5 orgasms straight is lots better,
Just my 2 cents worth

ShineintheDark
March 24th, 2019, 07:00 PM
I am 13 and up till Christmas eve 2018 all I had was dry orgasms because I did not start puberty yet, I guess. The orgasms I could build up to 4 or 5 in a row but now that I can cum which is tot as lily awesome but having 4 or 5 orgasms straight is lots better,
Just my 2 cents worth Christmas miracle

Spooky_Eli
March 24th, 2019, 07:04 PM
Christmas miracle

Hallelujah! Prase the Lord!

Jason2005
March 25th, 2019, 08:18 AM
Christmas miracle

Best Christmas gift I ever got

Paxton
March 29th, 2019, 09:30 PM
I am 13 and up till Christmas eve 2018 all I had was dry orgasms because I did not start puberty yet, I guess. The orgasms I could build up to 4 or 5 in a row but now that I can cum which is tot as lily awesome but having 4 or 5 orgasms straight is lots better,
Just my 2 cents worth

Wow that's cool that you could have that many orgasms in a row. I never really jerked off that much before when I could not cum, so i never had that experience but that is so cool that you did. I bet it was A LOT of fun! Do you think cumming is better though? Like do you feel more like growing up and becoming a man?

Jason2005
March 30th, 2019, 01:12 AM
I dont dnow, the orgasms are really great I mean I would do anything to get them back. But knowing I get a surprise when I orgasm is amazing too.

But I cant answer your question honestly Pazton.

bily.bob96
April 15th, 2019, 02:12 AM
Beast feeling ever.

Diable rouge
April 27th, 2019, 08:23 PM
Beast feeling
That must really be something