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Tony X
March 12th, 2014, 06:57 PM
Hey guys, i just came here to get a little advice.
i'm 16 years old and i have never hooked up with a girl before (i'm closted bi) and i really want to!!! i havnt really tried at school because im sort of socially awkward and not the coolest guy but i can say im good looking and not really ugly. anyway.

i'm spending 3 weeks in NYC to go to a summer school but im not staying in campus. im basically living by myself the streets of NY. my goal is to meet a girl somewhere in a way or another and hook up, have sex, etc.

i have never done anything like this before and ive been thinking about meeting some1 from that school or meet someone at a coffee shop. im just not very good at opening to new people and eventually wanting to hang out.

any advice is amazing!!!

p.s. im not looking for a girl friend. just hook up. :)

WeAreOneRepublic
March 13th, 2014, 09:18 AM
Hey man,

So my best bet for you, get comfortable going up to random girls and in public and just like a basic hi, how are you or something generic to get your confidence up talking to them.

Next just get out! Go places, parties, coffee shops, night clubs or bars(underage may be a problem) or with the people from the other schools just talk during class or break. Pickup lines do not generally work( I said generally not ever). Try some basics, the where are you from one can work because you can say you are from the same place they are and if they question it you can just bet them if you are then they have to give their number( got to be playful mate). Really just the basics and generics can help start you moving. Applies to the places mentioned before.

Once you got their number if they are interested just send a text or so and get talking and then ask if they want to come over to your place, they say yes, you are in, if they ask why(unlikely) just say a movie or something, you don't want to say hookup because they sound like an object. Similar minus texting if you are out at night(except you can start the hooking up while still there)

Good luck

Dwemer
March 13th, 2014, 10:13 AM
I wouldnt recommend u to actively search to have sex. Just go out there, talk to people get to know them. Its most enjoyable if u dont plan or look for it but let it get to u. Goodluck on your adventure :)