Can't cum during BJ

[SpicyCurryyy]

Hey I'm back. IDK if you guys remember me but I used to write those threads on how to move bases with my girl a few months ago. We've come a longggg way and now she's giving me blowjobs. She's given me two this summer. The problem is I can't cum. The first one she gave she was inexperienced. I told her I was aboutta go and she kinda stopped and didn't know how to respond so we just kept making out. She gave me one tonight on a park bench which felt great but I didn't cum. She told me she'd swallow which I found SO hot and was ready to BLAST but like only after I warned her ofc. I felt myself getting up there but I never ended up cumming. I kinda stood up and kissed her and tried to bring myself up by jerking a lil STILL didn’t work. So like I was fine I told her I purposely didn’t cum cuz I didn’t wanna get all my jizz on her face (white lie it’s better for her in the long run cuz I don’t wanna hurt her feelings) if she had to go home right after which she thought was considerate but like help me out!! The blowjobs aren’t amazing she’s never been in a relationship so they’re all like really slow and very concentrated at the top instead of going deeper. I can also feel her a teeth a lil and so yeah I think maybe if they were harder and faster with maybe more hands and less teeth I’d cum quicker but I love that girl to DEATH and I’d never have the heart to tell her that her BJ’s aren’t great. SO basically how do I make myself cum during a less than satisfactory blowjob?

[INACTIVEchaosphere]

This thread'll probably get banned faster than you can say, "ejaculate," but whatevs. Without saying too much, you guys should just try different stuff until you find what works, and always be safe. It's a partnership you guys are in so you have to find your comfort zone, one of you isn't more important that the other.

[cinderfella]

Maybe you are just self conscious and considerate coz you said you didn't want to jizz on her face. But if a BJ is super good I find myself letting the dragon loose to spray its fire for lack of a better term.

[Gvanni]

if you watch a lot of porn it could be that your too used to cumming just from porn, pretty much your brain needs that stimulation in order to climax. if you masturbate a lot it could be you trained your body to orgasm in only one way like sitting down or laying down, however you typically do it. it could also be a factor of relaxation, if you are too worried about climaxing you may scare your brain into not doing it.

[Dalcourt]

This isn't puberty related :locked: