Friend comfortable at my house

[Thatboy17]

Hopefully this doesn't get locked because I'm not asking anything in a sexual way.

1) Sometimes when im home alone my friend comes over for the night to drink and have fun (were both guys). Most of the time we end up watching porn together and I usually notice him starting to cover up his boner as the videos get good. I was just wondering how to tell him that he can masturbate or do whatever he wants to without it being sexual since it's not a big deal because we've known each other for a while and we're both guys so it doesn't even really matter since we both have the same "equipment"

2)Usually we also exercise and work out together so after a while, we both get hot or start sweating a bit. I always take my shirt off when I work out to cool off faster and so my shirt doesn't get sweaty. I've noticed my friend sneaking looks at my body when I take off my shirt and sneaking looks at my bulge when I wear sweats or shorts when he thinks I can't see. How can I casually (without it being sexual) tell him it's ok for him to look at me or to take off whatever clothes he wants to so he can work out comfortably and cool off faster that way his clothes don't smell like sweat. I don't want to make it sexual and make him uncomfortable but I want him to feel comfortable so we can work out together and compare bodies together to see our progress

3) How can I make my friend feel comfortable enough to take a shower while he's over without making him feel weird? Sometimes we both start smelling after we work out so it'd be nice to rinse off. I'd prefer if we showered together since our hot water runs out really fast at my house but I don't want him to feel weird about taking a shower with me. How can I suggest showering together without it being sexual?

[Jake445]

Well I'd recommend just being open and honest with him for all three questions. If that's a bit too straightforward for you could ask him if he would be fine with you masturbating and there is a good chance he'd join you.
For the working out part, I'd just ask him to make himself comfortable too.
As for showering I don't think there is anything you can do but ask him to join you. During sleepovers, I often shower with male as well as female friends and it's not sexual at all. But both of you have to be comfortable with that because being naked together is a bit intimate.

[Gazebo]

Sounds pretty damn sexual to me no matter how you slice it.

“How can I tell my friend he can jerk off in front of me?”
“How can I tell my friend that he can stare at my naked body and bulge?”
“How can I tell my friend that I want to shower together with him?”

[jamie_n5]

Well I would just ask him while watching porn just say that you are really horny and would like to jerk off and ask him if he wants to also.
After working out why don't you just say that you really need to take a shower and ask him if he would like to join you to clean up too. That will also take care of sizing up each others bodies and everything else.

[mick01]

I would start out just with the jerking off part. Just ask him if it would be ok if you masturbated. Assuming he does it too, it would then be easier to talk about showering together later.

[Atlantis]

This isn't really puberty related :locked: