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Gabriel The French
August 1st, 2018, 11:07 AM
Hey there !
My brother and I have been raised naturist since our birth.
We are always naked at home, at campings ...etc and it has never been an issue.
We've been taught that nudity isn't something sexual and that body respect is one of the most important values of naturism.
But recently, I told some of my non-naturist friends about it and they found it gross, almost incestuous. :(
What's your experience with nudity ? Have you ever been nude with your siblings? Would you like to ?
Semi_IronMan
August 1st, 2018, 11:21 AM
I really don’t mind naturalists, I think everyone should be free to live however they please and do whatever makes them happy. I grew up with two sisters so I haven’t been nude with either of them. I’d like to think had I had a brother I wouldn’t mind being naked with him at all..
Ohh... and your friends! No need to explain yourself to them or to feel embarrassed, if they can’t accept you that’s their problem not yours.
azurzg
August 1st, 2018, 11:29 AM
Before my bother moved out (five years ago), it would be normal for me to see him naked a few times a day. We shared a room.
TristanM
August 1st, 2018, 02:33 PM
I have seen my dad and brother nude a lot. It's pretty normal. I don't like my mom to see though so I would not be a good nudist. That's just me though. I think people who are naturists are braver and more free.
Gabriel The French
August 1st, 2018, 03:13 PM
I have seen my dad and brother nude a lot. It's pretty normal. I don't like my mom to see though so I would not be a good nudist. That's just me though. I think people who are naturists are braver and more free.
I think because i've seen my mother nude all my life, I dont mind seeing her.
It's more about education rather than "being brave"
cinderfella
August 1st, 2018, 03:28 PM
I really wish we didn't have hangups about nudity. I feel like my moms obsession with conservative sexual stuff has led to some numerous issues I have with my body and other things.
Kakashi03
August 1st, 2018, 04:05 PM
I don't think it's gross. I always see my brother naked and he sees me naked. We even jerk off together. It's just a natural thing between siblings
Gabriel The French
August 1st, 2018, 04:22 PM
I mean they think it's gross because sometimes I sleep with my brother (and we are obviously naked). And last time, I was facecaming with my friends to talk about things and my brother entered my room and sat on my bed.
My friends were a bit confused of why my brother was naked and I told them that we are always naked at home.
MasonBA
August 1st, 2018, 05:21 PM
my brother and I share a room, so we've been naked together hundreds of times. We both sleep naked, and sometimes he likes to get in bed with me. We have taken baths and showers together. We're brothers, no big deal.
Gabriel The French
August 1st, 2018, 05:39 PM
my brother and I share a room, so we've been naked together hundreds of times. We both sleep naked, and sometimes he likes to get in bed with me. We have taken baths and showers together. We're brothers, no big deal.
Glad to see that I’m not the only one ^^
When did you guys start sleeping naked ?
kro814
August 1st, 2018, 06:05 PM
What could possibly be wrong with two (or more) same sex brothers seeing each other naked? I have 2 little brothers and we see each other naked all the time. I don't have any sisters.
Brothers and sisters naked together-that's up to them. Every family has their own views and you don't have to be a naturist to see other family members naked.
Geez!
MasonBA
August 1st, 2018, 07:10 PM
Glad to see that I’m not the only one ^^
When did you guys start sleeping naked ?
We started doing it a couple of years ago but only during the summer. Now we sleep like that all the time
teenboyNathan
August 1st, 2018, 08:39 PM
I don't go nude at home but I don't see any problem being nude with your brother if both of you like doing it
Tommy Lion
August 2nd, 2018, 02:15 AM
Hey there !
My brother and I have been raised naturist since our birth.
We are always naked at home, at campings ...etc and it has never been an issue.
We've been taught that nudity isn't something sexual and that body respect is one of the most important values of naturism.
But recently, I told some of my non-naturist friends about it and they found it gross, almost incestuous. :(
What's your experience with nudity ? Have you ever been nude with your siblings? Would you like to ?
My brother, sister and I have been raised as naturist as well. We've been taught the same. My brother is 2 years older and my sister 4 years older. We've always been naked together, showered together and also shared a bed ocasionally. Nothing sexual at all! So for me there's no difference between being close with my brother or with my sister. For us it's very normal and luckily I never heard friends or others say it's gross or incestueus.
Gabriel The French
August 2nd, 2018, 03:57 AM
I don't go nude at home but I don't see any problem being nude with your brother if both of you like doing it
We were raised that way xD we stay naked because it’s normal and natural for us.
Gabriel The French
August 2nd, 2018, 04:03 AM
My brother, sister and I have been raised as naturist as well. We've been taught the same. My brother is 2 years older and my sister 4 years older. We've always been naked together, showered together and also shared a bed ocasionally. Nothing sexual at all! So for me there's no difference between being close with my brother or with my sister. For us it's very normal and luckily I never heard friends or others say it's gross or incestueus.
One thing that one of my friends doesnt understand is that i’m really close with my brother. And we had the «*ritual*» to give ourselves a good night and good morning hug. For him, it s really weird to hug your brother naked especially in the morning when we both have a morning wood. But well, it went as a habit for us and we don’t find it odd at all
mick01
August 2nd, 2018, 11:06 AM
My brothers and I are not nudists but will often be naked if it's just the 3 of us, or even just 2 of us. It just seems natural. And it's not unusual for masturbation to be occurring at times also.
HeyCameron
August 2nd, 2018, 11:09 AM
My brother and will change in front of each other, but that's about it. I'm not naked much in general.
Gabriel The French
August 2nd, 2018, 12:17 PM
My brothers and I are not nudists but will often be naked if it's just the 3 of us, or even just 2 of us. It just seems natural. And it's not unusual for masturbation to be occurring at times also.
I try not to masturbate too much with my brother cause that creates sexual desire :/ and I don't want my brother to be horny all the time xD (considering he is right into puberty rn)
mick01
August 2nd, 2018, 12:37 PM
I try not to masturbate too much with my brother cause that creates sexual desire :/ and I don't want my brother to be horny all the time xD (considering he is right into puberty rn)
My one brother is 14 and going thru puberty also, but there is nothing that's going to stop him from being horny lol.
Gabriel The French
August 2nd, 2018, 12:52 PM
My one brother is 14 and going thru puberty also, but there is nothing that's going to stop him from being horny lol.
I know xD
But well it's really awkward when he gets a boner while watching TV with us in the evening ...
Snowrider
August 3rd, 2018, 09:20 PM
I've been nude lots with my brothers. It's totally normal dude. No worries about that. We're all cool with it and it's so normal, really.
Gabriel The French
August 8th, 2018, 05:25 AM
Quick update : I invited my friend to come at home for a sleepover and he accepted.
So two days ago he went at home and saw that nudity has nothing to do with incest or sex.
He was a bit embarrassed at first because he had never seen my parents nude before. He stayed clothed at the beginning but then he strip down to his underwear at dinner because my mom advised him to do so because we were eating bolognese pasta and that would have stained his clothes.
Later on, we took our shower and i suggested him to stay nude after that. He hesitated for a long time but finally decided to give it a try. After that we just went watching TV before bedtime.
He slept in my brother’s bed and my brother and i slept in mine.
Next morning we ate breakfast together and my parents explained him the philosophy of naturism in general.
After that, he got dressed and told me that he was sorry for what he said and that he actually liked being nude and sleep naked !
Gabriel The French
August 8th, 2018, 03:49 PM
I received a pm but i dont have access to that yet so i ll just answer here :
No we didnt shower together but he brushed his teeth while I was in the same bathroom showering.
toby69
August 8th, 2018, 05:37 PM
Thanks Gabriel for answering my question about shower. Sorry, I did not realize you are not yet able to PM.
shawn1234
August 11th, 2018, 03:52 PM
i have with a cousin on vacation, it was a bit akward.
Ross15L
August 11th, 2018, 10:26 PM
It just depends on perspective. Some people are more conservative and think all things naked = sex. Others not like that.
CnfusdTeen192
August 12th, 2018, 02:53 AM
I’m in Germany for vacation and the Germans are not afraid to be nude. I understand it now and there’s nothing wrong with it.
Gabriel The French
August 12th, 2018, 03:58 AM
I’m in Germany for vacation and the Germans are not afraid to be nude. I understand it now and there’s nothing wrong with it.
Yeah but only when they go the to beach right?
I live 24/7 nude at home
INACTIVEchaosphere
August 17th, 2018, 02:22 AM
That sounds cool to live in an open and accepting environment like that. I don't think it's incestuous or weird or whatever. It's just natural and coming from a consensual and normalized perspective. Live how you want as long as you aren't hurting others. The people who think it's weird are just insecure about it or undereducated on it. I wouldn't bother with them. I'm an only child who appreciates being naked but that's the only perspective I can comment from lol.
bfldworker
August 17th, 2018, 01:02 PM
I look at it from the perspective that brothers have the same equipment. Your both male. If you are comfortable around each other like that then you are comfortable. Don't let someone else dictate to you what you should or shouldn't be doing. It isn't illegal, and I don't think it is in moral. Let it hang out. It's your body.
Gabriel The French
August 17th, 2018, 01:17 PM
I look at it from the perspective that brothers have the same equipment. Your both male. If you are comfortable around each other like that then you are comfortable. Don't let someone else dictate to you what you should or shouldn't be doing. It isn't illegal, and I don't think it is in moral. Let it hang out. It's your body.
Yep ! And also my brother was already aware of his upcoming puberty changes :D
So being naked all year long builds body confidence too ;)
bfldworker
August 17th, 2018, 02:14 PM
Yep ! And also my brother was already aware of his upcoming puberty changes :D
So being naked all year long builds body confidence too ;)
I hit puberty before my older brother. I was 11 when I started and he was 13, we are a 10 months apart. It annoyed him, but it showed him what to expect. We have had no issues with nudity, we hung out nude, jerked off together and made jokes about each other's shortcomings. I am hairy, he isn't, he has ball busted me about that and I have nut busted him about being a hairless ape that couldn't grow a lot of pubes if he begged God so being nude isn't a issue. We weren't raised that way, we have always been open around each other about everything since before puberty.
Harrier
August 17th, 2018, 04:55 PM
Hey there !
My brother and I have been raised naturist since our birth.
We are always naked at home, at campings ...etc and it has never been an issue.
We've been taught that nudity isn't something sexual and that body respect is one of the most important values of naturism.
But recently, I told some of my non-naturist friends about it and they found it gross, almost incestuous. :(
What's your experience with nudity ? Have you ever been nude with your siblings? Would you like to ?
I don't understand - you are only a naturist with your brother and nobody else???? If that's so, you aren't a naturist/nudist. And if you mean you are a nudist with everyone (all your family, and the other people you allow to be nude with - people at nude resorts and beaches) then why are your friends only asking about your brothers???
I'll await your response before I say too much, but will just say this - it's your life and you decide when you want to wear clothes and who you want to be with. Period.
Edit: ok so I read some other posts, and I THINK I understand now that you're whole family are nudists. If so, that answers that. Still not sure why your friends were focusing on your brothers, but whatever.
Buy ya, a TON of people don't understand that nudity doesn't necessarily equal sex. So some people don't get nudist lifestyles.
bfldworker
August 17th, 2018, 07:10 PM
I don't understand - you are only a naturist with your brother and nobody else???? If that's so, you aren't a naturist/nudist. And if you mean you are a nudist with everyone (all your family, and the other people you allow to be nude with - people at nude resorts and beaches) then why are your friends only asking about your brothers???
I'll await your response before I say too much, but will just say this - it's your life and you decide when you want to wear clothes and who you want to be with. Period.
Edit: ok so I read some other posts, and I THINK I understand now that you're whole family are nudists. If so, that answers that. Still not sure why your friends were focusing on your brothers, but whatever.
Buy ya, a TON of people don't understand that nudity doesn't necessarily equal sex. So some people don't get nudist lifestyles.
To non nudists it is strange, they don't understand why you would want to see other people especially family members naked. When in reality it has nothing to do with wanting to see anyone naked. But people don't understand that.
teen110
August 17th, 2018, 07:15 PM
my brother anad i are the same age (15) and we have seperate rooms, weoften are naked together when parents are not home, but when they are home, we usually are shirtless but have shorts on.
Falcons_11
August 17th, 2018, 09:53 PM
I don't think it's abnormal to see your brother(s) nude. After all, aren't we all males and have the same equipment down there. The same goes for our friends too. It's perfectly normal.
