when did you lose your virginity?

[centreoftheuniverse]

at what age did you lose your virginity?
if not, have you plans to do so at a certain time?

(i haven't even had a serious boyfriend yet, so just asking out of curiosity)

[Katie2003]

Mom strictly forbids vaginal intercourse with boys until we are older than age 18, so I haven't gone that far yet with a boy. I've been having sex with other girls (7 in total) since about age 13 on a pretty regular basis and we do everything imaginable together.

I've given my boyfriend several BJ's and allowed him to do anal intercourse with me several times, all within the past month so my first actual sex acts like that were at age 15. I don't have a definite time for doing vaginal intercourse with a boy, but I'm sure it will be after age 18.

[Beccabear]

I never lost mine, I know right where it is, lol
I guess I don’t have a scheduled time frame, just when it happens, it happens

[centreoftheuniverse]

Mom strictly forbids vaginal intercourse with boys until we are older than age 18, so I haven't gone that far yet with a boy. I've been having sex with other girls (7 in total) since about age 13 on a pretty regular basis and we do everything imaginable together.

I've given my boyfriend several BJ's and allowed him to do anal intercourse with me several times, all within the past month so my first actual sex acts like that were at age 15. I don't have a definite time for doing vaginal intercourse with a boy, but I'm sure it will be after age 18.

with the girls - is this because you're bi, or was like a best friends thing???

[Katie2003]

with the girls - is this because you're bi, or was like a best friends thing???

I am totally bi, and actually prefer girls over boys. A couple of them were good friends that I ended up dating or making out with. The rest were girls I met at school, who were older than me. I totally got my sex education from my big sis, and she's included in that number. And I have only ever dated the one boy.

[Birds18]

I am totally bi, and actually prefer girls over boys. A couple of them were good friends that I ended up dating or making out with. The rest were girls I met at school, who were older than me. I totally got my sex education from my big sis, and she's included in that number. And I have only ever dated the one boy.

So your mom won't let you use birth control ?

[MagicGinnySurprise]

I lost mine at 10, and I planned to lose it lol.

[MagicGinnySurprise]

10?? How old was the guy? Didn’t that hurt?

He was 12 and no, it didn't hurt at all.

[Katie2003]

So your mom won't let you use birth control ?

Not currently. She will allow me to get the monthly BC shots if after age 18 I become sexually active in ways that could get me pregnant. But she's totally opposed to the BC pills because too many people have bad reactions and side effects from them, which don't happen with the shots.

[centreoftheuniverse]

I lost mine at 10, and I planned to lose it lol.

jesus TEN??? i barely started to like boys at ten :eek:

[Lucy G]

I never lost mine, I know right where it is, lol
I guess I don’t have a scheduled time frame, just when it happens, it happens

Ditto here. I'm not planning to rush into anything either with boys or girls

[MagicGinnySurprise]

jesus TEN??? i barely started to like boys at ten :eek:

Well, I started my period when I was barely 9, so I was early with a lot of things

[Ashley2004]

Last year at 13

[ClaireHofmann]

I started having sex with other girls when I was 11 (almost 12). Lost my virginity to a boy when I was 13.

[ChloeF]

Just before l turned 13.

[ImJulia]

Not yet but that might change this weekend

[Katrinchen]

Not yet but that might change this weekend

so i wish you an happy and exciting weekend :wub:

[ImJulia]

so i wish you an happy and exciting weekend :wub:

Thanks babes I think it will happen tonight :)

[ClaireHofmann]

Not yet but that might change this weekend
That's awesome. Losing your virginity is one of the most special moments you will experience in your life. Hope you have an amazing first time.

[psychologywizard]

I lost it when I was 16, but we didn't finish because it was so so painful for me :(

[Katie2003]

I lost it when I was 16, but we didn't finish because it was so so painful for me :(

I'm sad to hear that, the first time should be a nice memory not a bad one.

(((((((((((HUGS))))))))))

[ImJulia]

That's awesome. Losing your virginity is one of the most special moments you will experience in your life. Hope you have an amazing first time.

Aw thanks bby

[ClaireHofmann]

Aw thanks bby
No problem. Feel free to message me if you want any advice.

[LucyCee]

Havn't lost it yet.

[emily_1109]

Still have mine!

[MajaVanessa]

Thanks babes I think it will happen tonight :)

Sounds amazing. I hope you had a wonderful weekend and enjoyed this very special moment!

I lost mine shortly after I turned 12. But had done stuff with boys before and gone all they way with girls.

[cutboys]

i am virgin

[ImJulia]

Sounds amazing. I hope you had a wonderful weekend and enjoyed this very special moment!

I lost mine shortly after I turned 12. But had done stuff with boys before and gone all they way with girls.

He actually asked if we could try anal so I let him do that. It was interesting.

[MajaVanessa]

He actually asked if we could try anal so I let him do that. It was interesting.

So you lost your anal virginity too? :eek:
How was it? Hope it didn't hurt as much as my first time anal...

[ImJulia]

So you lost your anal virginity too? :eek:
How was it? Hope it didn't hurt as much as my first time anal...

We still have not done vaginal. It did hurt haha. But I may try it again

[MagicGinnySurprise]

We still have not done vaginal. It did hurt haha. But I may try it again

It gets better. It hurt a little when I did it first too, but now I really enjoy it.

[gurquenjen]

We still have not done vaginal. It did hurt haha. But I may try it again

More lube always helps...and it is worth trying again, imo. Hope you get to do vaginal, soon, too...

I was 11 when I had sex with a girl for the first time, and 15 when I had sex with a boy.

[ImJulia]

Thanks for the advice:kiss:

[Louisa]

Haven't lost virginity yet.

[Claire Asteroid]

Not yet, I will wait until I am married

[LITTLEANGEL19]

Not lost mine:yes:

[Jordan99]

Wow, after reading about girls losing their virginity at 10, 12 and 13 I feel like I was a late starter. My BF and I did just about everything EXCEPT vaginal intercourse when I was 15 and he was 17. We had vaginal intercourse when I turned 16 and he was 18. As for anal, it was a bit uncomfortable the first couple of times but I've grown to really love it. You just have to use A LOT of lube and the guy has to be patient and slow upon entry but once everything is relaxed he can really go at it and it's fun and feel so good.

[yeehaw]

This is not puberty related. :locked: