Girls with brothers! Please help!

[Moose03]

Have any of you had any sexual problems with your brothers? My brother spies on me a lot. I’ve caught him take pics of me changing before, and also caught him with my thongs. I’m really starting to get uncomfortable and I’m not sure how to handle the whole situation the right way... so does anyone have advice or stories of similar things?

Thanks ladies

Kayla xoxo

[Ashley2004]

Tell your parents and have them deal with it.

[Moose03]

Tell your parents and have them deal with it.

I’ve thought about it but I really don’t want him to get embarrassed thankfully he’s going back to college next week 🙌🏽

[Sailor Mars]

What the fuck? That is not normal. Seriously tell your parents and tell him to fuck off. That’s seriously fucking creepy. My brother would never do shit like that EVER

[Moose03]

What the fuck? That is not normal. Seriously tell your parents and tell him to fuck off. That’s seriously fucking creepy. My brother would never do shit like that EVER

I agree but he’s leaving for the year soon so I won’t have to deal with it thankfully. Luckily he hasn’t ever tried to touch me or anything. I’m just super uncomfortable with the whole situation!

[ashleigh7]

I’m sorry this has happened to you :( and no one should feel uncomfortable with family. But if you feel like it’s safe to talk to him. I would pull him aside and give him my feelings on what he’s doing. Maybe when someone is home but you guys are in a place where talking is hard to hear....but anything above that is easy to hear...for your safety. Again I’m sorry:( best of luck!

[Moose03]

I’m sorry this has happened to you :( and no one should feel uncomfortable with family. But if you feel like it’s safe to talk to him. I would pull him aside and give him my feelings on what he’s doing. Maybe when someone is home but you guys are in a place where talking is hard to hear....but anything above that is easy to hear...for your safety. Again I’m sorry:( best of luck!

I truly believe he would never hurt me. I just think it’s a fantasy thing for him. And in all honesty if he came out and said he had a fantasy about me I would have no problem with it because I know 100% certain he wouldn’t ever hurt me in anyway. I love him to death and he’s there for whatever I need. Just wish he was honest with me about it I guess

[ashleigh7]

I truly believe he would never hurt me. I just think it’s a fantasy thing for him. And in all honesty if he came out and said he had a fantasy about me I would have no problem with it because I know 100% certain he wouldn’t ever hurt me in anyway. I love him to death and he’s there for whatever I need. Just wish he was honest with me about it I guess


Oh ok :) So that’s good to know and I’m happy and relived to hear that. :) Then ya I would definitely try and talk to him about how he’s making you feel. He actually might appreciate your honesty and the fact that you have the courage to talk to him about it. Just my 2 cents :)

[Moose03]

I just talked to him and we had a heart to heart conversation. He said he has the fantasy but would never hurt me. Maybe I’ll give him a going away present haha thanks friends for the courage

[ashleigh7]

Oh wow! Well good I’m glad everything is ok and everything:) It sounds like both of you might have the same fantasy?? Maybe??? How do you mean “going away present “? Like something of yours????

[Moose03]

Oh wow! Well good I’m glad everything is ok and everything:) It sounds like both of you might have the same fantasy?? Maybe??? How do you mean “going away present “? Like something of yours????

I mean I can’t deny the fantasy I think a lot of girls think about it mostly because of the thought of the convenience of sex. But maybe a thong or something for him I’ll “accidentally pack it for him”

[BlackParadePixie]

I agree but he’s leaving for the year soon so I won’t have to deal with it thankfully. Luckily he hasn’t ever tried to touch me or anything. I’m just super uncomfortable with the whole situation!

If you're truly uncomfortable with the situation, then stop making excuses as to why you're not telling him to stop, or having your parents intervene if he doesn't listen. This is your privacy we're talking about, who cares if he gets embarrassed?

[Cherry04]

I have a little brother but you have to tell your parents because this really isn't good

[Nicole_0]

I just made this account and it happens this is the first thread i read and its pretty scary and i may be regretting this

[PrincessCassie]

I dont have a brother but this sounds messed up

[angelina]

I agree but he’s leaving for the year soon so I won’t have to deal with it thankfully. Luckily he hasn’t ever tried to touch me or anything. I’m just super uncomfortable with the whole situation!
so what is your inner thoughts..? i can study your mood..till he touches you , you are ok...is it right? if you really dislike that just advise him directly..last resort go to your parents...

