Concerns about anal sex.

[Nikki_1]

I have not actually gone 'all the way' with a boy yet but I have done lots of making out, I don't feel ready to go to that 'next stage' yet but I have heard that boys like anal sex... my question is Why??? I just can't figure it out! whats the point of doing that? It sounds kinda painful and there's not much point in doing it as far as I can tell.
I hope someone can shed some light on this for me.

[abcdeqwe]

Men like to feel superior to women, don’t ya know. Anal sex is just another way men can get pleasure while putting women through unbarable pain, because most of the time they aren’t even thinking about what they’re doing and how it might affect someone. My advise is only do anal with a guy u love and who loves u. I mean I would do anal regardless but I got a reason. Hope this was helpful.

[MagicGinnySurprise]

I have not actually gone 'all the way' with a boy yet but I have done lots of making out, I don't feel ready to go to that 'next stage' yet but I have heard that boys like anal sex... my question is Why??? I just can't figure it out! whats the point of doing that? It sounds kinda painful and there's not much point in doing it as far as I can tell.
I hope someone can shed some light on this for me.

I think boys like it because your ass is much, much tighter than your vagina. Tighter=more friction=happier boy. I don't really think it's about dominance and causing humiliation and pain, not for most guys. It's also (and I think this is the biggest reason) a way for guys to try to talk around a girl who's worried about getting pregnant or who wants to hang on to their virginity.

As for the point, it actually feels pretty good. Lube is essential and you have to go slow (and keep going slow the whole time), but having a guy in your ass while he's fingering you and rubbing your clit feels really good.

[ImJulia]

It is painful lol but I think there is a taboo with it that boys find hot

[Katie2003]

I use it as a form of birth control while also maintaining virginity vaginally. Mom forbids us to have vaginal intercourse until after age 18, but approves of the alternatives. I've only been doing it a couple of months, but my big sis who is 19 has been doing it for several years and totally loves it.

If you use lots of lubricant and go slowly, it can be very pleasurable for both you and your boyfriend. You can experiment with positions to see which one is the most comfortable for you.

[Dalcourt]

This isn't appropriate :locked: