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shawn1234
August 12th, 2018, 06:39 AM
First time posting here so i might have this in the wrong section. sorry.
Last week i went to the beach with my family and i couldnt help getting boners, i rolled on my stomach but then after a while everyone was nagging me to go play and swim and i was embarassed. Any advice? I know about the masturbate before going stuff but it doesnt really help. Now i am not much in the mood for the beach because i am afraid i ll be embarassed again. :(

Gabriel The French
August 12th, 2018, 08:00 AM
Run into the cold water, maybe that would help

Zachary G
August 12th, 2018, 08:17 AM
what type of swim suit are you wearing? if its one that shows your junk, maybe try changing to something thats a little baggier that will hide your boners.

shawn1234
August 12th, 2018, 08:23 AM
Thats a good advice Zachary, i have those boxerbriefs kind of swimsuit so its obvious. And they are new so i dont really have a reason to ask for new ones. I dont want to start a conversation with "it shows my boners" with mom or dad...

MasonBA
August 12th, 2018, 09:25 AM
Thats a good advice Zachary, i have those boxerbriefs kind of swimsuit so its obvious. And they are new so i dont really have a reason to ask for new ones. I dont want to start a conversation with "it shows my boners" with mom or dad...

I just got the same style for when we went to the beach, and I was getting boners too. I went into the water and it went away. Not sure if anyone noticed but really we're boys and it happens so I didn't really care

Suplad
August 12th, 2018, 09:33 AM
Go into cold water; not only will it shrink your boner but it will temporarily shrink your dick and balls so that they’re less noticeable.

mick01
August 12th, 2018, 10:25 AM
I've been at the beach for a few weeks now and have gotten tons of boners. Going into the water definitely helps but getting there can be an issue. And I wear either the baggy basketball shorts or board shorts so that helps too.

As others have seen me tented up, I just take the attitude now that it really doesn't matter. Teen boys get boners.

ashdaniel
August 12th, 2018, 11:10 AM
Well at least you have a pant on, I been to cloth optional beach. I either stay in the water or just lay on my belly when this happen. Going to the water I think is the best option so far.

ShineintheDark
August 12th, 2018, 11:15 AM
As others have suggested, try baggier shorts or maybe wearing your briefs under a pair of shorts so that it keeps it held back and not pointing in the wider shorts either. Cold water often helps but the issue with that may be getting to the water in the first place.

It may aslo help to know why you're getting the boners and amend that since it's only August and so still a couple months of potential beach weather where boners may still occur.

Davejohnson69
August 12th, 2018, 02:06 PM
Wear baggier pants. Hands in pockets helps hide it

shawn1234
August 12th, 2018, 07:51 PM
Thanx everyone for the advice, it really helps!

kro814
August 12th, 2018, 07:57 PM
I wear speedos so boners show. Go in the water first before laying on the sand.

shawn1234
August 12th, 2018, 08:19 PM
I wear speedos so boners show. Go in the water first before laying on the sand.
My problem is they happen so fast, you know.

teenboyNathan
August 12th, 2018, 09:51 PM
You could try hiding it by pointing it up and putting it under your waistband which helps it go down. Going into the water also helps

shawn1234
August 12th, 2018, 09:55 PM
You could try hiding it by pointing it up and putting it under your waistband which helps it go down. Going into the water also helps

thank you for the advice, sometimes its pointing down when its soft so when it bones it still pijts down or it point straight out. i do arrange it sometimes, yes!
And i cant tuck it in my waistband, its not that long... (now i am depressed) :(

imanopenbook
August 12th, 2018, 10:05 PM
I'm the same that I get boners all the time especially at the beach. Ive found being in the water helps usually but not always. But it's also good to keep it pointing up so it doesnt get uncomfortable when it happens and it's pointing down or to the side. I always feel everybody know's im adjusting lol.

Aussiekid2018
August 13th, 2018, 03:01 AM
Weat looser swimmers or try think of diffrent things

Jonnieboy909
August 13th, 2018, 04:36 AM
I wear loose shorts as I get boners from seeing other boys in speedos, if I do get a boner I just find somewhere to jerk it off

shawn1234
August 13th, 2018, 04:41 AM
I wear loose shorts as I get boners from seeing other boys in speedos, if I do get a boner I just find somewhere to jerk it off

you jerk off at the beach? arent you afraid someone will see you?

