Questions For Girls!

[Slenders Swagger]

Hi, I am a 13 year old guy and need help.

I sit by this girl I like in school and she is really pretty and I really like her. How do I start a conversation with her and stop doing stupid stuff around her (Like Feeling Her Up, Just Kidding xD)?

[Seemyheart]

You can ask her what her interests are or make a comment about something that happened in school to get a conversation started and then go from there. Don't try too hard though, just relax:)
The number one thing to do is be yourself though. Don't try and be someone you're not.
Wish you luck! :D

[ImAurora]

Molly explained it pretty well. Just relax, be yourself, and find some common ground or something interesting to discuss.

[Croconaw]

Molly summed it all up. You can start by introducing yourself, assuming you've never spoken to each other before. Do you know what her interests are? You can talk about things that you both have in common. I'm not saying you're the kind of guy to do this, but don't lie to impress her. If you find out she likes a certain band, don't pretend to be a big fan as well. That never works out well at all. Be yourself because girls love that.

[Slenders Swagger]

Molly summed it all up. You can start by introducing yourself, assuming you've never spoken to each other before. Do you know what her interests are? You can talk about things that you both have in common. I'm not saying you're the kind of guy to do this, but don't lie to impress her. If you find out she likes a certain band, don't pretend to be a big fan as well. That never works out well at all. Be yourself because girls love that.

Yeah I have known her four years. Lol.

[vbsocc97]

Ask her how her day is or just whats up. If she's in sports ask how her game went or something. Don't try to act for her. Just be yourself and don't be afraid to smile or laugh

[clairey]

The other girls are right. Being yourself is the best way to get her attention. Just be friendly and have a big smile everyday :)

[ninja789]

when you have this conversation actually listen to what she says and that will stand you I good stead :)

[ozteen]

pretty much what the other girls have said and remember, she'll be just nervous as you so just be yourself.

[DiamondsGirl]

I have a quick tip that you probably already know: 90% of conversations that begin with "hi" and continues with "how are you" falls short. Try to comment on either something that interests her or something that she's wearing or doing ("hey, <name> told me you're into <activity name>?").

[KaraaaHope]

One time I had to give a presentation in class and I was SUPER nervous and kept forgetting what I wanted to say and messing up while I was up there. It was the worst 5 minutes of my life I swear. But when I sat down the guy next to me (who I had never really ever talked to) leaned over and told me I did a great job and then kept saying little things to get me to calm down. He asked to go to the bathroom and then bought me a water from the vending machine because he told me it would be good for me while I calmed down. Major brownie points, he made me really comfortable and broke the ice at the same time. I love him like a close friend to this day and that was almost a year ago. I would absolutely date him if I was really looking for a guy to be with. But I made a really good friendship out of it so yeah.

My point I guess is just be...attentive..to her and make her feel good. I love the little things like that!

[Toxic]

Start off by complimenting her ;) Girls love attention and feeling good about themselves. Start off by saying simple stuff like "I like your shirt" and then add something else to it that might spark her interest "The Beatles are great!" (In this case the beetles are on her shirt) People don't realize how loving a compliment can be even if it is just a little thing. Compliments can make peoples day and For me it just makes me feel more confident about myself.