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Samira19
September 5th, 2018, 07:43 AM
my best friends dad keeps trying it on with me should i say anything too her ? or just take it as it is :what:

Katie2003
September 5th, 2018, 08:04 AM
my best friends dad keeps trying it on with me should i say anything too her ? or just take it as it is :what:


I think it's totally inappropriate for anyone's dad to be coming on to a teenage friend of their own child. Yes, you should politely tell her about it if she doesn't already suspect he's harassing you. You should also tell him politely and assertively that you don't want that sort of comments ever again.

Just JT
September 5th, 2018, 10:00 AM
I agree....assuming you are not interested in him and don’t like his advances, not to mention any age difference and legal issues it may bring up.

If he’s bothering you, stand up for yourself, be strong, and tell him to leave you alone, not interested, inappropriate

Tell your friend also, let her know if he doesn’t stop, you won’t go to their house or be anywhere he will be

If he continues talk to your parents about now it, no....talk to your parents about it now before it gets outa hand

Second Chance
September 5th, 2018, 08:30 PM
my best friends dad keeps trying it on with me should i say anything too her ? or just take it as it is :what:

I agree with the others that you should bring this up with your friend. If she does not believe you, then it is best that you distance yourself from that friend. If your friend does believe you, then you should make it clear to her that because of the way her father is acting you do not feel comfortable going to her house when her father is around.

As the other person above had said, at this stage you should get your parents involved because the father crossed the line. It is not right for someone who is old enough to be your father to do something like that, and he should know better than that.

nikkimelan
September 6th, 2018, 09:13 AM
I had a friend who's dad did and I just never went there again. Scary

Jordan99
September 9th, 2018, 03:01 PM
I agree with what everyone else above has written so far. Stand up for yourself. Tell your friend. Be polite but firm with both of them. My BFF's dad has never hit on me but has given me the once over a few times when we go swimming at her house. He's never crossed the line by actually hitting on me though. I think it's very natural and even normal to appreciate a pretty young girl and her body, but anything more than an appreciative glace is over the line.