Never had a male friend

[Kofuku Ebisu]

I have 13 years and i never had close male friend. All my close friends are girls and i'm straight. I have only few male friends and i want to have male friend but idk what to do? Anybody help?:what:

[chetbonare]

There are many benefits to having bros you can hang around, have fun with, and chat with on topics you may be curious about.

The best thing to do is find a guy, talk to him, and find out his interests and see if you relate with him on any of them. Sports? Ask him. Video games? Ask him. Working out? TV shows? Just find interests and from there communication will be key to building a great broship connection.

[jamie_n5]

You need to go out and introduce yourself to guys. Try to get involved in groups. I don't know if your into sports but that's a great way to make guy friends. Also maybe school choir or band or plays. There are many ways to make friends just don't be shy and get out there and try.

[Jake445]

My best friend is a girl as well but I also have other male friends. If you want you closest friend to be one of the boys you know you should try to engage more with them. Do more, talk more, write more etc. Often a friendship grows from that!

[Max the Disenchanter]

Play sports?

[ShineintheDark]

It can be hard to engage with guys your age if you don;t share interests, most of us have been there. Just try and find any common interest (TV shows, sports, films etc) at all and use that to try and become more friendly with guys until at least one becomes a close friend.

[Kofuku Ebisu]

It can be hard to engage with guys your age if you don;t share interests, most of us have been there. Just try and find any common interest (TV shows, sports, films etc) at all and use that to try and become more friendly with guys until at least one becomes a close friend.

Problem is that guys don't like mee :/

[ShineintheDark]

Problem is that guys don't like mee :/

Try and identify what guys don't seem to like about you and change it in a way that makes you feel happy and yourself yet more open to guy friends

[Dalcourt]

Puberty for Boys :arrow: Family and Friends
this fits better here

[cinderfella]

I don't think you should pressure yourself. In the year 2018 having guys friends does not automatically = gay. Anyway just be yourself. If you don't like sports or other traditionally masculine stuff don't force it. Its just going to bite you in the ass in the end.

[ska8er]

Problem is that guys don't like mee :/

Why do u think that guys don't like u? :what:

[Croconaw]

Try and identify what guys don't seem to like about you and change it in a way that makes you feel happy and yourself yet more open to guy friends
No. Definitely do not change who you are. If your friends do not like you for you, they are not worth it. Only change yourself if you are unhappy with yourself; do not change because you want people to like you.

The problem is your self-confidence. If you believe guys do not like you, they do not. If you believe they do, you would have nothing to worry about. You have to learn to be more confident and open yourself up to friendships with guys. It seems like you are more confident around girls. Try to take that same confidence and use it to form friendships with guys!