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Ohboiadrian
August 7th, 2018, 10:15 PM
Idk if it's just me, but I always feel ugly when I'm masturbating especially after I nut. I really don't enjoy myself even when I'm doing it as I always stay silent and do it quickly. I'm not religious or anything, I just feel like Im gross for doing it. And after I cum I always feel guilty and shame myself for ever doing it. Especially since I moved out I don't have a room and I'm borrowing my sisters bed. So I always feel bad for jacking off on it. Idk whats wrong with me.
Nnoki
August 7th, 2018, 10:57 PM
It's pretty normal, many guys know it as Post-masturbation guilt
Second Chance
August 7th, 2018, 11:25 PM
Idk if it's just me, but I always feel ugly when I'm masturbating especially after I nut. I really don't enjoy myself even when I'm doing it as I always stay silent and do it quickly. I'm not religious or anything, I just feel like Im gross for doing it. And after I cum I always feel guilty and shame myself for ever doing it. Especially since I moved out I don't have a room and I'm borrowing my sisters bed. So I always feel bad for jacking off on it. Idk whats wrong with me.
I would not feel badly about masturbating, and a lot of us were exactly like you when we started to jack off. I'm guessing you must have started jacking off recently, and it is easy to feel guilty doing it because it seems "adult" or "bad." Masturbating is totally normal, and there is nothing at all that is wrong with it because you are simply doing what most other guys do.
If it makes you feel awkward jacking off on your Sister's bed that you're borrowing, then try to find another place to masturbate so that you do not feel badly.
Terran
August 8th, 2018, 12:30 AM
I totally forgotten about post masturbation guilt. I actually can’t remember the last time I had it but don’t worry it used to happen to me all the time. I wonder why I don’t get it anymore.
HeyYo
August 8th, 2018, 01:35 AM
Idk if it's just me, but I always feel ugly when I'm masturbating especially after I nut. I really don't enjoy myself even when I'm doing it as I always stay silent and do it quickly. I'm not religious or anything, I just feel like Im gross for doing it. And after I cum I always feel guilty and shame myself for ever doing it. Especially since I moved out I don't have a room and I'm borrowing my sisters bed. So I always feel bad for jacking off on it. Idk whats wrong with me.
This is pretty normal. It'll pass eventually. Although, doing it on your sisters bed is probably adding a lot to it. There's nothing wrong with you though. :)
ska8er
August 8th, 2018, 05:18 PM
Totally normal-when u r horny and jacking
it is a high-once u come it becomes a downer
an that is where the negative feelings come in.
Hormones can b very weird.
Narancha
August 8th, 2018, 05:23 PM
never felt guilty about it my self, scared of getting caught yea.... tho i can imagine its normal
Falcons_11
August 8th, 2018, 11:22 PM
never felt guilty about it my self, scared of getting caught yea.... tho i can imagine its normal
I feel the same way as Narancha. I masturbated a lot. But I don't feel any guilt about doing it. It's fun and feels very relaxing after I've cummed.
Gazebo
August 9th, 2018, 12:14 AM
That’s a natural feeling but not normally to that degree. If you don’t find enjoyment in doing it I don’t understand why you continue nonetheless
INACTIVEchaosphere
August 9th, 2018, 01:13 AM
Idk if it's just me, but I always feel ugly when I'm masturbating especially after I nut. I really don't enjoy myself even when I'm doing it as I always stay silent and do it quickly. I'm not religious or anything, I just feel like Im gross for doing it. And after I cum I always feel guilty and shame myself for ever doing it. Especially since I moved out I don't have a room and I'm borrowing my sisters bed. So I always feel bad for jacking off on it. Idk whats wrong with me.
I used to feel the same, I think it's normal and caused by unbalanced hormones and the psychology of getting used to dealing with a male body in a sexual way. You'll get used to it with some time and hopefully come to find masturbation as a healthy and beneficial experience, rather than something to be ashamed of. As for doing it in your sister's bed, that makes sense, not only is it a female's bed (a relative at that) but also your brain probably doesn't like being in a vulnerable and unconfined state like that while in someone else's, "territory." Maybe do it standing up or in a chair or something. You have options other than time to alleviate that particular part of the issue.
EricLund
August 9th, 2018, 02:11 PM
My feeling it's not guilt but a sign of relieve that I released the stored sperms.
Am I different? Normally, i wear boxers to bed, but I take them off when I masturbate on to my chest, get cleaned up with a towel, and then sleep in my shorts.
teenboyNathan
August 9th, 2018, 09:46 PM
It's normal to feel guilty after jerking when you first start doing it. As time goes on that guilt will go away
Ross15L
August 10th, 2018, 09:00 AM
I feel the same way as Narancha. I masturbated a lot. But I don't feel any guilt about doing it. It's fun and feels very relaxing after I've cummed.
Yeah it is fun! I don't feel guilty.
Jake445
August 10th, 2018, 04:02 PM
Interesting, I never had masturbation guilt. I always thought of it as a religious thing but as you not religious I don't know why it happens to you.
mark555
August 10th, 2018, 04:12 PM
never felt guilty... should I :D
shawn1234
August 11th, 2018, 06:57 AM
I dont feel guilty, but i do think that everyone knows what i just did and it makes me nervous.
Zachary G
August 11th, 2018, 07:14 AM
your feelings of guilt are normal, its something that most guys go through at one point or another, but it will pass. I went through that guilt phase, it always felt like people who looked at me after I did it knew what i was doing. It was horrible, but it passed after some time. As far as you doing it on your sisters bed, that could be contributing to your guilt feelings, so you might want to find a new place to do it
Aussiekid2018
August 11th, 2018, 05:13 PM
Dont feel guilty dude, its normal and you should enjoy it because its apart of life. I suggest you do it in the toilet if you feel guilty for doung it on her ged
Stevan LT
August 19th, 2018, 08:09 AM
I think masturbation is natural, not only for humans as far as I know
KAwrestler
August 22nd, 2018, 10:25 AM
I never feel guilty. Just do what feels good.
Tsall
August 22nd, 2018, 03:57 PM
Every now and then I feel guilty, but that soon goes away. Just do it if you like it.
Shamal
August 22nd, 2018, 06:16 PM
I don't really feel bad or guilty - its a normal thing for people to do
Anomaly6
August 22nd, 2018, 10:23 PM
I have felt that way until recently, I think the more you discuss it with others, the better you will feel about it!
Cycler21
August 24th, 2018, 01:23 AM
Just know it's completely natural and you have nothing to be ashamed of. If you don't feel comfortable doing it in your sisters bed maybe do it in the bathroom.
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