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Jordan99
August 12th, 2018, 04:57 PM
I think this is a weird situation but am curious to know what you all think...I have an 18 year old girl friend who I sometimes visit and occasionally stay the night. She has a 17 year old brother. Anyway, their parents are divorced so they live with their mom. My GF is allowed to walk around the house in her panties (sometimes a thong) and a very thin top that doesn't cover her ass and that's ok with her mom however, her brother IS NOT allowed to walk around the house in his very modest boxers and a tank top. According to his mother, he should be "decently covered" at all times whether company is visiting or not. I think that's not only unfair, but weird. Why is it OK for my GF to walk around in skimpy panties and she even sometimes doesn't even bother putting on top while she's starting to get dressed, but her brother must be dressed at all times once he wakes up? What do you think? Is this fair treatment by their mom? Now, out of respect, when I spend the night, I always wear a long t-shirt over my panties or modest PJ's since I'm not family.

Katie2003
August 12th, 2018, 06:16 PM
That makes no sense at all to me. It's actually very discriminatory if he's more modest than she is and that still doesn't suit the mom.

I'd expect exactly the opposite from most mothers, that she wouldn't allow the girl to wear a skimpy thong in front of her brother at any time.

Spooky_Eli
August 12th, 2018, 06:35 PM
One word: misandry

kro814
August 12th, 2018, 07:49 PM
It is called household rules.

Spooky_Eli
August 12th, 2018, 08:14 PM
It is called household rules.
It’s called hypocrisy

inactiveguy678
August 13th, 2018, 09:14 AM
I think thats pretty weird the male is the one being forced to be covered up. In my country, its always the woman who is slut shamed or asked to be decent. I find it refreshing that the reverse is happening but I do agree with you that it is kinda unfair to the brother despite it being something that breaks barriers.

Zachary G
August 13th, 2018, 11:26 AM
Its a cruel double standard and its not fair at all. It seems mom is favoring the daughter over the son in this situation, but its her house and her rules.

Cangirl
August 15th, 2018, 12:04 PM
I think it's a little unfair too. If she's allowed to wear that how come he's not allowed wearing boxers? If they close in the front then that is the big thing because maybe that's what she's worried about? some of my brothers or dads boxers dont quite close properly lol

centreoftheuniverse
August 28th, 2018, 03:48 AM
nice for once not to see the female being the subject of discrimination, but at any rate, yes, that's pretty unfair.

NudistFun
October 30th, 2018, 09:59 AM
I think this is a weird situation but am curious to know what you all think...I have an 18 year old girl friend who I sometimes visit and occasionally stay the night. She has a 17 year old brother. Anyway, their parents are divorced so they live with their mom. My GF is allowed to walk around the house in her panties (sometimes a thong) and a very thin top that doesn't cover her ass and that's ok with her mom however, her brother IS NOT allowed to walk around the house in his very modest boxers and a tank top. According to his mother, he should be "decently covered" at all times whether company is visiting or not. I think that's not only unfair, but weird. Why is it OK for my GF to walk around in skimpy panties and she even sometimes doesn't even bother putting on top while she's starting to get dressed, but her brother must be dressed at all times once he wakes up? What do you think? Is this fair treatment by their mom? Now, out of respect, when I spend the night, I always wear a long t-shirt over my panties or modest PJ's since I'm not family.

Obviously the mom thinks there is either something to be feared about a nude male or can't deal with it herself.

Usually in non nudist homes I've found it to be the opposite. I've been to friends houses where the girls all cover up to some degree but nobody bats and eye if brother or dad are nude.

Pultost
October 30th, 2018, 12:25 PM
That makes no sense whatsoever. One is allowed to walk around in underwear, but not the other? Weird.

citycanuck
October 30th, 2018, 01:24 PM
That does seem a bit weird. It's kind of hard to guess at why the mom feels that way about how he dresses versus how she dresses. I wonder if it's somehow tied into the divorce? Were these rules in place before they were divorced? Maybe it's some passive-aggressive way of punishing the 'man' in the house?

Jordan99
October 30th, 2018, 01:37 PM
That does seem a bit weird. It's kind of hard to guess at why the mom feels that way about how he dresses versus how she dresses. I wonder if it's somehow tied into the divorce? Were these rules in place before they were divorced? Maybe it's some passive-aggressive way of punishing the 'man' in the house?

That's a point I haven't thought of. When my friends stay at their Dad's house, the Dad doesn't impose such rules and they are allowed to wear what's comfortable for them. Their Dad had a really nice and large home so sometimes I spend the night with my GF at her Dad's. I am still respectful and make sure I have a long T-shirt on over my panties but when we lay out by the pool we usually have pretty small bikinis on and the Dad doesn't take issue with that. I wish their Mom would loosen up on my GF's brother. He's a very nice and respectful boy and Boxers and a tank top or T-shirt should be very acceptable especially first thing in the morning unless he's sporting a morning boner...then, out of modesty, I'd expect he would want to cover it up.

citycanuck
October 30th, 2018, 01:57 PM
He's a very nice and respectful boy and Boxers and a tank top or T-shirt should be very acceptable especially first thing in the morning unless he's sporting a morning boner...then, out of modesty, I'd expect he would want to cover it up.

Yes, I suppose he would, most boys aren't really too keen on having their mothers or sisters see their morning wood :)

Allover Kelly
October 30th, 2018, 05:47 PM
I think this is a weird situation but am curious to know what you all think...I have an 18 year old girl friend who I sometimes visit and occasionally stay the night. She has a 17 year old brother. Anyway, their parents are divorced so they live with their mom. My GF is allowed to walk around the house in her panties (sometimes a thong) and a very thin top that doesn't cover her ass and that's ok with her mom however, her brother IS NOT allowed to walk around the house in his very modest boxers and a tank top. According to his mother, he should be "decently covered" at all times whether company is visiting or not. I think that's not only unfair, but weird. Why is it OK for my GF to walk around in skimpy panties and she even sometimes doesn't even bother putting on top while she's starting to get dressed, but her brother must be dressed at all times once he wakes up? What do you think? Is this fair treatment by their mom? Now, out of respect, when I spend the night, I always wear a long t-shirt over my panties or modest PJ's since I'm not family.

The Mom might be passing on she is piss about the Dad that is gone. I really can't say much due to I was in so many group homes and shelters where we always had to be covered.

Jordan99
October 30th, 2018, 06:30 PM
The Mom might be passing on she is piss about the Dad that is gone. I really can't say much due to I was in so many group homes and shelters where we always had to be covered.

Thanks for commenting, Kelly. That could be it. Hope you are doing well. Hugs, Jordan

Freckles
October 31st, 2018, 08:20 AM
Adding "sometimes a thong" makes me not believe any of it.

NudistFun
November 1st, 2018, 07:12 AM
Yes, I suppose he would, most boys aren't really too keen on having their mothers or sisters see their morning wood :)

I wish my brother wasn't so keen sometimes! :rolleyes:

Samantha James
November 1st, 2018, 07:54 AM
I wish my brother wasn't so keen sometimes! :rolleyes:

I'm sure you enjoy looking at his long thick penis when its erect

NudistFun
November 1st, 2018, 07:57 AM
I'm sure you enjoy looking at his long thick penis when its erect

:lol: Only SOMETIMES! Seriously though, family is family regardless of our bodies reactions, home should be a safe place to wear what you want... But you should definitely abide by the rules of whatever house you're visiting.

Jordan99
November 1st, 2018, 01:42 PM
I wish my brother wasn't so keen sometimes! :rolleyes:

Does it bother you to see your brother erect? I don't think guys can help it most times...especially in the morning when they first wake up. Besides, you're a nudist so I would think it wouldn't bother you unless he's making an issue of it. When my older brother lived at home, although he wore boxers in the morning, it was always obvious he was aroused in the mornings and we just accepted that and didn't make an issue of it.

NudistFun
November 1st, 2018, 02:17 PM
No, not really. It only bothers me when my friends won't shut up about him. ������

Jordan99
November 1st, 2018, 09:39 PM
No, not really. It only bothers me when my friends won't shut up about him. ������

Why do your friends continue to talk about him? Is he particularly large or small?

Samantha James
November 1st, 2018, 10:53 PM
:lol: Only SOMETIMES! Seriously though, family is family regardless of our bodies reactions, home should be a safe place to wear what you want... But you should definitely abide by the rules of whatever house you're visiting.

I know if I had a brother with a large penis I wouldn't mind at all if he walked around the house hard.

NudistFun
November 2nd, 2018, 05:40 AM
Why do your friends continue to talk about him? Is he particularly large or small?

REALLY big! Poor guy is comically hung :lol:

xSashax
November 2nd, 2018, 07:08 AM
That sounds fucking weird for sure. Her mom is just afraid of naked opposite sex or something....even though it’s her son....

Jordan99
November 2nd, 2018, 12:29 PM
REALLY big! Poor guy is comically hung :lol:

Yeah, my big brother gets picked on too, He is monstrously hung. I think the girls are mesmerized by it and the guys are a bit jealous.

NudistFun
November 2nd, 2018, 01:54 PM
Yeah, my big brother gets picked on too, He is monstrously hung. I think the girls are mesmerized by it and the guys are a bit jealous.

Lmfao if you didn't have a bf I'd say let's trade brothers 😂

Samantha James
November 2nd, 2018, 05:13 PM
Yeah, my big brother gets picked on too, He is monstrously hung. I think the girls are mesmerized by it and the guys are a bit jealous.

And I'm sure that you don't mind looking at it, especially when he is hard

Samantha James
November 2nd, 2018, 05:13 PM
Lmfao if you didn't have a bf I'd say let's trade brothers 😂

Sounds like a fair trade

Jordan99
November 2nd, 2018, 07:34 PM
Lmfao if you didn't have a bf I'd say let's trade brothers 😂

LoL!!!