[Katie2003]

I've had several of my girl friends tell me this sort of thing is pretty common behavior for brothers, they have found panties taken from the laundry hamper or right out of their drawers, or their brother would spy on them in the bathroom or shower or while getting dressed in their room.

I think since you already told him that you know, and that you are uncomfortable with what he's doing then he can consider that a warning. Since he reassured you that you are safe and he would never harm you, that should make you feel a bit more comfortable but it doesn't really change what's happening. At some point you may want or need to involve your parents.

[Louisa]

That's weird. My brother is respectful of my privacy and doesn't spy on me changing. He's seen me in my panties plenty of the time because I sleep in a t shirt and panties during warmer months and don't get dressed as soon as I get up. However, he knows I don't want him seeing me all the way naked (only mom and sis are allowed to see me that way) and he respects that.

He also never steals my underwear. I don't have any thongs (seem like a wedgie), but he never steals my bikini panties or boyshorts.

[Tiffany12]

My brother has also seen me in my panties alot. But, has never spied on me or watched me change my clothes. We are respectful of each others privacy.

[aliciapermenter]

Girl I would defiantly report him. That is very weird. I have four older brothers of my own and they have never tried that stuff with me. Family does not play like that so be sure he gets taken care of hunny.

[gurquenjen]

I mean, if it bothers you, I'd just mention it to your parents. Or start stealing his underwear (but not his dirty underwear, because boys are disgusting).

[angelina]

I just talked to him and we had a heart to heart conversation. He said he has the fantasy but would never hurt me. Maybe I’ll give him a going away present haha thanks friends for the courage
Now you have caught the point. your bror is with a fetish for your thong or bra or some other inner garments..it is not serious at this stage..you can advise him explaining the body parts to make him understand those things..if he still sticks to his habit it can be reported to your parents

[EmilyM]

I’ve never known my brother to steal underwear. I have so many I probably wouldn’t notice but I trust him not to or to come to me and talk to me.

[ashleigh7]

I’ve never known my brother to steal underwear. I have so many I probably wouldn’t notice but I trust him not to or to come to me and talk to me.

That good you guys are that close and trust eachother:)

[Jordan99]

No offense but this is weird and kinda' gross. Siblings should not behave this way. As others have stated, you should tell your parents and you shouldn't be concerned AT ALL if it embarrasses him. His behavior isn't normal.

[Huntress13]

I mean, if it bothers you, I'd just mention it to your parents. Or start stealing his underwear (but not his dirty underwear, because boys are disgusting).

Lol I've had to do that before. I have 3 older brothers and share a room with one and he'd take my panties sometimes so I'd just steal and wear his underwear, lmao

[Jessi03]

That is quite disturbing and perhaps I'm naïve but I'm shocked at how common this apparently is. My advice would be to tell your brother that you know what he's doing and ask him to stop and threaten to tell your parents if it continues. Hopefully the possibility of embarrassment from that will be enough for him to stop. I'm so lucky I don't have to deal with this with my brother and I feel sorry for you.

[Naturelover]

Oh, how happy I am that I do not have a brother.

[NudistFun]

My younger (real) brother is nice and innocent or may be naive is a better word.

My older (step) brother is a complete piece of shit. He is always trying to see me with less clothes than I want. He stares all the time makes vulgar jokes and suggestions. I haven't caught him with my underwear but if I did it wouldn't surprise me. We have a no locked doors rule but I lock them all the time. If I didn't he probably would have seen me naked or only in panties 100+ times. He is a disgusting jerk and no telling parents does no good. My step dad is almost as bad and I will not be alone with him and my mom just says I'm imagining it becos she depends on my step dad to pay the bills. I doubt she would do anything if either one of them seriously touched me. And yea I write it as seriously becos touching DOES happen... and its always an "accident" if you believe that - which I don't.

I feel bad for you this shit happens to you to becos I have no advice how to stop it.

I'm really sorry to hear this. You don't deserve that environment

[Ashley 2003]

my younger (real) brother is nice and innocent or may be naive is a better word.

My older (step) brother is a complete piece of shit. He is always trying to see me with less clothes than i want. He stares all the time makes vulgar jokes and suggestions. I haven't caught him with my underwear but if i did it wouldn't surprise me. We have a no locked doors rule but i lock them all the time. If i didn't he probably would have seen me naked or only in panties 100+ times. He is a disgusting jerk and no telling parents does no good. My step dad is almost as bad and i will not be alone with him and my mom just says i'm imagining it becos she depends on my step dad to pay the bills. I doubt she would do anything if either one of them seriously touched me. And yea i write it as seriously becos touching does happen... And its always an "accident" if you believe that - which i don't.