Gabriel The French
August 18th, 2018, 02:55 AM
I don't understand - you are only a naturist with your brother and nobody else???? If that's so, you aren't a naturist/nudist. And if you mean you are a nudist with everyone (all your family, and the other people you allow to be nude with - people at nude resorts and beaches) then why are your friends only asking about your brothers???
I'll await your response before I say too much, but will just say this - it's your life and you decide when you want to wear clothes and who you want to be with. Period.
Edit: ok so I read some other posts, and I THINK I understand now that you're whole family are nudists. If so, that answers that. Still not sure why your friends were focusing on your brothers, but whatever.
Buy ya, a TON of people don't understand that nudity doesn't necessarily equal sex. So some people don't get nudist lifestyles.
Im focusing on my brother because we used to sleep together a lot and hug in the morning or before sleeping to wish us a good sleep/a nice day.
And a lot of ppl think it s incestuous to be that close and naked with your family, especially my brother since he is younger than me.
And yay all my family is naturist, including cousins and grandparents
Hans_Olo
August 18th, 2018, 06:36 AM
My siblings and I never see each other naked, and god forbid if my mother found out that I was named anywhere other than in the shower. However if I am home alone I generally just go naked.
Harrier
August 21st, 2018, 08:45 PM
Im focusing on my brother because we used to sleep together a lot and hug in the morning or before sleeping to wish us a good sleep/a nice day.
And a lot of ppl think it s incestuous to be that close and naked with your family, especially my brother since he is younger than me.
And yay all my family is naturist, including cousins and grandparents
I find nothing wrong with being nudists. I also understand people who don't want to be one themselves. I understand that people judge it without trying it, but that's really not fair. I hug my sisters (not daily), not really into hugging my younger brother, but that's fine that you do imo.
Harrier
August 21st, 2018, 08:46 PM
To non nudists it is strange, they don't understand why you would want to see other people especially family members naked. When in reality it has nothing to do with wanting to see anyone naked. But people don't understand that.
Exactly!
Soccerboy2005
August 21st, 2018, 08:55 PM
I share a room with 2 younger brothers. We have seen each other naked almost all the time when we change.
Tsall
August 22nd, 2018, 04:00 PM
Imo, being naked in front of brothers and other boys is completely natural. We all have penises. There is nothing to hide.
abcdeqwe
August 22nd, 2018, 04:59 PM
I think nudity is unnecessarily stigmatized. I haven’t had any experience with nudity except on my own, but I would be up for nudity with friends but I don’t think brothers.
bfldworker
August 23rd, 2018, 05:10 PM
I share a room with 2 younger brothers. We have seen each other naked almost all the time when we change.
I am sure they have had questions about why some things are bigger or hairy.
How did that go over?
I have a older brother and even though I hit puberty first he didn't ask anything.
Soccerboy2005
August 23rd, 2018, 08:26 PM
I am sure they have had questions about why some things are bigger or hairy.
How did that go over?
I have a older brother and even though I hit puberty first he didn't ask anything.
They probably will have questions when it happens.
I’m not much bigger than they are, and haven’t started growing pubes yet.
shadow2015
August 28th, 2018, 09:49 PM
I agree that nudity is always sexual. If you family are naturist/nudist then nudity is the norm. My family is not. But I had to shower at school after gym. guess what, we all were naked and no one had sex. The problem has become that too many people associate nudity with sex or they tell their kids to hide their nudity and be ashamed of it. This seems to be your friends problem not yours.
kro814
September 7th, 2018, 07:41 PM
I don't think nudity is always sexual. Nudity is natural. It's only sexual if you make it that way.
citycanuck
September 7th, 2018, 08:22 PM
We're not a naturist family, but we've never been made to feel like nudity is shameful or anything like. We try to be respectful in terms of not barging into the bathroom or if someone clearly wants some privacy. I probably haven't seen my mom nude since I was a little kid, other than the odd flash of something if say she happens to be changing and their bedroom door isn't closed when I go to my bedroom or something. Dad I've seen more often if like we've been somewhere swimming or something like that. My younger brother and I probably see each other nude a lot more regularly as we share a room and we're usually trying to get ready for school at the same time in the morning so some doubling up in the bathroom is necessary.
Gabriel The French
September 8th, 2018, 01:47 AM
We're not a naturist family, but we've never been made to feel like nudity is shameful or anything like. We try to be respectful in terms of not barging into the bathroom or if someone clearly wants some privacy. I probably haven't seen my mom nude since I was a little kid, other than the odd flash of something if say she happens to be changing and their bedroom door isn't closed when I go to my bedroom or something. Dad I've seen more often if like we've been somewhere swimming or something like that. My younger brother and I probably see each other nude a lot more regularly as we share a room and we're usually trying to get ready for school at the same time in the morning so some doubling up in the bathroom is necessary.
That’s nice !
Jeff8
September 8th, 2018, 08:38 AM
I have an older and a younger brother. We are naked around each other and are fine with it.
bfldworker
September 8th, 2018, 01:16 PM
I look at it this way. Nudity is no big deal. I think with boys, Teen males and even adult males it makes some of us uncomfortable because of several things.
1. It makes us feel vulnerable.
2. (and this is true of preteens and teens in puberty) that old cliche of size matters. As is evident of this thread alone, we have people with age ranges from 11 to at least 20-21. We all started puberty at a different age, I started when I was 11, some are 14 and haven't hit puberty yet and when we are in a situation where we may be naked (Showering after gym) where we may seem vastly different from the other people in our age group. And that makes us feel vulnerable in from of people we don't know.
However around our family, specifically brothers. We don't feel vulnerable, they know us, we know them and brothers protect each other and stand by each other, even when we want to strangle each other.
We all have penis's, testicles. The only difference is size, hairiness, foreskin or no foreskin, hard, soft, direction of curve if any at all and thats it.
Personally I think this whole taboo of being naked around siblings is a crock of useless shit. We are siblings, it isn't like we are going to fuck each other if we are nakes. And for those that do, then you know what. Good for you, if it is what you do, then it is what you do. I can't judge you.
Mark smith
September 9th, 2018, 04:59 AM
Whatever people think or say nudity is fine it’s not like you going to walk naked In the streets or something everyone has different opinions in br naked at home and around others
Jeff8
September 11th, 2018, 06:03 AM
Whatever people think or say nudity is fine it’s not like you going to walk naked In the streets or something everyone has different opinions in br naked at home and around others
Exactly. I think society makes us feel ashamed of being naked but hey, that's how we came into this world, right?! :yeah:
shadow2015
September 12th, 2018, 07:03 PM
I don't have a brother. I enjoy being naked. My family is conservative, so no one walks around the house naked. Your friend thinks that it is weird because that is the way he was raised. You were raised to be freer with nudity.
somna2345
September 13th, 2018, 02:51 PM
we are nude all the time and if we get boners its not because of each other but because its natural for our bodies at the time
Gabriel The French
September 13th, 2018, 03:34 PM
we are nude all the time and if we get boners its not because of each other but because its natural for our bodies at the time
were u guys raised naturist too ;) ?
Jake445
September 13th, 2018, 05:04 PM
I share a room with my twin sister and have all my life so we are totally comfortable being naked around each other. I have no other siblings but I imagine it would be the same with a brother. It's sad that your friends don't understand nudism! We aren't nudists but would definitely like to try it sometime.
Birds18
September 14th, 2018, 07:25 AM
I share a room with 2 younger brothers. We have seen each other naked almost all the time when we change.
How old are your younger brothers?
Soccerboy2005
September 14th, 2018, 02:03 PM
How old are your younger brothers?
9 and 11
Hermes
September 14th, 2018, 03:35 PM
I agree that nudity is always sexual.
From the rest of your reply, did you mean to say that or did you mean "I agree that nudity is not always sexual."?
I think it becomes harder to separate the two if the only time you are nude the presence of anyone else is to do something sexual. Once you get used to casual nudity in other situations it seems more normal and less sexual.
somna2345
September 14th, 2018, 11:31 PM
no but we enjoy it when we get the chance
somna2345
September 14th, 2018, 11:32 PM
were u guys raised naturist too ;) ?
no but we enjoy it when we get the chance and just discovered it by ourselves
NoName2001
September 16th, 2018, 11:07 AM
I am naked with my brothers a lot, never really bothered us seeing each other naked or seeing each other in underwear
nickerasic
September 16th, 2018, 01:34 PM
My family isn't nudist but I share a room and the bathroom with my 2 bros (11 and 17) and we have seen each others penis and balls. Sometimes we pee at the same time in the morning or one is in the bathroom while someone is showering. we also see each other change bathing suits for swimming or just change clothes. we are comfortable with each other but i don't think of it as 'sexy' or 'sexual' when we are naked together. Does it make sense?
