Need advice on my situation.

[HarryR02]

Hello. I'm very new to this site. I have a situation that I want people to try and help me out with.
So I knew this girl around 2011-2012 (same age as me, we're both currently 16) and we always hung out with each other. We didn't go to school together but usually every weekend I'd go over to her house and go swimming. But around 2 years ago there was an incident at my school (not involving her) and her parents wouldn't let her hang out with me anymore. We'd see each other once or twice, but never for too long at my house. Until yesterday we had a baby shower for my sister and she was there. We started talking and something just really clicked with us again and we just loved talking with each other. We talked about types of different stuff and we really felt a connection. But after she told me she had a girlfriend, something different came over me. It wasn't anything like rage or anger, it just was something happy honestly. But I had wanted to go out with her for so long that I kind of felt jealous in a way. We would keep talking and I would bring up slight hints to her I loved her, until in our garage I told her that I thought she was very beautiful (she has some big insecurities) and she just wouldn't believe me until I looked her in the eyes as I told her that again. She sadly had to leave shortly afterwards, but she gave me her Facebook and we've been talking nonstop for a few hours now. I felt this thing come over me and I confessed to her that I really loved her and for some reason asked that if her and her boyfriend would to ever break up, if she would consider going out with me and she said yes! I felt extremely happy and she thought it was so sweet that I was telling her this. And she felt sad telling me she had a boyfriend and couldn't go out with me.
The thing is that she seems to be unhappy with her boyfriend and told her that he rarely makes her laugh (where as I was making her laugh all the time while we were talking), that she was extremely happy seeing me again and would love to hang out all the time with me (she said she only sees her boyfriend once a week and doesn't like it much anymore). I don't know if I should keep trying to get her to be with me, or just see if they break up. I really do want her to be happy with him, but I also really want to be her boyfriend. I just really need some advice right now as it's very confusing what I really should do.
I really appreciate any advice sent my way and thanks in advance.
-Harry

[mick01]

I don't think you should force a breakup. The best thing to do, I think, is to keep the friendship and talking going. Seems to me at some point she may break up with the guy on her own and she won't resent you for trying to break them up. You want her to look at you as supportive and trustworthy.

[Semi_IronMan]

Please don’t be that guy! Let them do their thing. It’s not your place to say whether her boyfriend makes her happy or not, that’s her decision to make and frankly even you considering making them break up or hoping they do kinda makes u a bad friend. My advise would be to just let it go, if she has a boyfriend let that be, she’s off limits, don’t cling on to the hope that one day they’ll break up and she’ll come running to you, that’ll just make you very miserable. For now just accept that you guys are friends and that’s all your gonna be, if this changes later on great! If not, it was just not meant to be. Good luck though I hope you take my advice.

[ska8er]

Don't meddle with their relationship.
If by chance they do break up then
u can ask her to b with u.