Addicted to masterbating?

[coolmatt]

i been reading the forums and i think i masterbate alot compared to most guys here. i seen lots of guys saying they do it maybe 2 times a day but sometimes i do it 2 times just in the morning and more during the rest of the day. am i addicted? it just feels so good

[ShineintheDark]

You're only really addicted if it's a compulsive obsession that you struggle to shake. Gathering from your age and assumed sexual maturity, you're just a normal horned up pubescent kid whose libido will go down in a couple years. Just enjoy whilst you can.

[ashdaniel]

i been reading the forums and i think i masterbate alot compared to most guys here. i seen lots of guys saying they do it maybe 2 times a day but sometimes i do it 2 times just in the morning and more during the rest of the day. am i addicted? it just feels so good

Na you good, I been worst. When I just started puberty. I jerk off sometime 3 times day. If it doesn’t affect your normal life, it should be worry about.

[Second Chance]

i been reading the forums and i think i masterbate alot compared to most guys here. i seen lots of guys saying they do it maybe 2 times a day but sometimes i do it 2 times just in the morning and more during the rest of the day. am i addicted? it just feels so good

I would say that a person is addicted to masturbating if it interferes with normal activities or if a lot of free time is devoted to doing it.

Especially if you are new to masturbating, then the good feelings you get are going to make you want to do it over and over again. If you do not cum, then having dry orgasms will allow you to masturbate a lot without having to worry about clean up.

If you find that you are masturbating greater than three times a day, then you might have an issue. I would not freak out, and gradually bring yourself down to a reasonable level. Try not to be alone in your bedroom when you do homework, and when you feel like jerking off, then try to do something else like going for a run or playing sports. Also, make sure that there is nothing in your bedroom that would tempt you to masturbate like posters of things that get you turned on. If you use your electronics to provide you masturbation material, then make sure those devices are off when you are doing homework or are alone.

There is nothing wrong with masturbating, but just keep it at a reasonable level so that you do not get addicted to sexuality.

[coolmatt]

If you do not cum, then having dry orgasms will allow you to masturbate a lot without having to worry about clean up.

If you find that you are masturbating greater than three times a day, then you might have an issue.

I dont cum yet so its easy to do it lots. i jerk off like 4 or 5 times a day maybe but its mostly when i wake up and before i fall asleep at night. i start school tommorow so i will probly be doing it after school to but i never had it stop me from doing things i just do it fast then do whatever i need to do

[Second Chance]

I dont cum yet so its easy to do it lots. i jerk off like 4 or 5 times a day maybe but its mostly when i wake up and before i fall asleep at night. i start school tommorow so i will probly be doing it after school to but i never had it stop me from doing things i just do it fast then do whatever i need to do

Because you do not make cum, yet, it makes sense why you masturbate so much. Also, being out of school does make a big difference because you have a lot of free time on your hands. When I had dry orgasms like you I used to masturbate a lot because dry cums can happen a bunch of times unlike wet cums.

When you are able to start cumming, then you probably cannot masturbate as much because guys who cum have a thing called a refractory period which is the body's way of stopping a guy until the penis can recover until it can cum again. Having dry cums means there is no recovery time because you are not making anything, yet.

Have you started masturbating recently? If so, then I can understand why you do it so much because it feels really good, and you probably never felt that way before. I would not worry too much about masturbating, but never do it at school and only do it at home. If you find that you are masturbating at school or outside of home, then you're doing it too much.

Even if you cannot cum, then stay clean by taking a shower in case you get sweaty after masturbating and change your underwear daily because you still will sweat even if you cannot cum.

[coolmatt]

Have you started masturbating recently? If so, then I can understand why you do it so much because it feels really good, and you probably never felt that way before.

ya its new for me. i knew it was a thing people did but i didnt try it until 2 months ago and now its like i cant stop sometimes. but thanks for helping me i just dont wana be a guy who thinks only with his dick like my sister says most guys are

[Second Chance]

ya its new for me. i knew it was a thing people did but i didnt try it until 2 months ago and now its like i cant stop sometimes. but thanks for helping me i just dont wana be a guy who thinks only with his dick like my sister says most guys are

Yeah, if you only started two months ago, then your feelings are normal. A lot of us were just like you, and you just need to control your sexuality and make sure it does not control you. It is totally fine to masturbate because that is what guys do to control their feelings, but just do not let sexual feelings guide your decisions. I would say that masturbating once before you go to school and maybe once when you get home and once before bed would be all right in terms of masturbating. If you find that when you're doing your homework you get distracted and want to masturbate, then you have to put your foot down and not do so. You can reward yourself when doing a tough homework assignment by masturbating after you get it done, I suppose. However, the best thing to do is to get all of your homework done, and then you can reward yourself by masturbating.

Since the weather is still nice outside try to do stuff with friends (assuming your homework is done) because once it's cold and you're stuck indoors, then you can masturbate.

Haha! Your Sister is right about some guys, and you can definitely learn from her!

Wow, you are really new to masturbating! How did you learn to do so?

[coolmatt]

Haha! Your Sister is right about some guys, and you can definitely learn from her!

