Falling in love with sis

[vteenuser]

hi... I would like some advice if possible.

In short.. I fall in love with my sis. And she falls for me too. We know that it is not suppose to happen, but we can't help it. I'm very confused right now.

Sometimes, it feels great.. but sometimes very sad because we know we can't be together. We cried several times when we talk about it.I know that she is the one for me. I don't want other girl. Just her and only her.

I love her so much. And I consider her as my girlfriend. I gave her a heart shaped pillow on her birthday. And she is so happy, can't stop smiling and kiss me. Just sitting beside her and hug her, and her head on my shoulder.. makes us very happy.

What should we do ?
Thanks

[West Coast Sheriff]

Try to think of a normal borther-sibling relationship. It is okay to be super close. But in the scheme of things, society isn't going to accept this. You also are both young and a lot can change in five years. It is best to understand the reasons why this cannot work. I would ask you to appreciate your sister as your sister. Hope this was of some help.

[ska8er]

Ur 14 and u have a lot of different
feelings running thru u right now.
U have to try and control urself. In
the long run a relationship like this
will not work. The two of u can still
love each other but as siblings and
not as lovers. Learn how to control
ur hormones right now til puberty
runs it course. The two of u will go
thru a lot of other relationships good
and bad but don't get into situations
that the two of u will b sorry for later.

[Gazebo]

Sounds like the hormones talking. First you have to stop thinking of her as your girlfriend. Period. It’s okay to love her as a sister but don’t let your hormones get the better of you and turn those feelings romantic and sexual

[Sailor Mars]

Puberty for all :arrow: Family & Friends

This is better suited here

[Taylormade]

This is a really hard thing to say here in the open, but I've been involved with incest and I'm advising you right now to control yourself. It's super easy to let emotions and hormones take over, but once you go too far, that's it. You can't take it back. There are two possible outcomes here, one is that you like it and want more, in which case you're on a slippery slope that WILL get out of control. The other is that you both end up regretting it and you'll have to carry that with you forever. In either case it's going to complicate everything very badly. Trust me, stop thinking about it and obsessing over it, it's better to wait just a little while and see that there's a lot of other options out there. Be patient and you'll be glad in the long run.

[vteenuser]

I know that it should not happen... but it's so hard to avoid.

Just a bit info, I don't have sex with my sis. We just kiss, hug and cuddle. So, it's pure love.

[Ashley2004]

This sounds fake to me.

[vteenuser]

This sounds fake to me.

huh? :what:

what makes you think that ?

[ska8er]

I know that it should not happen... but it's so hard to avoid.

Just a bit info, I don't have sex with my sis. We just kiss, hug and cuddle. So, it's pure love.

Its pure morally and legally wrong to
to start with. Start curbing ur feelings
before it gets out of hand. If this is a
joke-ur watching too many offbeat porn
videos.

[Drewboyy]

Please let this be fake

[erik2000]

Try to be with other girls and maybe you find a girlfriend who is not your relative.

[gwilkins234]

It's ok to love your sister. But It has to be family love.