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[vipersniper70]

hi. earlier today my 10 yr old brother Jake asked if I could show him how to masturbate, he has seen me and my other two brothers masturbate and hear us talking about, so do u have any pointers, thanks

[nklarke]

How old is he? Is he's a teenager don't see the real problem.

[ScottishCanary]

This is really about how comfortable you are with the situation. If you feel comfortable with teaching your bro then go for it but if not then I wouldn't recommend it as you will just be super awkward. Just go with what your own thoughts tell you, if that makes sense!

[deregisterme]

hi. earlier today my youngest brother asked if I could show him how to masturbate, he has seen me and my other two brothers masturbate and hear us talking about, so do u have any pointers, thanks

It partly depends how old he is. I did hit puberty at 10, and wished someone had helped me. If he's old enough, and you're OK to show him go for it. Otherwise, talk with him. Just be there for him :-)

[vipersniper70]

he is 10, thanks for the tips

[ScottishCanary]

he is 10, thanks for the tips

Yeah 10 seems a little young to be getting too graphic or that with him but at the end of the day it's your call. I think we all (male and female) have gone through that stage of finding out about our bodies and we go through it at different stages. I have an 11 yr old brother and would be quite surprised if he came up to me and asked me about masturbation (gender difference apart). Though I guess he is at an age where that will be something he will figure out soon!

[Body odah Man]

open up a internet link for him if he must or let him find out about it. DON't teach him. That's just eww

[TheLivingLie]

Teaching him would be fine, but I doubt he will be able to ejaculate or anything so he might be a bit confused. Has he done sex ed in school yet??? Don't do it with porn or anything just show him the basics, give him the tools, and let him use them how he wants

[Jackman1800]

Go for it.

[Hermes96]

open up a link with techniques and info ect so you don't have to actually teach him because that could be eww and if your parents found out it could be awquard

[anyone50]

Not being a guy I really don't get this. if he has already seen you masturbate can't he just mimic your actions? I always thought guys learn to play with their penis at very early age without much instruction. Could it be he wants you to masturbate him

[Bmble_B]

Yea like some other peeps said, it depends on your level of comfort. If you feel comfortable showing him go ahead. But if you don't feel comfortable, then just tell him to experiment with himself and see whats best for him. :D

[Swagging god]

It partly depends how old he is. I did hit puberty at 10, and wished someone had helped me. If he's old enough, and you're OK to show him go for it. Otherwise, talk with him. Just be there for him :-)

Good answer in my opinion! I learned about it by watching an older nephew

[Ethe14]

I wouldn't show him, but if he's in puberty early then it's at your discretion.

[backjruton]

I started at 9 so technically if I was you I would show him. Anyway, some people start playing with themselves at around 3 or 4 from what I've heard but obviously not too far because they're not developed enough to have orgasms or get anything out of it :kitty:

Do what you think is best with it... I'm not too sure