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benlodge123
October 5th, 2018, 02:07 PM
I haven't had a girlfriend in 2 years. This filipino girl called Yna (pronounced ee-na) added my on snapchat. She is very pretty, you can see the filipino in her. She lives 25 mins from me and goes to college not far from me. Me and her have decided to meet next friday depending on whether her parents allow her to stay out after college as we both finish early.

The problem i have is i worry. A lot. Yna said she is getting attached to me and i feel the same. She said she hasnt ever met someone like me. Im guessing thats referencing how talkative i am.

Yna is friends with more guys than girls, she claims she gets on better with them. I have no problem with this. She told me however that she used to like one of them, and he liked her too. Anyway she has never done anything with a boy apart from kissing a boy at a party 2 months ago.

She told me she would like to "link" which is slang for "talking a lot and probably going to go out soon". I felt the same and we agreed we would start linking. Me and her have got horny together 1 time on snapchat and then 2 times on facetime. She has seen my dick and i have seen her boobs and vagina. I dont believe she would show me that stuff if she wasnt into me. But i have had a troubles in the past where girls have played with my feelings saying they like me, then when i fall for them they will talk to me for a while more and then mug me off. Yna says im overthinking, and i know she is right. The problem im having is idk how to stop worrying about whether she is gonna start liking her friend again and whether she is going to mug me off.

Any help would be appreciated as im getting pretty worked up over this.

ska8er
October 5th, 2018, 02:51 PM
Well u don't know what she will do
after the two of u "link". Go out with
her and c if the two of u r going to b
comfortable with each other. If u keep
thinking things wont work out then u r
not going to get anywhere with a girl.
Just b urself and chill. If she senses
that u r nervous she might not want
to go out again.

Ben99
October 5th, 2018, 04:35 PM
In my case at least, the worrying usually goes away after a while. I know it sucks now but it will get better.

benlodge123
October 5th, 2018, 04:53 PM
In my case at least, the worrying usually goes away after a while. I know it sucks now but it will get better.

Yah i said that to her. once i’ve met her i will be fine.

scottishlooby
November 3rd, 2018, 06:01 AM
1. She asked you to "link" first, you didnt have to ask her. If she wanted to be with the other guy, she would have asked him.
2. She probably wouldnt be doing that kinda stuff on snapchat if she didnt really like you
3. Chill out! The more you seem nervous, the more likely she is gonna wanna pull back
4. Go meet her! :D

benlodge123
November 3rd, 2018, 06:40 AM
1. She asked you to "link" first, you didnt have to ask her. If she wanted to be with the other guy, she would have asked him.
2. She probably wouldnt be doing that kinda stuff on snapchat if she didnt really like you
3. Chill out! The more you seem nervous, the more likely she is gonna wanna pull back
4. Go meet her! :D

hehe I know Im just a anxious lad. Link is slang, I hate the word very much but i dont know how else to say it. I am very nervous and cant always calm my nerves. I am meeting her, but check my latest post :/