Should I ask her out?

[Gedster]

I have been close friends with this girl for about 2 years now. Recently i got the feeling that she may like me, and we also went to the cinema together a while ago. Part of me really wants to ask her out properly but I'm scared of losing our friendship. Added to this, I also do not want to lose some of my other close friends as i have seen this happen to too many people.

Also, recently this girl that I have never really spoken to that much has started talking to me a lot more. At first I thought it was just polite conversation / friendship but my friends are convinced she fancies me.

Thoughts? Advice?

[Jake445]

I can only speak from personal experience and tell you to be open with her and with yourself. If you have feelings for her you should definitally talk to her about it, if you just suspect she might have feelings for you I would wait and see if asks you out/ talks about it with you.

[ska8er]

Id ask ur friend of 2 years if she likes u
and c what she says. If she didn't like u
she wouldn't have gone to the movies
with u. Be honest with her and tell her
how u feel. I don't think u will lose her
friendship. The other girl u r just getting
to know. See what ur other friend says
if she wants to take ur friendship further.
Yeah ask her out.

[jamie_n5]

Well if you like one girl as a friend and feel that the other wants to go out with you then maybe date the one you think wants to go out. Be careful though and be sure that the girl you have known for 2 years doesn't really want to be your girlfriend. You might ask her if she wants a relationship or just wants to remain friends first.