Sexual Health

[derekchad69]

I don't know if this is allowed, but I think it is and doesn't fall under the not allowed on the rules.

How do I tell my parents I want something for my sexual health?
This includes things like Fleshlights and things like that.

Or, how could I get away with buying one without them knowing?

Thank you so much!!
:D -Der

[abcdeqwe]

First how old are u? Second, I don’t think those things count as necessary to your sexual health. Third, why do you wanna fleshlight if ur gay?
If you want one just order one online. If you don’t have your own card ask for your mom or dads card info, tell them your buying something but be vague, idk what you could say for things like that tho. if they ask about the charge just say, “I wanted one”. They can’t really argue with that, and actually might be best to be honest from the start. Okay.

[derekchad69]

First how old are u? Second, I don’t think those things count as necessary to your sexual health. Third, why do you wanna fleshlight if ur gay?
If you want one just order one online. If you don’t have your own card ask for your mom or dads card info, tell them your buying something but be vague, idk what you could say for things like that tho. if they ask about the charge just say, “I wanted one”. They can’t really argue with that, and actually might be best to be honest from the start. Okay.
16, and they make fleshlights for gay people. They tend to be an anal hole and not a vagina.

[abcdeqwe]

16, and they make fleshlights for gay people. They tend to be an anal hole and not a vagina.

Okay you seem old enough for those things. And really? I need get me one of those lol. Anyway, I hope my advice was helpful.

[the main man]

a few years ago i bought a prepaid card and bought a fleshlight and had it shipped to my house during christmas, bec no one opens packages during christmas. its the perfect solution but christmas is a long way away lol

[scott2002]

There are plenty of vids on the internet showing how to make a sex toy like a fleshlight using a rubber glove and a towel or socks or sponges, and then putting lots of lube into it.

[azurzg]

The title of this conversation is slightly misleading :)

[Hermes]

16, and they make fleshlights for gay people. They tend to be an anal hole and not a vagina.

I didn't know they were that specific. I thought it was just supposed to be more like fucking than your hand.

You can't really claim a toy like this is needed for your sexual health given so many people do manage with thief hand. So is just a toy, something whose only purpose is to have fun.

So without being able to spin this as necessary, you have a better idea than any of us how your parents would react and I am sure different parents would react differently. Some might be glad you're having some safe run, others might be horrified.

So the other option is to order it yourself. I am sure Amazon and eBay must have them. Legally a shop may insist you are a minimum age and though they may simply assume if you have a card to pay with you are old enough. I can't see any moral reason why an age restriction should apply - if you're old enough to enjoy cumming and one is available to fit then no reason why you should not be enjoying one if you want that.

So, if a pre pay card works then that's one way.

[cinderfella]

i don't these things are sexual health related item as they are more suited for sexual recreation enhancements. I don't think your parent will allow you to get them if these things don't get mentioned at all or sexual topic in general but I don't know if you guys are liberal with the sex talk. However, what I am sure is that they wont buy the idea that these are necessary for your sexual health.

Getting them online would be best but I think if you aren't old enough your payment method might prevent you from paying for these items (not sure if they consider you age when paying for them.

[ska8er]

Only u know ur parents if they r open
minded with things concerning sex in
order to discuss anything like this. I
would not ask them if u can have a
fleshight and I wouldnt go on the
theory of it being for sexual health.
They would want to know what is
wrong. If u want something like this
order it online and get it sent to a
friends house.

[Nnoki]

This could take a whole turn when talking about actual help
For example (my case) how to tell your parents you need a circumcision?

[Zachary G]

a few years ago i bought a prepaid card and bought a fleshlight and had it shipped to my house during christmas, bec no one opens packages during christmas. its the perfect solution but christmas is a long way away lol

a prepaid card might be the best way for you to go about ordering what you want. You get to use your own money and dont have to go through your parents for it. You just have to figure out where youd have it delivered.

[Sailor Mars]

This is not puberty related and asking for advice or tips is not allowed :locked: