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benlodge123
September 29th, 2018, 03:38 PM
Me and this girl agreed that we both felt something good between us. As in we are falling for eachother.

I havent had a girlfriend in 2-3 years but i feel like im worrying myself sick. She turned 16 this week and is having people round for a party, I was busy so was unable to attend. But she told me a boy that likes her is going and im worried that he might try it on with her. And because I dont put my trust in people quickly, i feel like she might let it happen.
Its driving me up the fucking wall. Im alone with my feelings, all i have is my earphones and music to get my mind off it. I dont have many friends.
I dont want to message her because i want her to have a good time at her party. Also, when her friends started arriving the boys stole her phone and was sending me mugs of themselves to annoy me. Idk if they saw that she had a message and instantly thought that me and her was talking or what.


Probably a complete clusterfuck^^^ But I would love to pointers in how i can cope with worrying about whether she is just saying she wants to talk to me and going behind my back to do things at her party.

AshleighB
September 29th, 2018, 03:47 PM
Me and this girl agreed that we both felt something good between us. As in we are falling for eachother.

I havent had a girlfriend in 2-3 years but i feel like im worrying myself sick. She turned 16 this week and is having people round for a party, I was busy so was unable to attend. But she told me a boy that likes her is going and im worried that he might try it on with her. And because I dont put my trust in people quickly, i feel like she might let it happen.
Its driving me up the fucking wall. Im alone with my feelings, all i have is my earphones and music to get my mind off it. I dont have many friends.
I dont want to message her because i want her to have a good time at her party. Also, when her friends started arriving the boys stole her phone and was sending me mugs of themselves to annoy me. Idk if they saw that she had a message and instantly thought that me and her was talking or what.


Probably a complete clusterfuck^^^ But I would love to pointers in how i can cope with worrying about whether she is just saying she wants to talk to me and going behind my back to do things at her party.
If you like her let her know what’s the worst that can happen, just because there is a boy there that likes her doesn’t mean anything will happen

ska8er
September 30th, 2018, 05:33 AM
Well u have to trust her. If she does go
behind ur back and flirt with this guy then
she really didn't have much feelings for u
as u thought. Worrying bout it isn't going
to help. Just trust her for now and c what
plays out.