I feel bad for you this shit happens to you to becos i have no advice how to stop it.
🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

[xSashax]

Well I think you need to talk to him openly. He’s definitely hiding some feelings. Maybe talk to him and you’ll be able to work it out...

[LITTLEANGEL19]

Hiya Kayla you should not be in this situation you should tell someone like your parents or even a school nurse, it's just got to STOP NOW, and if the photo's get seen or get into the wrong hands you both and also your parents could be in a lot of trouble. You should tell someone like a parent or a school teacher or nurse. But it's just got to STOP.

[katie3]

Yes I've had trouble with one of my brothers. He was always staring at me and trying to spy on me and I had a feeling he was going in my room when I wasn't there to do some pervy stuff... One day I found out that a few of my thongs were, well, not so clean anymore... so I told my dad, he yelled at him about how it was the stupidest thing he ever done and everything... I haven't had any trouble with him since then, he still sometimes stare at me but nothing more than that...

[Beccabear]

I have an 8 yr old stepbrother with Autism that doesn’t understand that he needs to knock, not because he’s a perv but because he just doesn’t understand. He’s walked into the bathroom before while I was in the shower because I forgot to lock the door or come into my room while I was changing because he wanted to play

[angelina]

Lol I've had to do that before. I have 3 older brothers and share a room with one and he'd take my panties sometimes so I'd just steal and wear his underwear, lmao
you are falling in line with my thoughts...fetish is also a natural instinct for some boys and girls and it will go away after some age.my younger bro often take and stare my bra and panties for a moment....if i leave the used ones sometimes on the bed itself. if anybody notices him, he will drop that one and leave.

[Nikki_1]

I don't actually have a brother but I think its kida weird, I would deffo tell hm that I know about what he is doing and its wrong to like do that sort of stuff with your sister, I guess its a bit more acceptable with another girl for him to like do the things that boy's do.
I am scared that if you don't tell him now it may get worse in the future and he may want more from you... please please PLEASE be careful. If he doesn't stop when you have asked him to stop it's time to tell your parents about it, just to be on the safe side.

[Jesi234]

Just talk to him honestly and things will settle down.

[tessa-]

You need to tell parents or someone with authority because that’s scary, creepy and I’m sure illegal
My bro and I don’t mind seeing each other nude now but he’s never stolen my undies to take and do stuff to

[Jaden's_18]

Yes, sorry you are uncomfortable like that, not kool. I have a lil brother who seems more horny in the house since covid. I see his boner a lot. He is good to me, nothing rude, but I do wonder if he uses my thong and stuff to jack off.

[Jaden's_18]

wow, thanks for sharing this. Thought it was just me with my younger brother. I know guys get horny and that. But I make him horny? I really curious now if he using my stuff to jack off. hmmm.

[Anna Kadlecova]

WTF.

[Tayler]

WTF was this 3 yr old thread bumped? It’s obviously a fake problem too. The guy is in college and he steals his sister’s thongs? WTF?!? Worse yet, she refuses to want to do anything about it

[Eivor]

Fook me that’s some creepy stuff

[Karalectric]

WTF was this 3 yr old thread bumped? It’s obviously a fake problem too. The guy is in college and he steals his sister’s thongs? WTF?!? Worse yet, she refuses to want to do anything about it

Yea just some old pervy fake fantasy bumped again by someone with a pervy fake fantasy. :rolleyes:

[Eivor]

Yea just some old pervy fake fantasy bumped again by someone with a pervy fake fantasy. :rolleyes:

Made me wanna puke a bit, why bring that kinda made up stuff here??

[Tayler]

Yea just some old pervy fake fantasy bumped again by someone with a pervy fake fantasy. :rolleyes:

It’s so gross when someone new bumps a 3 yr old post instead of making a new one. It’s like, what did they actually search for to find this?

[jennykay]

It’s so gross when someone new bumps a 3 yr old post instead of making a new one. It’s like, what did they actually search for to find this?

Probably browsed for porn and this came up and he said "this'll do"

[Tayler]

Probably browsed for porn and this came up and he said "this'll do"

Lol probably

[Jess523]

I mean...if youre uncomfortable with it and you're asking us what would we do, yet you don't want to get him in trouble....what really do you want us to say?

[tami666]

i dont live with a brother so i can't say. i do get other boys that look at me for sure.

[Bluebyrd]

Bumped :locked: