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Curiousguy97
July 4th, 2018, 11:21 PM
Im usually in shorts with no shirt or in only boxers around the house. Sometimes the neighbors kids ring the doorbell and ive never been sure whether I should put shorts or a shirt on. I was just wondering if it was ok to answer the door either in only gym shorts or in only boxers since even though theyre younger than me, they always walk away from the door before I have time to get dressed and Ive seen them dressed the same exact way playing around the neighborhood
INACTIVEchaosphere
July 5th, 2018, 12:08 AM
I'm not sure about boxers or underwear, that's kind of societally understood to be below the minimum level of clothing for interacting with most people. Gym shorts are perfectly respectable I think though. It's your house, you can dress how you want, just keep their comfortability in mind as well when you must greet them.
hayley2003
July 5th, 2018, 01:33 AM
hi, can't someone else answer the door if you're not properly dressed to greet people?
if some little kid thinks you're exposing yourself, you can bet the police will be soon be asking why you're answering the door and exposing yourself to little kids. what's the judge gunna believe when some cute little kid that says you exposed yourself and you're telling the judge "i was just standing there in my underwear"?
BTW.... when i've had sleepover at friends house, it never been a big deal with my friends brother's walked around in their underwear in the moring, but it was kinda weird when their dad's did, especially if he was the flirty type.
bunnyhabit
July 5th, 2018, 01:50 AM
shorts and T Top my mostly appearance
Silicate Wielder
July 5th, 2018, 02:11 AM
Im usually in shorts with no shirt or in only boxers around the house. Sometimes the neighbors kids ring the doorbell and ive never been sure whether I should put shorts or a shirt on. I was just wondering if it was ok to answer the door either in only gym shorts or in only boxers since even though theyre younger than me, they always walk away from the door before I have time to get dressed and Ive seen them dressed the same exact way playing around the neighborhood
gym shorts should be fine, though boxers are iffy; I personally wouldn't answer the door in boxers.
rioo
July 5th, 2018, 08:03 AM
I live near catholic neighboorhood so dress properly for visiting but alright to go shirtless outside near house.
Zachary G
July 5th, 2018, 08:15 AM
being nudist, I always put something on (shorts or sweat pants) when I answer the door because its just proper.
Katie2003
July 5th, 2018, 08:23 AM
I don't see anything wrong with doing it in underwear that covers what needs to be covered if you know the people. With strangers, probably the gym shorts are a better plan. My family are nudists and rarely wear anything in the house but we do keep something near the front door to put on quickly in case anyone comes. If I know the person, I'm fine opening the door in panties and a sports bra or t shirt.
Pultost
July 5th, 2018, 08:51 AM
Shirtless is alright, but I would appreciate if the person opening the door wore something more than their boxer shorts. It's kinda "distracting". xD
Jake Milton
July 5th, 2018, 08:55 AM
Sometimes in underwear or shirtless
ska8er
July 5th, 2018, 09:16 AM
I live near catholic neighboorhood so dress properly for visiting but alright to go shirtless outside near house.
I agree with u to dress properly for visiting
but living in a Catholic neighborhood has
nothing to do bout it. :cool:
:usflag:
Bikini Boy
July 5th, 2018, 11:18 AM
Now that it's summer, I usually wear a Speedo around the house because I spend a lot of time in the pool. If not a Speedo, then I'm usually in a pair of briefs with no shirt inside the house. I keep a pair of shorts handy in case someone comes to the door and I have to answer it.
MasonBA
July 6th, 2018, 10:09 AM
If I know it's one of my friends I'll answer the door in my briefs, otherwise I put shorts on or let someone else answer the door
JuliaVT
July 6th, 2018, 10:28 AM
I'm always at least minimally dressed when I answer the door, unless I know who it is and no one else is home (which is rare).
denzel
July 6th, 2018, 10:51 AM
i dont think opening the door in just boxers for kids is ok
Bakingboy03
July 6th, 2018, 10:59 AM
I feel like the kids might tell their parents..
