I’ve never done anything

[JakeDunham]

So I’ve never gone out with a girl or a guy (I’m bi hi) and I’m 16 and it’s gotten to the point were I’m just like what am I doing wrong because it’s not like I’m getting rejected I just can’t even find a person. So does anyone have any recommendations on how to meet people and from there a relationship and not a friendship? (I’d prefer to date a girl at the moment btw but I’m open to both)

[rioo]

You can try to be friends with a girl, but you better do not look for many girls as a target because it will make you less cool. And try to find out from friends who have the same interests, hobby , art or sport something like that. It is fun. Girls love fun )

[Zachary G]

Are there any youth/social groups around the area that you could join and where you might be able to meet other people? I dont know much about the UK and where you live, but thats always a start.

[JakeDunham]

Are there any youth/social groups around the area that you could join and where you might be able to meet other people? I dont know much about the UK and where you live, but thats always a start.
There’s none really near me but I’m sure since it’s the summer I’d be allowed to travel a bit further out to find some.

[Tim the Enchanter]

So I’ve never gone out with a girl or a guy (I’m bi hi) and I’m 16 and it’s gotten to the point were I’m just like what am I doing wrong because it’s not like I’m getting rejected I just can’t even find a person. So does anyone have any recommendations on how to meet people and from there a relationship and not a friendship? (I’d prefer to date a girl at the moment btw but I’m open to both)

I mean every relationship starts as a friendship right, so just be yourself my guy. You're fine looking, and I'm straight.

[cinderfella]

I mean every relationship starts as a friendship right, so just be yourself my guy. You're fine looking, and I'm straight.

Like him you are fine looking. Unlike him I'm gay!

[JakeDunham]

Hahaha thanks for the compliments guys it’s nice to hear

[ShineintheDark]

As a fellow bi Brit, I relate on a very deep level about not having anyone or doing anything despite the fact that literally everyone around you has. I'm not the best person to recommend anything but see if you can join any LGBT clubs or something in your area to find attractive and nice people. From your photo, you seem quite a cute guy so I don;t see any reason why at least one person won't happily at least consider dating you.

[Vegas2933]

So I’ve never gone out with a girl or a guy (I’m bi hi) and I’m 16 and it’s gotten to the point were I’m just like what am I doing wrong because it’s not like I’m getting rejected I just can’t even find a person. So does anyone have any recommendations on how to meet people and from there a relationship and not a friendship? (I’d prefer to date a girl at the moment btw but I’m open to both)

The exact same thing is happening to me. And I'm just as clueless. :(

[Dontworryaboutit]

Make your intentions clear right away. Don’t let it slowly progress into a friendship, that’s only setting up for a friend zone. Instead, let her know that your interested in her romantically, after a week or so, and whatever she says, just go off of that. As far as meeting someone, parties and school are what I mainly do, but sometimes a concert or a movie might help. Just go to places you like and look for people that like them too.

[Franciscofixe]

So I’ve never gone out with a girl or a guy (I’m bi hi) and I’m 16 and it’s gotten to the point were I’m just like what am I doing wrong because it’s not like I’m getting rejected I just can’t even find a person. So does anyone have any recommendations on how to meet people and from there a relationship and not a friendship? (I’d prefer to date a girl at the moment btw but I’m open to both)

I have the same problem as you. I don't find the right girl, eventhough I want to...

[Harrier]

Do you have interests? Track runners seem to date track runners. Band members seem to date band members. Drama geeks tend to date drama geeks. Etc

[Just JT]

Do you have interests? Track runners seem to date track runners. Band members seem to date band members. Drama geeks tend to date drama geeks. Etc

I agree. You need to find a common interest first. Then build a friendship from there, and see where that goes.
But don’t rush into something and date someone or whatever because of other people’s perceptions or social expectations.
When the right person comes around that’ll be that...

[JustMyHumbleOpinion]

I think first off try to find new people! This could be youth groups or just getting out there and striking up a conversation with someone new in school. As others have said, finding someone with similar interests is always good.
Maybe join a after school club/group that do something you are interested in?

I think maybe try to mingle more with your friend's friends, i actually met my current BF through a good mate, this way is fairly easy as you have that friend who can kinda start you off.

As the poster above me said, don't date just because all your mates are and you are not- you will find someone at your own pace.

Be patient, you will meet someone in your own time, but by opening up your social life you can increase your chances of meeting someone you actually like.