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TheHood
July 25th, 2018, 08:30 AM
Alright, so theres this girl who i like, who also likes me back. Pretty simple right. But nothing ever really seems that simple for me... ive never really been in a relationship before so i have no clue whatsoever on what i have to do. So like do i ask her out on a date? What the heck do i even do on a date? How do i ask her on a date? Theres just too many things to do that i have no idea about. And thats just to start dating! If ithings actually get serious between us then whens the appropriate time to kiss? How does one kiss? Do i just all of the sudden unlock the ability to put my arm around her with out looking like a douchebag??? I just have no clue what to do... so if someone could hell me that'd be grand....
ska8er
July 25th, 2018, 10:19 AM
First chill-Ur rushing urself of thinking
what might b. Good that u like each other.
Ask her to go on a date and get comfortable
with urselves then take it easy. Let nature
take its course. When the time is right u
will know when to go in for the kiss or she
might get there before u. Don't rush the
relationship.
mick01
July 25th, 2018, 10:24 AM
Ya, Ska8er is right, slow down. During one of your next conversations just ask "Would you like to go out with me for (lunch, coffee, ice cream, a walk)." It seems like she will say yes. And then just enjoy the company and conversation between the 2 of you. Don't put so much pressure on you or the date that you don't enjoy it.
cinderfella
July 25th, 2018, 12:32 PM
I think the first rule of wanting a relationship is to slow down talk to the person and be yourself. If you try everything you might end up being over confident and being a douchebag by saying impulsive things that you haven't given much thought. I mean if she is already responding well to you keep doing what you are doing don't try something extra and be extra just sayin.
inactiveguy678
July 25th, 2018, 12:34 PM
I think this Coco Chanel quote is apt for this albeit with a little modification.
The original
"Before you leave the house, look in the mirror and take one thing off"
My Take
Before you leave the house to meet her, look yourself in the mirror and take one thing you think you want to say or do off your mind.
TheHood
July 25th, 2018, 05:22 PM
Thank you all, i was on the verge of having a panic attack when i wrote this last night before i went to sleep, and go wake up to all this really helps alot. Thank you.
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