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jane45
August 17th, 2018, 09:22 PM
I’m good friends with this guy and we had made plans to go out together and eat somewhere to catch up on life. We were both sitting at a booth and he was talking to me. After he was done talking, we both went silent for a moment. I had looked down for a second, but then when I looked back up at him, I found him staring and smiling at me with his head tilted off to the side. His eyes were also slightly crinkled while he was staring at me. Then, he started talking again. What does it mean when a guy looks at a woman like this?

ska8er
August 17th, 2018, 09:26 PM
He likes u.

mick01
August 19th, 2018, 11:26 AM
Yep, he's looking to be more than just friends.

jane45
August 19th, 2018, 12:48 PM
Yep, he's looking to be more than just friends.

What if he's already taken?

Jake445
August 19th, 2018, 02:48 PM
What if he's already taken?

If you are really good friends I would just be open and ask him about it, if you could imagine a relationship too. If you are not that close you could just continue to be his friend and maybe make a move it the future when the opportunity presents itself.

Croconaw
August 19th, 2018, 06:05 PM
What if he's already taken?

Is he unhappy in his current relationship? He seems to have feelings for you.

jane45
August 21st, 2018, 08:34 AM
Is he unhappy in his current relationship? He seems to have feelings for you.

He's mentioned once to me before that he sometimes wonders if his gf really loves him and she tells him that she does. He also compares me to his gf at times. Like, if I say that I do photography, he says that his gf used to do photography. Or, if I say that I've got a younger brother, he'll say that she does too. He used to talk about her a lot around me, but he hardly does that anymore.

He copies me more often than ever before. He fixes his hair after I fix mine,says the same words that I say, and makes the same facial expressions as I do. He grins at me, breathes deeply whenever I'm near him, and his voice gets deeper than usual. We don't hug very often, but once he gave me a long, tight hug.

He always seem pretty happy around her, but idk for certain.

ska8er
August 22nd, 2018, 12:19 PM
U didn't mention in ur original post that
he was taken. Yeah its possible that he
has lost interest in his g/f and now is
hitting on u. All good and well if he
means it but before u start falling in
love make sure he is still not into a
relationship with his g/f.

nickole999
August 24th, 2018, 04:36 AM
Obviously he likes you

Croconaw
August 24th, 2018, 08:15 PM
He definitely has feelings for you.

Barbara.
August 24th, 2018, 08:20 PM
Boys are weird , they show you that they are interested in you and wants to impress you in weird ways.