Katie2003
July 6th, 2018, 11:10 AM
I feel like the kids might tell their parents..
Some of them probably would, and I'd be concerned about that if I were a boy. But I think most kids would be pretty casual about it if you already knew them and not even think there was anything wrong with it. Kids up to about 10 or 12 run around my neighborhood in their underwear, even play in the yard like that and I used to as well.
Bakingboy03
July 6th, 2018, 11:13 AM
Oh really? I live in a neighbourhood with mostly elderly so I am not used to that lol!
Cangirl
July 6th, 2018, 11:16 AM
hi, can't someone else answer the door if you're not properly dressed to greet people?
if some little kid thinks you're exposing yourself, you can bet the police will be soon be asking why you're answering the door and exposing yourself to little kids. what's the judge gunna believe when some cute little kid that says you exposed yourself and you're telling the judge "i was just standing there in my underwear"?
BTW.... when i've had sleepover at friends house, it never been a big deal with my friends brother's walked around in their underwear in the moring, but it was kinda weird when their dad's did, especially if he was the flirty type.
I agree about somebody else answering the door if you're in something lose where things might accidentally open up or fall out.
and yep it is awkward when a friends dad shows up in his underwear for breakfast lol
Katie2003
July 6th, 2018, 11:18 AM
We're in a small basically rural town, kinda on the edge of town and families around here have always been pretty casual with their kids about stuff like that. Nearly all the kids skinny dip in backyard pools and a bunch of them play outside in their underwear particularly in the evenings after dinner or in the early morning when they first go outside.
So around here, it wouldn't bother anyone but I totally understand that in other places people are more conservative about stuff like that.
JuliaVT
July 6th, 2018, 11:31 AM
We're in a small basically rural town, kinda on the edge of town and families around here have always been pretty casual with their kids about stuff like that. Nearly all the kids skinny dip in backyard pools and a bunch of them play outside in their underwear particularly in the evenings after dinner or in the early morning when they first go outside.
So around here, it wouldn't bother anyone but I totally understand that in other places people are more conservative about stuff like that.
Sounds like a great place to be a kid!
Triple k
July 6th, 2018, 03:12 PM
BTW.... when i've had sleepover at friends house, it never been a big deal with my friends brother's walked around in their underwear in the moring, but it was kinda weird when their dad's did, especially if he was the flirty type.
LOL, I've been there too. Seeing your bf's Dad in his tighty whities isn't the best way to start the day.
hayley2003
July 6th, 2018, 07:21 PM
LOL, I've been there too. Seeing your bf's Dad in his tighty whities isn't the best way to start the day.
i didn't think it was a big deal when it happened, but it was kinda weird. when mom found out, she didn't want me going over there anymore.
it was at least two years ago, i don't think she had anymore sleepovers after that. i kinda think she knew that nobody would come.
....becareful of divorced dads that don't have a gf. they can flirt a lot even with all their clothes on....lol :P
MagicGinnySurprise
July 6th, 2018, 08:59 PM
We're in a small basically rural town, kinda on the edge of town and families around here have always been pretty casual with their kids about stuff like that. Nearly all the kids skinny dip in backyard pools and a bunch of them play outside in their underwear particularly in the evenings after dinner or in the early morning when they first go outside.
So around here, it wouldn't bother anyone but I totally understand that in other places people are more conservative about stuff like that.
I wish my small rural town was like that. I can skinny dip in my pool, cause I live at the end of a long driveway off a private road, but go around other people's houses on my undies? I get nasty looks when I go into the grocery store without a bra
Triple k
July 6th, 2018, 10:06 PM
i didn't think it was a big deal when it happened, but it was kinda weird. when mom found out, she didn't want me going over there anymore.
it was at least two years ago, i don't think she had anymore sleepovers after that. i kinda think she knew that nobody would come.
....becareful of divorced dads that don't have a gf. they can flirt a lot even with all their clothes on....lol :P
My friends Dad wasn't flirting with me at all it's just the way he is. He covers up right away once he realizes I'm around.
Jordan99
July 7th, 2018, 01:12 AM
Depending on who's at the door, sometimes I'm totally ok with answering the door in panties and a long t-shirt. My older brother usually has on shorts and sometimes a t-shirt or tank top if he answers the door. It gets VERY hot in Phoenix so wearing as little as possible is a necessity so long as we're properly covered. Neither of my parents ever answer the door in their underwear. If my parents have their friends over, all of us kids are properly dressed to receive them and if we kids and the parents and visitors are going into the pool, our choices in swimwear is more modest out of respect to our parents and teir friends.
Katie2003
July 7th, 2018, 07:50 AM
I wish my small rural town was like that. I can skinny dip in my pool, cause I live at the end of a long driveway off a private road, but go around other people's houses on my undies? I get nasty looks when I go into the grocery store without a bra
The kids I'm talking about who play in their underwear are all under about age 12, but it's still common for older teens to skinny dip. There isn't a lot of traffic on our road either, while it's not a private road the only people who ever drive here are ones who live here as it's a dead end a block or so further down.
MagicGinnySurprise
July 7th, 2018, 10:11 PM
The kids I'm talking about who play in their underwear are all under about age 12, but it's still common for older teens to skinny dip. There isn't a lot of traffic on our road either, while it's not a private road the only people who ever drive here are ones who live here as it's a dead end a block or so further down.
What part of the country are you in? I want to move there lol. About the only people who could get away with playing around like that here are the ones still in diapers.
Katie2003
July 7th, 2018, 10:14 PM
In the midwest central region. We joke about it being in the middle of nowhere because the closest cities having more than a few thousand people living in them are more than an hour away from here.
MagicGinnySurprise
July 7th, 2018, 10:40 PM
In the midwest central region. We joke about it being in the middle of nowhere because the closest cities having more than a few thousand people living in them are more than an hour away from here.
I still want to move there. Sounds like people there aren't uptight sex Nazis lol
Katie2003
July 7th, 2018, 10:45 PM
I still want to move there. Sounds like people there aren't uptight sex Nazis lol
Oh, there are probably some people like that everywhere you go, and I've never lived anywhere else to compare it to. But my family are nudists and I'm sure by now everyone in town knows that about us, and no one says anything so they must mostly be OK with it. This evening my younger sis (11) is having 4 of her girlfriends here for a sleepover and for the past several hours all of them have been naked in the house and the back yard with their parents approval.
MagicGinnySurprise
July 7th, 2018, 10:53 PM
Oh, there are probably some people like that everywhere you go, and I've never lived anywhere else to compare it to. But my family are nudists and I'm sure by now everyone in town knows that about us, and no one says anything so they must mostly be OK with it. This evening my younger sis (11) is having 4 of her girlfriends here for a sleepover and for the past several hours all of them have been naked in the house and the back yard with their parents approval.
Lol sounds like my friends and me. I can get away with it at home like I said, but only because our house backs up to a mountain and our nearest neighbors are like 3/4 mile away. If there were a family in town that were known as nudists, they'd get treated like the haunted house...kids, cross the street to pass...
Curiousguy97
July 7th, 2018, 11:37 PM
Usually no one else is home so im the only one who can answer the door. I usually hang out either naked or in boxers but I usually keep a pair of shorts nearby to go to the door. Ive seen them play outside with their shirts off so would it ve ok to go to the door in only gym shorts and no shirt? I know theyre fine with it but I just dont want them to say anything to their mom and get in trouble for answering the door shirtless
Mswimmer
July 8th, 2018, 10:51 AM
If you know the neighbors and the clothes cower the most important parts I see no problem
Mswimmer
July 8th, 2018, 10:52 AM
Topless is definitely not a problem in my country but I wouldn't know for you
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