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Jagger
August 13th, 2018, 01:00 AM
Hi, there is a girl and she said she likes me. As you can read in the title, she is 15. I'm 13 and idk if this is too big of an age Gap. Also, she has been through 2 bf's in the past 4 months. Seems like she can't commit but idk. What are your thoughts?

Bluegrass
August 13th, 2018, 04:12 AM
Its fine if the girl is a little older.Many couples are like that don't let that be a worry.Maybe the reason she had 2 boyfriends in the last 4 months is a problem but you have to get to know her better to find out why that is.

Croconaw
August 13th, 2018, 07:36 AM
Having two boyfriends in the past four months doesn’t always mean she is the problem. Maybe her boyfriends were the problem. People at that age aren’t really mature, so many things could have caused the relationship to not work out. I have met a few mature thirteen to sixteen year olds, but not too many. You will not know if you have a chance with this girl if you do not try. The things we regret most in life are the chances we didn’t take.

Also, can you provide more details? Do you have feelings towards this girl? Does this girl have feelings towards you? Did she approach you saying that she has feelings?

Katie2003
August 13th, 2018, 07:44 AM
I think that age difference is OK because it all depends on both of you being at similar levels of maturity. If she likes you, I say go for it but be cautious, and realize that at your ages relationships often don't last long and it's no ones fault.

Atlantis
August 13th, 2018, 07:50 AM
I know that age gaps in your relationships when you're past teen years can be quite a few years and don't really matter that much, but during teen years there can be a massive maturity gap even if you're the same age, let alone with a 2 year gap between you.

Zachary G
August 13th, 2018, 11:31 AM
Many couples are like that don't let that be a worry. You will not know if you have a chance with this girl if you do not try. Its only a 2 yr age gap, so if youre interested you have to consider your feelings towards her and then make your decision.

Jagger
August 13th, 2018, 12:45 PM
Having two boyfriends in the past four months doesn’t always mean she is the problem. Maybe her boyfriends were the problem. People at that age aren’t really mature, so many things could have caused the relationship to not work out. I have met a few mature thirteen to sixteen year olds, but not too many. You will not know if you have a chance with this girl if you do not try. The things we regret most in life are the chances we didn’t take.

Also, can you provide more details? Do you have feelings towards this girl? Does this girl have feelings towards you? Did she approach you saying that she has feelings?

I do have some feelings for her. She said she would date me. Not 100% sure if that means she likes me or if that means that she would just like to hang out more. And yes, she did approach me saying she would date me.

I do have some feelings for her. She said she would date me. Not 100% sure if that means she likes me or if that means that she would just like to hang out more. And yes, she did approach me saying she would date me.
Also, we have known each other for a little over a year.

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