Jonnieboy909
August 13th, 2018, 05:16 AM
you jerk off at the beach? arent you afraid someone will see you?

I do it under my towel or in the showers or changing rooms

HeyYo
August 13th, 2018, 05:37 AM
First time posting here so i might have this in the wrong section. sorry.
Last week i went to the beach with my family and i couldnt help getting boners, i rolled on my stomach but then after a while everyone was nagging me to go play and swim and i was embarassed. Any advice? I know about the masturbate before going stuff but it doesnt really help. Now i am not much in the mood for the beach because i am afraid i ll be embarassed again. :(

Definitely go into the water. Even if it isn't cold, being in waste-high water will hide your boner for you, and you can still play and swim and stuff. I wouldn't recommend jacking on the beach. Sand can end up places you don't want it to, and cumming just makes a sticky, coarse mess. :(

scott2002
August 13th, 2018, 07:08 AM
Going into the water definitely helps but getting there can be an issue. And I wear either the baggy basketball shorts or board shorts so that helps too. As others have seen me tented up, I just take the attitude now that it really doesn't matter. Teen boys get boners.
I agree totally. I think this is the reason in the USA why bulky, baggy swimwear is so popular. You almost never see a teen boy (or any adult male for that matter) in the USA in Speedo swimwear at the beach or pool.

Ckro
August 13th, 2018, 03:18 PM
Wear loose shorts and beat it off at least 2/3 times before going to the beach

Hockeystar2020
August 13th, 2018, 04:03 PM
If would just run into the water when you feel one coming, the water will help it go down and hide it.

Astronomerplanes
August 14th, 2018, 05:26 PM
Please can someone delete my account and all my posts.

CnfusdTeen192
August 15th, 2018, 01:47 PM
Maybe the way your shorts are contacting your dick is causing you to have a boner.

Bikini Boy
August 15th, 2018, 02:36 PM
I agree totally. I think this is the reason in the USA why bulky, baggy swimwear is so popular. You almost never see a teen boy (or any adult male for that matter) in the USA in Speedo swimwear at the beach or pool.

I'm one of the rare teen boys in the USA who DOES wear a Speedo. Not a fan of baggy, bulky type swimwear or underwear.

toby69
August 15th, 2018, 05:05 PM
Good for you Bikini Boy. I think it is so stupid when boys wear underwear under their swimsuits. So unnecessary. Speedos are rare here on our California beaches. Sad.

FameMonster
August 15th, 2018, 08:07 PM
I'm one of the rare teen boys in the USA who DOES wear a Speedo. Not a fan of baggy, bulky type swimwear or underwear.

Do you find people give you weird looks or actually say something when they see you on a public beach or pool with bikini/Speedo style swim wear? I've seem some public pools and beaches actually have a rule against 'Speedo' style swim wear for guys. Us Americans are so prude when it comes to sex and the body.

teen110
August 16th, 2018, 12:28 AM
If you run into the water, it goes away!

Bikini Boy
August 18th, 2018, 07:46 AM
Do you find people give you weird looks or actually say something when they see you on a public beach or pool with bikini/Speedo style swim wear? I've seem some public pools and beaches actually have a rule against 'Speedo' style swim wear for guys. Us Americans are so prude when it comes to sex and the body.

I think there have probably been some times when people have given me some weird looks but no one has ever said anything directly to me. I like the way my body looks.

Hans_Olo
August 18th, 2018, 02:59 PM
In your situation you have 2 options.
1) wrap a towel around you and find somewhere hidden like a bathroom (or if there is one behind something so you aren't seen) and jerk off there which should help.
2) i know you said earlier your penis wasn't long enough to tuck into your waist and, but you could always try just pointing it upwards, and then either secretly holding it in place with your arms or else just run to the water.

Tylerboy13
August 18th, 2018, 04:33 PM
I am 13an at the beach i have like so many boners but my mum an dad just tell me that it's ok boys have them

abcdeqwe
August 18th, 2018, 06:01 PM
Just don’t worry about it and have fun.

Stevan LT
August 18th, 2018, 09:45 PM
When I feel it’s going to happen, I run in the water and the boner calms down quickly !!

KenA
August 18th, 2018, 11:30 PM
My problem is they happen so fast, you know.
I have the same problem, and I am 16