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Semi_IronMan
October 3rd, 2018, 12:23 PM
So I’m dating this person in my school and I see them EVERY SINGLE DAY. During most weekends I don’t really wanna go out with them cause I just want my own space. Am I being a bad boyfriend? How do I tell them that I don’t wanna see them EVERY WEEKEND, seeing that I see them all day at school without sounding like a jerk?
mick01
October 3rd, 2018, 01:31 PM
Can't you just have a conversation where you say you have other responsibilities and interests and you're just not able to spend every weekend together? I think if he had a bad reaction to that, I'd question whether I'd want to be in a relationship with him. Needy and clingy are bad things.
ska8er
October 3rd, 2018, 01:32 PM
No ur not bad. Just say u have
some other things to do on week
ends and u cant go out. There is
no other way to get it across. If
they like u then they will accept
it.
AshleighB
October 3rd, 2018, 02:10 PM
Everybody needs there own space and time to them selves me and my boyfriend are at school together and spend time after together but we both likeour own time apart with friends it can’t be good been together all the time we all need our own space
Ben99
October 4th, 2018, 04:07 PM
I think just tell them you are busy. It’s a pretty valid excuse. Tbh, you can also just tell them that u need some space and if she is a good gf, she will understand. In my opinion, i would do the second one if i had to because its better not to lie.
teenboyNathan
October 4th, 2018, 08:32 PM
Just ask for a little privacy from time to time. Hopefully they understand and if they don't, you might need to reconsider dating them
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