Wow, you are really new to masturbating! How did you learn to do so?

my sister is 17 so she says she knows lots about guys but i dont wana ask her stuff lol its weird.

i started masterbating one day cause i woke up hard and i was on my stomache so when i moved i rubbed on my bed and it felt really good. so thats when i started

[Second Chance]

my sister is 17 so she says she knows lots about guys but i dont wana ask her stuff lol its weird.

i started masterbating one day cause i woke up hard and i was on my stomache so when i moved i rubbed on my bed and it felt really good. so thats when i started

It can get weird asking a sister about stuff especially since you two are pretty close in age. However, she can give you good perspectives on what girls want in terms of boys, how to find girlfriends, and how to treat girls properly. It can be hard not having another guy around the house, but a lot of times a Sister can be helpful.

I get you, and it makes sense how you started masturbating which is by humping your bed which is how a lot of guys learn. It can be a neat feeling when you first start, and as long as you keep things in control, then you're fine.

Chances are when you start cumming you will not masturbate as much, but since you're dry right now you can enjoy masturbating without clean up.

[INACTIVEchaosphere]

i been reading the forums and i think i masterbate alot compared to most guys here. i seen lots of guys saying they do it maybe 2 times a day but sometimes i do it 2 times just in the morning and more during the rest of the day. am i addicted? it just feels so good

As others have said, it becomes an addiction when you begin to shirk other more important responsibilities to do it or when other areas of your life in general are more neglected because of your urge. At your age, you probably just have a lot of hormones going on and your libido is overactive. With time your body and mind will find a more regular equilibrium. Especially so since you said you don't produce semen yet, which makes you more likely and able to orgasm more. Hope that helps!

[Hermes]

I dont cum yet so its easy to do it lots. i jerk off like 4 or 5 times a day maybe but its mostly when i wake up and before i fall asleep at night. i start school tommorow so i will probly be doing it after school to but i never had it stop me from doing things i just do it fast then do whatever i need to do

Three sessions a day, first thing in the morning, immediately on getting home from school and again last thing at night before sleeping I think is quite common - that's certainly what I did when I was 13 with the after school session depending on whether I had an after school club or went round a friend's after school, i.e. I only had that session if I came straight home.

What is different between me and you is that I was ejaculating by 13 so those sessions would have been for one orgasm because, after that, I'd not longer be horny, i.e. in the recovery phase. That doesn't necessarily mean I would be spending any less time than you might be going for multiple orgasms in a session because once cumming signals the end of the session you tend to start working out how to make it last a bit longer before finally cumming.

As other people have said, the important thing is not how much you do it but making sure it doesn't replace other important stuff. As an example, in that morning session I would need to keep an eye on the clock and make sure I brought it to a conclusion with enough time to eat breakfast and get to school on time.

Also, if I was so desperate for the after school session that I couldn't bear to stay for an hour for an after school club that did something I was interested in or frequently declined going round a friend's then that would be an indication that things were out of balance.

Things can be out of balance the other way too. Some people report having filled their day with so many things that they either don't find the time to masturbate or are too tired to do so and it seems to me that might indicate things being out of balance the other way. If they enjoy all of those things then fine but I get a feeling sometimes it can be all work and no play for some. It's important to have some "me" time and masturbating is one way to spend that making yourself feel good.

[Jeff1857]

You are not addicted at all. I masturbate a few times a day as well. As long as it is not the only thing you do you are fine. When home alone I can go 6-8 times. Most days 2-5

[Pitsirikos]

No you are not addicted. It's perfectly normal for your age. When I was at your age I masturbated at least three times per day. First thing in the morning, after returning home from school and of course before sleep. But normally I was doing it as well in the afternoon during the time I was studying when I was becoming tired. And on weekend when my parents were usually out I can say that it was a wanking marathon!!!

[Xavier16]

I can go up to five sometimes too. A lot of ppl do lol It's normal

[Gabriel The French]

well when i was 13-14 i used to masturbate 3times per day

now i only do it once every two days

[bananaman10950]

Personally i masturbate between 2 and 7 times a day so and im 14

[nickerasic]

I try not to masturbate to much and if I am doing it I try to do quickly. I'm not worried about being addicted to it, but I feel like its not the best use of time or un-healthy (somehow). Also share my room AND bathroom with my brothers so there's not a lot of chances in private to do it any way

[Impressionist1910]

i been reading the forums and i think i masterbate alot compared to most guys here. i seen lots of guys saying they do it maybe 2 times a day but sometimes i do it 2 times just in the morning and more during the rest of the day. am i addicted? it just feels so good

Naw man.
You're good.
It's a great pass time, stress reliever, and thing to do. I try to go 2-6 times a day on average, and sometimes it's 7+ when I have time. It's good stuff dude.
You should just enjoy it and just j/o when you can.

[Tauty]

your not addicted as long as it doesn't get in the way of your life.

[baseballhockey5]

Dude it feels great i do it A LOTTT

[citycanuck]

I think as long as you're not avoiding doing other things just so you have more time to masturbate then you're fine. If you start saying no to going out with friends or not doing anything else then that might be a problem. Otherwise just go with it and enjoy it!

[deadaccount1000]

*tried to delete post lol

[MaxKa]

back before i could cum i purposefully tried to see how many times i could orgasm and i made it to like 11 orgasms, when i was like 9yo, funny to think about how much i could do it back then. My sex drive is less now, i usually cum once every like 3 or 4 days, but ill edge daily and just not cum

[joefelix]

I wouldn't worry, I think most people go through a period where they do it a lot more than often, dw