Saw ex girlfriend today pregnant...

[Ffdp16]

My ex and I had a really good relationship together. I still love her. In a way even though I'm with someone else I'm still not completely over her. My relationship with her got ruined due to unplanned pregnancy. She broke up with me because I didn't want her to terminate and I couldn't cope with it in the way that she needed me to. So I didn't hear from her since. I recently saw her on the strip getting on a bus. She looks very pregnant. She couldn't be any less than 7 months pregnant. And last I saw her was when she was 7 weeks and a few days along. So wouldn't it be highly unlikely she got pregnant that quickly after. She also looked really in bad shape. I'm worried she might be in a dangerous. Before she was pregnant she was a regular heroin user. If it's mine is it possible I could get involved? And how likely is it she didn't abort the pregnancy? Is it more likely she simply got pregnant afterwards? Do I seem desperate to think she didn't terminate? Advice pls?

[Living For Love]

I guess that, if the baby is yours, you're definitely involved, and need to accept the consequences. She can always choose to abort, but if she doesn't, then I guess you still should stick close to her, if you know what I mean, even thought you're with someone else. You can also give the baby to adoption. Whatever you choose, make sure you're responsible and mature enough to handle this, it's not the baby's fault, he shouldn't suffer with this.

[Green Arrow]

I think the only way you can find out if by talking to her, say that you need to speak with her as it's important and lay your thoughts on the table. If it isn't yours then maybe the two of you can find closure of your relationship as it ended to abruptly.

[Ffdp16]

I guess that, if the baby is yours, you're definitely involved, and need to accept the consequences. She can always choose to abort, but if she doesn't, then I guess you still should stick close to her, if you know what I mean, even thought you're with someone else. You can also give the baby to adoption. Whatever you choose, make sure you're responsible and mature enough to handle this, it's not the baby's fault, he shouldn't suffer with this.

I actually want the baby. If she's not using H, we could co-parent. I'm more scared to inquire because I don't want to get my hopes up and for it to really just be that she had an abortion and it's perhaps a new pregnancy. It's already a sensitive subject for me to begin with.

Btw if she didn't terminate she's like due today. So she can't get an abortion. She's too far along now.

Also I dot really know how to contact her. I guess I could start with the last family she was with. But idk how much they know though. She bounces around.

[Living For Love]

I actually want the baby. If she's not using H, we could co-parent. I'm more scared to inquire because I don't want to get my hopes up and for it to really just be that she had an abortion and it's perhaps a new pregnancy. It's already a sensitive subject for me to begin with.

Btw if she didn't terminate she's like due today. So she can't get an abortion. She's too far along now.

Well, you still need to know if the baby is yours, so you should ask her about it. If you're the dad, you have the right to know it, she can't simply hide it from you. It's no big deal, you just want to know where you stand in all this, and I understand it can be a bit awkward because you're no longer with her, but still, you two need to solve that.