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Henry333
September 3rd, 2018, 05:25 PM
So I met a girl at a party and we got on well, like she was leaning against me and I had my arm around her etc. I've been messaging her on Snapchat the last few days and things seem to be going good, however we're going to different schools and live in different towns. It's like a 15 minute train and I'm not sure whether to persue a relationship with her or not. I really like her but I've only met her once. My idea is to just ask here on a date, see how things go, and progress from there depending on how the date went. However I just want some straight up opinions, is it worth trying to get with a girl from another town and a different school? (We're both 16 btw) or am I better off leaving it and seeing what happens at the school I'm going to? Any questions about the situation feel free to ask

BlackParadePixie
September 3rd, 2018, 08:37 PM
How about...instead of jumping right into a relationship...you get to know her a little better first. Go out for coffee...meet up and go for a walk. Asking a near stranger out on a "date" is weird.

mick01
September 4th, 2018, 08:51 AM
I think it would be worth a couple of short train rides to try to get to know each other better. Seems like you might have had some chemistry.

ska8er
September 4th, 2018, 10:43 AM
As others say get to know her
better. Ask her for a date and
from that u will know if the two
of u can have a relationship.

Second Chance
September 5th, 2018, 08:34 PM
So I met a girl at a party and we got on well, like she was leaning against me and I had my arm around her etc. I've been messaging her on Snapchat the last few days and things seem to be going good, however we're going to different schools and live in different towns. It's like a 15 minute train and I'm not sure whether to persue a relationship with her or not. I really like her but I've only met her once. My idea is to just ask here on a date, see how things go, and progress from there depending on how the date went. However I just want some straight up opinions, is it worth trying to get with a girl from another town and a different school? (We're both 16 btw) or am I better off leaving it and seeing what happens at the school I'm going to? Any questions about the situation feel free to ask

I think you need to get to know her better, like the others said, and see if you both have a lot in common. If she turns out to be all right and you two can handle a 15 minute commute between your towns, then it might be worth a shot. Just talk to her firstly to see if she feels the same about you and that you two have actual conversations to see if she works out.