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Cjmccjface
July 16th, 2018, 07:40 PM
I've recently posted to this Subform about the best dating app that could be used for looking for relationships and hookups. And Tinder seemed was a popular choice , along with someone using Twitter:confused:. So I downloaded Tinder with the intent of looking for Hookups. The first thing and the most Unique thing that I Noticed about Tinder is the community was very large compared to OKcupid (the previous dating app I was using). I had the usual feeling thinking about how many girls I could hook up with using Tinder, And I was impressed. But In a lesser sense, I was scrummed by this thought of dominance compared to other apps due to the Tinder phenomenon. The fear of rejection is more real on Tinder because of this philosophy. Anyways I was quite happy with the results that I was getting. There were Quite a few girls on there that I was interested in within the first day of using the app. Tinder only allows you to "Super Like" Five profiles a day, so i booked-marked the Profiles and stowed them into my Notes on my phone. In the first Two days of using the app I have booked-marked 15 girls, it's a success so far. but I've get to Hookup with any one of these girls yet.

On the Third night of using this app is when my Ballpark changed. I came across the girl named Taylor (Not her real name). My first impression about Taylor is she was not quite Attractive compared to other girls, but I found her to be Attractive. But the point that really sold me is when she mentioned that she was into Hockey and she was trying to obtain a pilots license. Hockey is a sport that I have always loved watching sense I was a little kid, she is even a fan of the same them as me. And Aircraft is also something has adored me sense childhood. Being in the cockpit is my calling, And i want to achieve it. So i've heard about a majority of people talking about how online dating sucks, and they are right. But i'm going to try to put this on the back-burner here, I'm going to Dm her sometime tonight or Tomorrow. I really do feel like this is a good opportunity. I'm absolutely willing to invest in this.

P.S Please offer any ANY advice you have!

Croconaw
July 16th, 2018, 08:12 PM
I love hockey also. It’s great to see another hockey fan! I’m glad you are finding progress on Tinder! I prefer that to Okcupid. Most of the girls on that site are just shallow and are only looking for sex. Be careful though, as there are always risks when seeking relationships online; that is coming from someone that greatly prefers to meet people online. People can be super manipulative online and can say anything they want just to get sex. Don’t let that stop you from looking though. There are always nice people online that do want something real. Good luck.

Cjmccjface
July 16th, 2018, 08:25 PM
I love hockey also. It’s great to see another hockey fan! I’m glad you are finding progress on Tinder! I prefer that to Okcupid. Most of the girls on that site are just shallow and are only looking for sex. Be careful though, as there are always risks when seeking relationships online; that is coming from someone that greatly prefers to meet people online. People can be super manipulative online and can say anything they want just to get sex. Don’t let that stop you from looking though. There are always nice people online that do want something real. Good luck.

It appears that she deleted her Tinder, i'm hoping this is just because she isn't finding the results that she is looking for. I have her insta, so i decided that will DM her tonight after dinner. it's just not worth waiting over. Iv'e learned that in a previous encounter with a girl at my school. More time you waste is time that you can never get back. If we are able to get a ball rolling I will celebrate tonight, if she is going to reject me for any reason I will cry tonight, At least I fucking tried. Iv'e waited a long time for an opportunity like this.

Croconaw
July 16th, 2018, 08:31 PM
If you didn’t do anything to upset her or aggravate her, I wouldn’t see any reason she would delete her tinder. Hopefully it wasn’t to avoid hurting your feelings. I have been there before. I have had my fair share of shitty relationships, but I have learned from them. That is good that you are messaging her tonight. If you have her Instagram, that is probably a good sign. She wouldn’t just give out her social media to anyone. Whatever happens tonight, at least you will have closure. Be proud you had the courage to message her tonight. There are plenty of girls if this one doesn’t work out.

Cjmccjface
July 16th, 2018, 09:46 PM
If you didn’t do anything to upset her or aggravate her, I wouldn’t see any reason she would delete her tinder. Hopefully it wasn’t to avoid hurting your feelings. I have been there before. I have had my fair share of shitty relationships, but I have learned from them. That is good that you are messaging her tonight. If you have her Instagram, that is probably a good sign. She wouldn’t just give out her social media to anyone. Whatever happens tonight, at least you will have closure. Be proud you had the courage to message her tonight. There are plenty of girls if this one doesn’t work out.

Ok i messaged her now, just waiting for a response 😟

Dalcourt
July 16th, 2018, 09:49 PM
This place is for asking advice and not storytelling about dates.
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