Making it work

[benlodge123]

I have met a girl called Jasmine. She is super cute and very kind, down to earth and understanding. She is the same age as me which is a bonus.

I have been speaking to her for 2 days and she said she feels like "something more than friends is there" i feel the same. However, i catch feelings fast so i feel like i m rushing with her. How do i come across as "calm" and not give to much a way that i also feel the same. I want to meet her, but again I dont want to give to much away.

I like talking to her as much as i can, this isnt necessarily wrong but it can become annoying for her. At night time she always seems to fall asleep when my message gets delivered and she always replies in the morning saying she fell asleep. Most people would just open and ignore the message from the night before so i think she "has time" for me.

I dont wanna come across as annoying to her. I want to build something more than friends with her, but i dont want to catch feelings to fast.

Im not sure about how much you should talk to someone you kinda like. Is it a lot, a little or like once a day?

She is a different person to me however, she goes out partying, whereas i am a recluse who stays at home. I explained that to her and she said thats fine, id prefer a guy who doesnt go out meeting loads of other girls. Does that mean i cant go out? I have female mates...

Im all confused about how i should go about building a more than friends relationship with Jasmine. Any help would be greatly appreciated :)

[ska8er]

I don't know after only speaking with her
for two days she feels there is something
more there or could b. If the two of u met
in person then I would say that the two of
u could get good vibes of trying to get into
a relationship. She likes to party and u say
u r a recluse and she likes a guy who doesn't
go out meeting a lot of girls. Idk but I c that
as demanding. Maybe that's just a joke with
her. I think u r rushing things a bit. Talking
once a day is ok. Expecting a return message
fast could b that she talks to a lot of others an
possibly does fall asleep. I would ease up a bit
with the friendship and continue to talk to her
but after only two days she just might b playing
u. If u have a lot of girls as friends then no one
can stop u of going out-ur not committed.

[mick01]

I would just take things slowly without much in the way of expectations. Just talk to her and begin the process of getting to know each other without making any commitments.