Hate wanking,help me out please

[Dracarys]

Okay so I've been doing this since the past 3 years but every time I jerk off things never go my way like literally I'm so unlucky for the next 24 hours.Lately when I don't have school or when I have holidays I have nothing to do I stroke myself to a boner and I end up jerking off and I feel things will become right if I don't jerk off for a long time.
I know most of you will say I'm going through puberty and it's normal and I understand but I don't like it much I just end up getting depressed.
If someone can offer me some advice id be ever so greatful

[Aidoon123]

I think that's just you being paranoid :) Wanking does not lead to bad luck, or going blind! It's a completely normal things that about 98% of guys do, or will do throughout their lives. You could easily blame that bad luck on you brushing your teeth, don't worry about it man! :) Love the reference to 'Game of Thrones' in your name btw :)

[backjruton]

Can't be the right way to think of it. I actually use it as a method of calming myself down because I randomly get stressed out a lot and it's the quickest thing I have access to. In what ways do you think you're unlucky within the next 24 hours? It probably just seems that way. I probably won't be much help but for me at least masturbation is an extremely good thing :cool:

[TheLivingLie]

I've felt like that before, but what sort of stuff happens that make u unlucky???

[Slenders Swagger]

There are two ways to stop feeling how you feel, either stop doing it, or you could realize the fact that almost ALL boys and men do it. . . It's completely normal. :)

[tom17]

What you say doesn't have any sense, man. I think you're paranoid, try not to think about it after you jerk, keep doing things normally without thinking about bad things.

[Curious.kid]

There should not be a difference about masturbating or not. You probably feel guilty about it like many people do, so maybe that's what's keeping you depressed and feeling unlucky?

[GoWA_Vet]

no reason to feel abnormal :P it is a perfectly legitimate outlet of sexual stimulation

[Jstr]

step 1) delete everything that might spark arousal
porn/posters/feet etc
step 2) find a hobby that will keep you occupied
you cant jerk if you don't have time
step 3) realize that you are better off not jerking off then you were before

step 4) *optional* try to get in a relationship

step 5) repeat

as for the rest of you
to us jerking off might be a harmless pastime but to the op he feels he has badluck
take as much time as you need :)

[Stephane17]

When you Get a boner Release The Semen???
No that dint sound right??
What i mean to say was: Bad luck on what because you want to jerk , Im sure everyone loves to jerk , Its fun and relaxing in my eyes :lol::lol:

[Dracarys]

I swear finally one guy helps out.
Ik jerking seems good but I mean everything goes against me for the next 24 hours.For eg:I can't study,I play like shit when I play football,I feel depressed the whole day.i mean I jerked off now again and it's so ducking pissing off.At times I feel like chopping my dick off ._.

[casperathome]

I really think that your *guilt* is making you paranoid. Relax and enjoy the moment and the relief.

[jeans_kid]

We know that most guys jack off because it's one of the best pleasures a guy can ever experience. But how much pleasure we can get out of wanking depends on many things. I noticed that if I'm depressed or tired, I may get little or no pleasure out of it. So every time I jack off, I just tell myself to forget about everything else and just relax, because only then will I be able to experience the real pleasures of masturbation.

So don't give up masturbation. If you do it right, I'm sure you will be addicted to it like me :)

[HUSTLEMAN]

I really think that your *guilt* is making you paranoid. Relax and enjoy the moment and the relief.

I agree with this guy. You may be feeling guilty b/c of your masturbating and in turn your day goes to shit because of your guilt. Its kind of a psychological thing.

[Collins1]

Like everyone else is saying, theres nothing to say that wanking brings bad luck - your just paranoid.

[Fireangel]

Play sports, find a hobby. help your mom at home, keep your mind out of sex.

[Hermes]

The reason you have had so few responses for ways to avoid wanking isn't just because we all enjoy it so much we can't see why you would want to avoid it. There are no easy ways to supress you sex drive which is essentially what avoiding wanking would be doing. If you feel guilty about it that will probably fade with time. For most people wanking feels amazingly good, relieves stress and relieves horniness such that we can then concentrate on the other things in life when we have to.

[NeuroTiger]

Try to limit the guilt from masturbation and if you really want to pause on jerking off, try to find alternatives like watching movies, reading, doing a sport.

[openminded-sama]

I once felt the same when I used to jerk off every single day. Then I just lost the urge to do it that often and things appeared to go better but I'm sure it's all in my mind.

[Landbuscus97]

When it comes to performing and stuff like that it could be caused from the flux of hormones in your body after masturbation. It's known to increase testosterone a bit, so maybe it's this chemical imbalance that makes it hard for you to study

[From Chris]

Okay so I've been doing this since the past 3 years but every time I jerk off things never go my way like literally I'm so unlucky for the next 24 hours.Lately when I don't have school or when I have holidays I have nothing to do I stroke myself to a boner and I end up jerking off and I feel things will become right if I don't jerk off for a long time.
I know most of you will say I'm going through puberty and it's normal and I understand but I don't like it much I just end up getting depressed.
If someone can offer me some advice id be ever so greatful

I'm a bit confused as to what you're trying to say. From what i understand you are saying things such as your daily life actives don't go right if you jack off? As in like maybe it's a bad luck charm of some sort? If so i highly doubt that, if not that you would think it would be a good luck charm since it feels good to most people. If you don't want to jack off then don't! It's your choice completely. You don't have to, but if you want to then go ahead. :) I highly doubt your sexual activities effect your daily life in terms of things not going right. Hope this helps!

-Chris <3

[Bmble_B]

LOL from my perspective, saying that you hate wanking is like saying you hate breathing! XD But at the same time, if you don't like doing it then don't, its your body, you have the right to decide what you want to do with it.

[Lost in the Echo]

I think that's just you being paranoid :) Wanking does not lead to bad luck, or going blind! It's a completely normal things that about 98% of guys do, or will do throughout their lives. You could easily blame that bad luck on you brushing your teeth, don't worry about it man! :)

Yep, this. After jerking off, just go on with life as you usually do, and if you happen to have any bad luck, just forget about it and move on.
In time, you won't be so paranoid.

btw, I used to think Sundays were my bad luck days. So having paranoia over bizarre things is pretty normal. You just have to convince yourself it's only coincidence.

[rprsupercar]

I don't think it makes you unlucky. But I (my sole opinion) don't think it's right, so I gave it up.