Girlfriend?

[Slenders Swagger]

There is this girl I like, she is 13 like me and in the same grade (7th).
She is very pretty, but I like her because she has a nice sense of humor. But. . . She has a boyfriend, and he is in the 9th grade! I really like her! On Facebook she tells me to message her a lot but when I asked her if she liked me she said "No sorry, lol."

Do you guys thinks she likes me? Or how can I get her to like me?

[ScottishCanary]

I think you might have to give this one a miss for now bud. If she already has someone and has told you she doesn't like you in that way then she's made her feelings clear. Just be there for her as a friend for now as you are fighting a losing battle here I'm sorry to say.

[tundravortex]

There is this girl I like, she is 13 like me and in the same grade (7th).
She is very pretty, but I like her because she has a nice sense of humor. But. . . She has a boyfriend, and he is in the 9th grade! I really like her! On Facebook she tells me to message her a lot but when I asked her if she liked me she said "No sorry, lol."

Do you guys thinks she likes me? Or how can I get her to like me?

skip her for now...find another one

[Slenders Swagger]

I think you might have to give this one a miss for now bud. If she already has someone and has told you she doesn't like you in that way then she's made her feelings clear. Just be there for her as a friend for now as you are fighting a losing battle here I'm sorry to say.


Okay well thanks anyways! Most middle-school relationships don't last anyways!

[Harley Quinn]

P101 :arrow: Relationships and Dating

[ScottishCanary]

Okay well thanks anyways! Most middle-school relationships don't last anyways!

Yup, sorry to be the bearer of bad news but that's the truth. You will win her respect me by respecting her current relationship than by pestering her.

[LuckyEddy]

Call her cute. Girls love the validation

Don't bring up her boyfriend at all. If you day something good about him she will be reminded of him and if you say something bad, she will be insulted.

Compliment her. Seriously, teenage girls' entire ego is wrapped around their looks and almost all of them are worried about being ugly. Compliments aren't seen negatively either.

Try to kiss her. Get her alone in a place where you have a little privacy, or a nice romantic spot and dive in. You literally have nothing to lose.

Remember there are other women in the sea

If you have nothing to say, just say anything in your mind

If you have nothinig to say, bring up something she said to you before OR tell her your really nervous because she is so cute.

Good luck young padawan.

[PinkFloyd]

Since she is with someone, it's a no. And to be honest, if she DID say she likes you even though she's with another guy, you wouldn't be sure of her being loyal to you. If she cheated on someone to be with you, why wouldn't she cheat on you to be with someone else?

[Plasma]

There is this girl I like, she is 13 like me and in the same grade (7th).
She is very pretty, but I like her because she has a nice sense of humor. But. . . She has a boyfriend, and he is in the 9th grade! I really like her! On Facebook she tells me to message her a lot but when I asked her if she liked me she said "No sorry, lol."

Do you guys thinks she likes me? Or how can I get her to like me?

She did tell you that she didn't...

[Slenders Swagger]

Since she is with someone, it's a no. And to be honest, if she DID say she likes you even though she's with another guy, you wouldn't be sure of her being loyal to you. If she cheated on someone to be with you, why wouldn't she cheat on you to be with someone else?
She didn't say she liked me but I see your point.

[Slenders Swagger]

She did tell you that she didn't...

Yeah but she is always asking me to message her. . .

[Stephane17]

If you like a girl and she is already in a relationship, your better off not trying unless she has a conflict with the other individual..
As for her asking you to talk to her , i would say 90% of the chance its cause she is a friend :) :lol::lol:

[Slenders Swagger]

If you like a girl and she is already in a relationship, your better off not trying unless she has a conflict with the other individual..
As for her asking you to talk to her , i would say 90% of the chance its cause she is a friend :) :lol::lol:

Well I sit next to her in class (I was so happy when I had to switch seats because I got to sit by her!) so that might be a good time to ask. . .

[Stephane17]

You can try asking her ( Not Advising you):eek::eek: Because She Might Get Upset With You , Just Watch Yourself Bud :)

[Slenders Swagger]

Okay! :P

[anyone50]

Just because she thrives on attention which is the reason she wants you to text her doesn't mean she likes you. My advise is to forget this one and concentrate on a girl who will appreciate you for who you are and not as a pawn

[Karkat]

I think you might have to give this one a miss for now bud. If she already has someone and has told you she doesn't like you in that way then she's made her feelings clear. Just be there for her as a friend for now as you are fighting a losing battle here I'm sorry to say.

Agree with SC here.

Call her cute. Girls love the validation

Don't bring up her boyfriend at all. If you day something good about him she will be reminded of him and if you say something bad, she will be insulted.

Compliment her. Seriously, teenage girls' entire ego is wrapped around their looks and almost all of them are worried about being ugly. Compliments aren't seen negatively either.

Try to kiss her. Get her alone in a place where you have a little privacy, or a nice romantic spot and dive in. You literally have nothing to lose.

Remember there are other women in the sea

If you have nothing to say, just say anything in your mind

If you have nothinig to say, bring up something she said to you before OR tell her your really nervous because she is so cute.

Good luck young padawan.

I would actually advise against this. It's dishonest to try to break up a relationship like that (and kind of sleazy) aside from the fact that...(See next quote)

Since she is with someone, it's a no. And to be honest, if she DID say she likes you even though she's with another guy, you wouldn't be sure of her being loyal to you. If she cheated on someone to be with you, why wouldn't she cheat on you to be with someone else?

This. Exactly this. Thank you.

Yeah but she is always asking me to message her. . .

She might just really like you as a friend. :)

Just because she thrives on attention which is the reason she wants you to text her doesn't mean she likes you. My advise is to forget this one and concentrate on a girl who will appreciate you for who you are and not as a pawn

Er, that's a little sexist to be honest. What's so wrong with someone liking someone of the opposite gender as a friend? I wouldn't say that she "thrives on attention", none of us hardly know anything about the girl, aside from the fact that she's taken, doesn't like OP romantically/etc., and he likes her. And they talk a lot. Sounds more like a friend than a player- she would probably flirt with him if she was like that...

There's nothing wrong with having a friend of the opposite sex. But aside from that, I'd say definitely pursue someone else. Going after someone who is in a relationship is difficult and usually just a heartbreaking waste of time and effort.

[Dwemer]

I would just let it go for now and stay friends. Look for another girl she isnt the only one or the best one for u, of that I am sure :)

If u do that perhaps someday she might start liking u , but dont hope for it, it must be spontanious.