Gabriel The French
September 16th, 2018, 01:37 PM
My family isn't nudist but I share a room and the bathroom with my 2 bros (11 and 17) and we have seen each others penis and balls. Sometimes we pee at the same time in the morning or one is in the bathroom while someone is showering. we also see each other change bathing suits for swimming or just change clothes. we are comfortable with each other but i don't think of it as 'sexy' or 'sexual' when we are naked together. Does it make sense?
yeah definitely !
Hhfjjfhd6
February 18th, 2019, 09:03 PM
Yes, I’ve been nude with my stepbrother. We are both boys. We’ve seen each other’s penises before, when we’ve been hard and flaccid. It’s nothing to hide I feel like.
kro814
February 18th, 2019, 09:21 PM
I think all boys get naked round their brothers.
Jeff1857
February 19th, 2019, 02:11 PM
Yeah my brothers and I are naked a lot together. No issue. My dad is also fine being naked but I don't see him as much as my brothers (Share a room). None of us think it is weird.
sports_nut
February 19th, 2019, 07:11 PM
Yeah my brothers and I are naked a lot together. No issue. My dad is also fine being naked but I don't see him as much as my brothers (Share a room). None of us think it is weird.
same here its just me and my bro and dad and no one thinks it weird being naked together we go to nude resorts in summer
Hhfjjfhd6
February 19th, 2019, 08:03 PM
It’s natural to be nude in front of your brothers/dad/cousins. We’re all males and have the same parts
hairy balls
February 19th, 2019, 10:20 PM
my brothers and I share a room, so we've been naked together heaps of times. Some of us sleep naked. We have been in the bathroom together. no big deal.
nicktheman2003
February 20th, 2019, 12:55 AM
My brother and I see each other naked, in the mornings or night time in the bathroom we share. Swimming etc.
justa16yearoldaussie
February 20th, 2019, 02:27 AM
I personally wouldn't like seeing my entire family naked 24/7 but you were raised in that environment so you find it normal. What you and your friend consider normal are different so thats probably why he was grossed out by it
GiJoe
February 22nd, 2019, 02:10 PM
My brother is one year older than me We share a room its no big deal being naked with brother we enjoy it When we 4 to 5 we ran around house naked We have compared when erect sometimes masterbate he will embrace when nude to We are close He will get in bed when we naked nothing happens We enjoy it being nude together not sexual at all it normal for us We have on school and we both naked now
sports_nut
February 24th, 2019, 05:57 PM
My brother is one year older than me We share a room its no big deal being naked with brother we enjoy it When we 4 to 5 we ran around house naked We have compared when erect sometimes masterbate he will embrace when nude to We are close He will get in bed when we naked nothing happens We enjoy it being nude together not sexual at all it normal for us We have on school and we both naked now
I have a younger brother and since its just us and my dad we pretty much go naked around the house most of the time as long as no guests.
Spaceforce1
February 24th, 2019, 11:53 PM
I’ve never really been nude with any of my siblings. Like maybe my brother and I have changed near each other or together when we’re at the pool or something. But I would never go nude with any sibling, I’m sure we would all be uncomfortable if it were like that. We’re definitely not nudists or naturalists or anything like that.
hockeyref867
March 5th, 2019, 11:46 PM
My 2 brothers and I have seen each other naked lots, at home or in sports. We only have one washroom and two of us go to the same school so my brother commonly showers while I’m shaving and vers. Sometimes we’re also nude if our parents aren’t home, that gets fun
rgconrad23
March 6th, 2019, 06:37 AM
My brother, who is two years younger then me, and I are very comfortable being naked around each other. We share a bathroom which is between both our rooms and are often in there together doing our thing. We talk a lot and he comes into my room often since I have the Xbox in here. We’ve even bunked together and both sleep nude.
Andrew13
March 6th, 2019, 02:14 PM
I would like but I don’t have brother 😅
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