Was this okay?

[Isabrooo]

Hey so like I’m straight and all but I had always been bicurious and all, but my friend had a party at this place in town and there was this guy that I knew was gay and he asked me to go to the bathroom with him so I did. Once we got there was so much sexual tension, but then he kissed me and we went into a bathroom stall and unzipped my pants and he pulled his down and asked me to do stuff, but the thing is I didn’t really enjoy it and I really wanted to stop and I asked him to stop and I tried to open the stall door but he’d just shut it. Afterwards I felt really really uncomfortable.. idk if it was just me being bicurious or something else..

[Aussiekid2018]

Thats normal to feel like that, he shouldnt do that to you or anyone without talking to them about it first.

[Destroyeroftissue]

Um think you should tell someone, no one should force you to do stuff that is called Rape bro

[INACTIVEchaosphere]

Hey so like I’m straight and all but I had always been bicurious and all, but my friend had a party at this place in town and there was this guy that I knew was gay and he asked me to go to the bathroom with him so I did. Once we got there was so much sexual tension, but then he kissed me and we went into a bathroom stall and unzipped my pants and he pulled his down and asked me to do stuff, but the thing is I didn’t really enjoy it and I really wanted to stop and I asked him to stop and I tried to open the stall door but he’d just shut it. Afterwards I felt really really uncomfortable.. idk if it was just me being bicurious or something else..

None of that was your fault. That was sexual assault though, a person shouldn't have to feel uncomfortable in any way after or during an encounter of that nature, and you shouldn't have been forced. It's up to you how to proceed, if you want to try to confront the guy, but with no evidence and it being in the past I would let it go for now and try to move on.

[jamie_n5]

Well when you felt very uncomfortable and asked him to stop that went beyond being curious and he was sexually assaulting you. You can do what you wish about it. You could chalk it up to a lesson learned. Either way I would talk to this guy and let him know that he went too far with you and he had better leave you alone. You might find an other guy sometime that you may want to experiment with too the extent that you want to go with it. I am so sorry that this dude assaulted you. He had no right.

[Jrunner]

No it was not ok

[ska8er]

U may b bi curious but this was way out
of line if u felt u were forced to do some
thing u didn't want and was scared by it.
No is No and that should have ended it
but since it didn't it can b considered as
assault.

[Mark smith]

No one should be forced to do anything what he did was wrong you have the right to feel uncomfortable

[Second Chance]

Hey so like I’m straight and all but I had always been bicurious and all, but my friend had a party at this place in town and there was this guy that I knew was gay and he asked me to go to the bathroom with him so I did. Once we got there was so much sexual tension, but then he kissed me and we went into a bathroom stall and unzipped my pants and he pulled his down and asked me to do stuff, but the thing is I didn’t really enjoy it and I really wanted to stop and I asked him to stop and I tried to open the stall door but he’d just shut it. Afterwards I felt really really uncomfortable.. idk if it was just me being bicurious or something else..

The reason why I do not think this was okay was because you were forced to do something you were not comfortable doing. Any sexual act has to be consensual with all parties doing it by their freewill. Anytime someone forces you to do something against your will is wrong. The issue here has nothing to do with gay/straight but rather that someone did not respect your boundaries and made you do something that you were not comfortable with even though you made your feelings clear.

[jamieUSA]

yeh i went thru sumthin like that 2 it sux when u dont think u have neway out

[Hockeystar2020]

It’s not ok

[kro814]

What happened to you was very wrong. It is up to you if you want to report a sexual assault. Bottom line is you need to protect yourself to make sure it never happens again.

[shadow2015]

Sounds like you started bi-curious. But when you tried to leave and he forced you to stay, that is where things went off the rails. If he continued to do things sexually then that is sexual assault.
You may not want to tell anyone because you are afraid of what they think about you, but you need to tell someone.