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Dude16
March 13th, 2014, 08:22 PM
Hi,
I've been in a gay relationship with my boyfriend for about a year and a half. Lots of stuff has happened between him and I and I love him very much... but some of the things I've done don't really show that I love him including smoking weed behind his back and lightly talking to another guy. We do a lot for each other and we never mean to hurt each other.

Recently, we have taken another short break in our relationship; he was confused and assumed it was basically over. Over the week span that we weren't talking, he was asked to go to one of his other gay friend's prom at a different school. He's also a senior and has his prom coming up soon. I'm currently suffering from anxiety attacks wondering what's going to happen and if he's really going to follow through.

The guy who asked him to prom used to be the guy he really, really, really, really used to like so that nerves me out a little bit too.

I feel like I'm being pushed over and he wants to get back together but I'm not sure if I can handle the anxiety of him going out to another guys prom. It's just a really shitty position and I barely broke down when he told me about this.

Someone please help, am I overreacting? :what:

SadLove
March 27th, 2014, 12:08 AM
From a straight guy, You did do stuff behind his back, and im sure it would upset him if he knew. tell him everything, and be honest and say you want to go to prom

sieg
March 27th, 2014, 07:35 PM
tell him what you just told us. that you still love him, that your upset he's going to prom with another guy, that you dont want it to be over. i wouldnt reccomend telling him you do stuff behind his back, just stop doing that stuff.

jayjay's toocool
March 27th, 2014, 07:38 PM
Tf' ITs your man no. But since you were on a break you should let him. Unless you want that memory to be of you and him more than life.